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Thanks for admitting you use "obtuseness" as a tactic. In that you are quite successful.
MediaAdmin 1746 reads
posted
1 / 11

Just a reminder that there are other discussion boards on TER that you may find 'fits' some discussions.

The ONE that comes to mind is Politics and Religion.  Discussions on these subjects should be on that board, not on General Discussion.  

And, if you have thin skin, don't post!  It is not a board if you get your feelings hurt too easily.  

But, it can be very entertaining board at times.

Black-Panther 91 reads
posted
2 / 11

And that is THE problem. People with "thick" skin come on the regular boards and feel everybody else should have 'thick' skin.  When the PR group makes comments outside of PR they chase away regular members and providers

 
They bring their baggage and attitude to everywhere else. They come out of PR all amped up or from years of arguing with the same people, New people and those that don't visit PR aren't used to it or feel like 'outsiders' because the Laffy, BPOS, CDL, etc  crap spills over and infects the other boards.

That is a TER Mod issue. TER mods feel everybody else should grow a pair, as do those who migrate from the PR board.
Even your post says as much.  

 
My comments are in hopes of what your post is trying to do, keep the crap in the PR board. But you let Laffy and BPOS for example, spill over to everywhere else.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 62 reads
posted
3 / 11

to other boards from the P & R board, and I resent your characterization that I do.  However, if others bring it in the form of personal attacks, I will stand up for myself.  That's called "having a pair"  If Admin just stuck to the rule about removing flames and off-topic posts, I don't think there would be much of a problem on other boards.  As far as P & R, its the wild west, with gunslingers walking around just waiting to "plug" you, and I agree its not a place for thin-skinned people.   I will often use sarcasm, obtuseness  and humor in my responses, but its not mean-spirited unless someone has attacked me.  So if you're lumping me with  those that put their rabid political commentary on this or other boards, then you haven't done your homework.  There are three or four guys from P & R that follow conservative TER members around the various boards in order to harass and attack them.  I'm one of the targets, not one of the perpetrators, so with all due respect, lumping me in with those guys shows you don't know what you're talking about.    As I said, the solution is to remove flames and off-topic posts AS IT SAYS THEY WILL DO AT THE TOP THIS BOARD, and the problem  will  go away.  

inicky46 61 Reviews 96 reads
posted
4 / 11

That said, as someone who tries not to bring a "P&R attitude" to other boards, I probably fail some of the time and so do you. But I agree that in our direct comments to each other we tend to be pretty civil. But you and BPS certainly BOTH bring your cage-match mentality to the K-Girl Board and I haven't noticed the combativeness is all his fault. I'll concede the K-Girl board has been the "other toxic swamp" here for years. And that's not entirely your fault.
As for P&R, I don't shrink from the fact that I've contributed mightily to making that place a Monkey House of poo flinging. But most of the regular posters there are equally guilty. I think TER tolerates it because they need the activity and there are probably a lot of lurkers who are entertained by it.
I used to be more moderate there but the present political situation has pushed me into total intolerance of the right. I've had it.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 101 reads
posted
5 / 11

bringing political discussions or attacks onto other boards.  We have disagreed on this board, but it is usually on a topic that is germane to this board and is not about politics.  I admit I enter the P & R swamp a few times a week, and its a good place to blow off some steam and poke the bear a little with the really wound-up dudes for entertainment value via the ensuing meltdown they invariable have, but I think there are few times, if any, where I have added a political jab or comment to my posts on this board on other topics, or on the Kgirl or Regional boards.

 
And thank you for the compliment in your headline.  The English language is rich with opportunities to derive multiple meanings from words for everyone's amusement.  I wasn't sure whether I should use "obtuseness", but autocorrect here did not flag it, so there it is with TER's seal of approval.  Since you put it in quotation marks, I take it that Conan disagrees.    Lol  

-- Modified on 8/19/2020 5:35:45 AM

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 86 reads
posted
6 / 11

The P&R forum is the wild west.  It's a good place to keep feuds etc.   It's kind of annoying to see them spread to other forums.
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I am not a fan of censorship, but all things have limits otherwise the worst crowd out the best.  So I do think moderators should be more active in nipping personal attacks in the bud.  I know they will inevitably play favorites but the alternative is worse.

GaGambler 116 reads
posted
7 / 11

BLPOS has been causing drama on the K-Girl board since it's very first day and he does so with people who have NEVER been on P&R so once again a certain idiot has things all wrong.

 
Back to the subject at hand. I am hardly a fan of censorship, but I have no problems if Admin starting deleting political posts on this board regardless of who posts them. It might cut down on the stalking I get from certain members here, especially the one who has the words "your messiah" in virtually every post he directs at me. I don't respond to any of them, but that doesn't seem to count for anything I suppose.

inicky46 61 Reviews 86 reads
posted
8 / 11

You are a total fraud and hypocrite with your bullshit about "I don't talk TO Laffy, I talk ABOUT him." And you talk ABOUT him ALL THE FUCKING TIME. So that's a lie. He's so deep under your skin a tick couldn't get deeper.
Just like your lie about me above. Typical bullshit logic-chopping from the biggest liar on this, or any, board. Was your sense of shame removed before or after your sense of humor?

Robertini 4 Reviews 73 reads
posted
9 / 11

I'm not a "real" hobbyist.  
What do I know about politics or religion.  
I don't even post anything interesting anywhere in this site.  
I don't even need a thick or thin skin because just like in real life I'm invisible.  
Whatever I say doesn't mean anything.  

Can we not vote for any of those two guys trying to be president and instead do something totally different?  
Any ideas on how can we be led and controlled and by who?  
See, this is the type of stuff I post.

Black-Panther 121 reads
posted
10 / 11

Yes, you do CDL. You add to the drama. You start every response with a lawyer "100 percent disagree" and attack from there. The response, "I don't do anything" is disingenuous. If you didn't react at all and took the higher ground, we wouldn't have 50 response threads. Exactly what I mean by bringing the shit show and attitude from P$R onto the General Boards.

 
"Grow a Pair"? Why not "Grow Up" and learn to not let the little kids get under your skin and HAVE to respond to everything. That isn't growing a pair, that is grade school behavior or in your case, welcome to the show, Boomer. Being the 'big man' and the accompanying attitude is exactly what I'm talking about. It's not just Laffy, BPOS, etc., you're feeding into the drama. And voila, the proof of the taste is in the pudding, and we're in a big fat bowl of pudding.

 
You relish the fight, can't help yourself. Just like the "CDL Corner" thread, you can't help yourself but to respond.  All this "chest pounding" chases people away.  Look at this thread. If you hadn't had responded, then it wouldn't have attracted all the flies. The usual cast of characters.

And I'll take my advice and leave this right here without further response.

MediaAdmin 92 reads
posted
11 / 11
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