It seems that a man is just happy to have sex and all that matters to him are how attractive he finds her and how willing she is to do things. That's all it takes for a man. However the sex itself is all about pleasing the woman, making sure she's satisfied, since the man is just happy to get some in the first place....

Not all men. Some guys just use their bodies for their own personal pleasure and pay them to leave. Others are so insecure that they feel they have to prove to hookers that they are Supermen in bed. These are the ones who write reviews claiming the girl had 14 orgasms.

In my view the sex with most escorts is pretty much for the guy.   Eating pussy, etc....are things the guy enjoys doing and he should not be so immersed in his thoughts about making sure the gal is enjoying herself as it is about him carrying out his fantasy.

It doesn't take a superman in bed for the woman to have "14"  orgasms.  It is the woman doing it with stimulation, both physical and mental.  If you are truly an "Oldtimemonger" and you have never experienced a woman having orgasm after orgasm, then I feel bad for you. Keep searching. They are out there and they are fantastic.

being pleased and it seems my interests have a direct correlation to what I get back ....

He's happy...she's happy.Whats the problem

that a woman would receive, as well as give, pleasure?

Mostly it's about the reverse.  Then there are some guys (including me) who get pleasure from giving it.  Up to a point.  But it's still basically about getting my nut.  That's what I'm paying for.  As a friend of mine says, "You can come while I'm here, or you can come after I'm gone."
What a prick.  LOL!

If I'm paying her, then she is supposed to please me.  If she's paying me, then I need to please her.  However, if she's being paid to please me and enjoys what she's doing and happens to get an O along the way, its okay with me even though I'm paying.  No need to be selfish with the O's.  There's plenty to go around for everyone in the room.

...BOTH of us!

Pro "wrassling" isn't real???!!! Tell me it isn't so.  

If I'm making love to a provider, and she's getting as much enjoyment out of it as me, not only does it make me feel good about myself, but I'm also more likely to get grandfathered rates, OTC time, and other benefits.

and there are LOTS of BSU's who only seem to get pleasure by deluding themselves that the lady "got hers" too. Or in the case of some of the worst of them, that the lady got 14 orgasms through DATY alone.

Me, of course.  

The only acting I require is if they come off as not being annoyed by my presence.  It might be worthy of an Academy Award, but I'm sort of demanding in that regard.  Other than that, the dramatic O's and "squirts" I can take or leave.

I'll just blame beta, lol.

is a win-win in your case..

mature in our experiences and/or outlook on life can appreciate being with outstanding ladies such that we can find here on TER. No, all ladies in the sex business are not the same--not even all TER ladies. Some ladies are way more professional in what they do yet personal in how they do it with their clients.

no matter what she says. As a previous poster said, there's pills that can be held in the vagina to provide a lot of juice, techniques for raising body temperature, etc.

Sorry Oldtime,  not buyin' this  for one second. I get as much pleasure getting them off as I do myself. She can`t be faking when she  aggressively   pushes my head off her clit cause its now super sensitive or her post O' glassy eyes, change in her tone of voice, body language, purring etc. If that`s fakin' I`m buyin'

Now we have two true believers. The "sensitive clit from cuming" is easy to fake. These girls are Master Bullshit artists in the sack.  

I give 10s because I see women that deserve 10s.  It is called discernment. Go ahead and look at the reviews of the women I have seen. What are their averages?  And, I never claimed I "gave" any of these women orgasms.  

I think it's just about how comfortable you are with your body and how much you can relax. I've definitely had 14 orgasm sessions (with partners and clients)   If the chemistry is there, it's easier for me to relax. I've found if I squeeze when having sex then I orgasm quicker ans some positions make it easier to orgasm for some reason. Either way, I'm definitely multi orgasmic and if I don't come atleast 6 times in a session, something is wrong

thanks Chloe, Point went taken.

Posted By: chloemercier

I think it's just about how comfortable you are with your body and how much you can relax. I've definitely had 14 orgasm sessions (with partners and clients)   If the chemistry is there, it's easier for me to relax. I've found if I squeeze when having sex then I orgasm quicker ans some positions make it easier to orgasm for some reason. Either way, I'm definitely multi orgasmic and if I don't come atleast 6 times in a session, something is wrong

Making love to a provider? Wow isn't that ambitious? I thought you were just supposed to have sex or fuck em? Special.

They cant fake being sensitive down there or act impassioned/glossy eyed? You're buying that? I have lots of bridges to sell you in Arizona.

Of course "if" the queen had balls, she'd be the king.  

This is a funny thread. After my first few encounters I learned what an idiotic thing it was to try and please a woman.  
In general I find men are not very good at pleasing but we excel at receiving pleasure. Also, in my limited experience I have learned that both parties will enjoy it more if you don't obsess about pleasing her.  

it's all about me busting that nut, and she doing whatever it takes to help get me there. If I'm the one pleasing her then she's supposed to be the one paying me, that's just how I see it. But don't get me wrong, it doesn't mean that she has to pay me if she just so happens to have an orgasm during the encounter, it may even help increase my mileage for future encounters. I'm talking about deliberately going out of my way to please her, I ain't talking about a coincidental orgasm. What's the point if they're faking it anyway? Why not just go along with the fantasy and not ruin the moment with an anti-climactic dose of reality?

I don't think it's that the "man is just happy to get some in the first place" it's that he's happy to make her orgasm because typically women take longer/more effort to cum. Not sure if this was a question or statement lol

I assumed OP was being ironic....