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secrtasianman128 2 Reviews 1666 reads
posted
1 / 20
Tips for a long appointment

I'm booking a 5 hour appointment with a provider (first time meeting her). I don't usually book this long, but she had great reviews.

Any advice for preparation (do people purposely not jerk off for a few days before?) or fun ways to spend a longer visit like that (thinking maybe a couple of different outfits for her, drinks, maybe making use of a hot tub)?

Thanks!

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 76 reads
posted
2 / 20
I always try to be ready for when the . . . .

mood strikes me for multi-hour sessions like you are planning, so I haven't jerked off in nearly 20 years.  

 
If you are good for MSOG and can manage three, most providers give a pretty good massage, so you can divide the 5 hours like this . . . . fuck, massage, fuck, massage, fuck.  If you are not anticipating being able to have that much sex, then a meal can be added, or watch a movie together, or teach her how to play backgammon for money and then win half the donation back.  

RespectfulRobert 86 reads
posted
3 / 20
A few things...

Are you sure about seeing her for 5 hours? If you get in that room and for some reason you dont click, maybe a personality difference for example, that is a disaster for you waiting to happen and the money for that kind of session is no doubt exorbitant. I would suggest you see her first for a 90 mins or 2 hour date first but that is just my 2 cents.

 
I have done the 5 hour+ date on many occasions and with the right girl, they can be an awesome experience. I usually start with Champagne/wine with appetizers i.e. cheese/crackers/fruit/hummus etc. That gives you plenty of chat time and allows the girl to feel comfortable with you. For these type of dates I like to do outcall so I can prepare everything before the girl arrives. I also like to get a suite, as a an ordinary hotel room can be a bit cramped for that amount of time.  

 
Typically I also bring a bottle for cold shots as they are always fun. Many women love the flavored vodkas or something like Fireball, a cinnamon whiskey but I get the girls take on that first. A small gift at the end can cap a truly memorable experience.

anthony1976 25 Reviews 76 reads
posted
4 / 20
Long Dates

You don't say if she requires "public time". Many providers do require you spend time time outside the room, something like lunch or dinner.
I have done a number of these and always bring my own condoms and lube, just in case. I don't drink on dates but you may consider wine and some snacks.  
If you have any interest in it, ask her if she has various types of toys.
Above all, discuss with her what you are looking for.

hokjock 22 Reviews 79 reads
posted
5 / 20
I only

Do long dates, usually four hours though.  We start with dinner.  I usually try to get a booth and sit on the same side.  Get close and see how affectionate she is.  Does she touch your arm, leg, give pecks on the cheek or lips occasionally when you say something funny?  Try to build a rapport.  Lots of flirting.  It's a wonderful way to start the evening.

Take a good hour at least at dinner.  Drinks, appetizer, main dish.  Then I recommend getting a dessert to go.  Take it back to your room and refrigerate for later.

Start on the couch and move slow.  Lots of foreplay, you have the time.  

Enjoy the dessert together between play.  Show off pictures of your kids or other things you can talk about.

If you want to abstinate beforehand that will make your first orgasm quite powerful but you may need more time between sessions to wake up.

Anyway, I think you will enjoy the experience.  Quite curious who this is you're seeing.

CurlyW-NatsFan 83 reads
posted
6 / 20
Some tips...

Carry some Tylenol and a good book to read.. I hope you like reading...  LOL...  

 
Bitches start yapping too much, I tune them out and bury myself in a book.

Hpygolky 233 Reviews 88 reads
posted
7 / 20
You didn't learn anything from 8 months ago?

You asked this on the newbie board, so how did that date work out??? Did you end up finger bangin her at the restaurant?...lol.

-- Modified on 11/10/2022 9:17:40 PM

Related Link: https://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/newbie---faq-33/etiquette-for-a-longe...

BigPapasan 3 Reviews 96 reads
posted
8 / 20
Good catch, hpy! E


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1angelinajones See my TER Reviews 84 reads
posted
9 / 20
5 Hours

Just my ten cents....

Take her out for a 30 minute coffee date.
If the conversation is lively with natural flow
and you feel instant chemistry,  then proceed.

Five hours is significant for one of you to just
fall asleep after the first three hours......zzzzz

-- Modified on 11/11/2022 2:35:17 PM
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John_Laroche 74 reads
posted
10 / 20
Break the ice first

Get round one out of the way, then dinner,  then round 2...and 3.

impposter 49 Reviews 107 reads
posted
11 / 20
Re: Some tips...

Posted By: CurlyW-NatsFan
Re: Some tips...
Carry some Tylenol and a good book to read.. I hope you like reading...  LOL...  
Bitches start yapping too much, I tune them out and bury myself in a book.

holystonethedeck 104 Reviews 73 reads
posted
12 / 20
Re: I only

Posted By: hokjock
Re: I only
 If you want to abstinate beforehand...
Abstinate??

hokjock 22 Reviews 86 reads
posted
13 / 20
Re: Break the ice first

It depends on what you call breaking the ice.  Is sex the ice breaker, or the dinner?

blue5361 190 Reviews 87 reads
posted
14 / 20
Just stupid!

A five hour session with a new provider is just plain stupid in my opinion. If you live close to her and she’s in your town why not spread that time over days or weeks? I’m in this for the sex, not dinner or conversation, and five one hour sessions or even a one and then two two hour sessions will probably result in 4x or 5x more actual engaged sex time!  

Also, I like to mentally review a session for some time while planning my next session! What did I like? What did she like? What positions did we forget to try?  

When I click with a provider and then I return shortly thereafter, she usually seems genuinely excited and appreciative of the return! This is a great time for a two hour session! In every case I think I can say the experience gets more intimate, and the sex gets better with 3-4 repeat sessions over a month than when compared to one marathon session.

This is just my approach, although I realize we all have different time constraints and budgets!

mrfisher 115 Reviews 80 reads
posted
15 / 20
Perfectly cromulent word, eom


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lester_prairie 12 Reviews 78 reads
posted
16 / 20
Re: Perfectly cromulent word, eom

An abstinate spirit embiggens the smallest man.

inicky46 61 Reviews 87 reads
posted
17 / 20
embiggens is a risible word, Fester.


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secrtasianman128 2 Reviews 98 reads
posted
18 / 20
Thanks

I live somewhere not that close to high end providers so shorter appointments with upscale providers aren't really an option.

Thanks to everyone for the above :)

hokjock 22 Reviews 79 reads
posted
19 / 20
Re: I only

Maybe I made it up, lol.  To be abstinent.

Kitty76 See my TER Reviews 94 reads
posted
20 / 20
Tips for a long appointment

secrtasianman128,
  First of all, If I was you. I never would have scheduled a long 5 hour session with any Escort (High End or not). You got to figure out what to do during those sessions. Are you going out for 3 to 4 hours then heading back to her place? Be safe!!!

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