and won't shut up...#makeitstop

Interested in hearing further.  Have most hobbyists lost their minds?

Translation - I like spending time with you, but I'd rater get it for free.

I would think most hobbyists would know better.  IMHO that sounds a little insecure and for the ones that do feed those lines, they're just trying to get more menu items for their compliments.

With a VERY nice TER hobbyist.  We had a great time together, and the passion and our chemistry was off the charts.  He didn't make false promises, except to say he'll see me again, and I sincerely believe he will.  

Perhaps you’ve been in the business so long that the annoyance is getting to you with those first date redundant, continuous over-the-top affectionate expressions of love. Although it is odd that dudes can say how much in love they are with you on first meeting, but if it’s fickle or not until the next one comes along, they’re still paying for that fantasy at that moment. Every provider should be so special and entitled to taking the money and faulting the customer for doing so over what appears to be such a minor inconvenience.

until the hour is up and IMO he certainly should be able
dream it, even want it at the time and dare I say, "say it".

I agree with others that it's his fantasy, and he's expressing that fantasy, even if that fantasy could never become reality.

with words like you are so sexy/beautiful, etc... If I said them, I meant them. Just as providers often assert that their compliments are genuine, so must I assert that the guys' compliments are probably genuinely felt.

and yours is outstanding

Why would a guy do that?... Kind of presumptuous that the girl might actually be interested as well.. silly..
Sometimes, over time, things may develop.. but on the first date? We exist in an upside down World.. In the real World.. there is time to get to know someone before intimacy . in our World, intimacy is first and then maybe we are lucky enough to make some sort of connection.. after a while. For sure after more than one meeting..

(Yes, I'm being facetious.

in compliments, real or embellished. If you can elicit a compliment  
for your services, appreciate it. Every one comes from a different place because each comes from a different guy.

Also just say to the hobbyist.
We can talk after our third or fourth date.
So what time next week?  
 

Telling her how beautiful and sexy she is doesn't promise anything...if I feel that way and had a good time I'm going to say so...but at the same time I try not to make grand gestures and promises...my tendency after a particularly good first date is to ask her if I can call on her again...

Some guys can be prone to say anything and it means zero.  They just have poor social skills and/or are neurotic.  So what?  You're being paid to support whatever illusion they want to spin.  Just roll with it.  But feel free to come here to vent.  It's fine.

Ladies say things all the time that are part of the fantasy, and are certainly not completely true.  One of my ATFs offered to show me around town the first time I met her....no way was that going to happen, at least for free.  I have had women say "I adore you", this is "my best date in a year", "that was my favorite review ever".  (And an old girlfriend said I had a "perfect penis", but I digress...)  Let's not even talk about what might be said in the throes of passion (fake passion or real passion).

Then another thing to make promises, like the ones in octavia.lexa thread.
I can see how it can be a annoying at times.
If a person is all talk and does not back it up. Lol
 

... I never promised any lady anything except a good time.

At least he showed up and wasn't a no show-no call.

Don't you think those guys are just trying to get something "extra" from you?

OK, that's bit of an exaggeration, but only one provider gets the "I love you's":  my ATF.  And it took probably about 2 years to get to that comfort level, where I could say it and mean it, and she could hear it and not freak out:  "OH SHIT...he's attached to me!!!"

I am even guilty of this from time to time. In the heat of the moment I have probably promised 500 different chicas that I wanted to take them away for the weekend, go to the beach together, or all sorts of other promises that drunk horny guys often make.  

A grandiose, post-orgasm promise that is completely sincere for no more than 1 hour after ejaculation

Like when I first walk into a session and she confirms how long I want to stay and I tell her I want to stay for the entire weekend, or if at the end of the session I tell her I will be back in  a couple of hours to come see her again, these kinds of "Promises" are rarely meant to be taken seriously

geez, i would think that part of the p4p experience is to make it a fantasy that both parties realize is just a fantasy.  and part of my fantasy with women is to tell them how incredibly beautiful they are.

No time to read all the replies so I apologize for any duplicated sentiments, but I have to very seriously mention:  

Trickanese.... That's funny!   Is there a Rosetta on that language? LOL