For those who now the story I'm sorry.

I was a utr girl working her way thru school. I got a referal from a friend who said the guy was fine but tired of just her. He called and asked if I was submissive. I said sure not really knowing he meant something other than him taking the lead. Halfway thru our session, in Doggie, he starting pulling my hair really hard so I asked him to take it easy. He became mad at me, called me filthy names, backhanded me 3 times and pushed me hard into the headboard. I curled up into a ball hoping he wouldn't hit me anymore while he dressed. He called me some more names, grabbed his donation, and told me if I told anyone abou this he would find me and kill me.

After he left I locked the door and called the two people I knew I could trust. A girl who carried a weapon and my favorite client/BF. The girl arrived in 20 mins and my fav client in 2hrs. My BF found the man and assured me he would not come looking for me.

I was done working right then and concentrated on my schooling and my BF.


Samiam

Glad you were not seriously harmed.

It's disgusting what both providers and clients do to each other sometimes. I wish you the best!!

I agree with LR that it is disgusting what we do to oneanother. This is an arrangement that most all of us understand and comply to. Every relationship in life is based upon respect, regardless of how intimate that relationship is. I'll make the assumption that you are happy now, and I think that's great. Men like myself that don't attract beautiful women suffer because of idiots like the guy you described. I'm sure there are more good, respectful hobbyists than the one you described.

But I was told it isn't smart.
Look.. From a man's point of view..
Someone fucks with you.. Shoot them in the face!

And what makes this worse is that you could not call the police.  No chance you are the only woman he has done this to.

Or did you forget the quotation marks on your story .
   One minute you are a man, the next minute you're a woman .
 That's not a reason to knock you around , but some guys with violent tendencies get weird ,
  when the wig comes off the  bald man .  
 I never forget a bull shitter's face .    

o different people share that username. They are a couple. Many here know that and also know which one of them is posting at any time, by the post and by the sign off. You are around here enough that you should be one of the folks That know. Back in the days when we had multiple aliases they used different aliases to post. They no longer have that freedom so they share a username. Is that so hard to understand? And in case you are still having trouble "samiam" is the Mrs. and OSP is the Mr.

This idiot should retire.  How hard can this be?

banned.

under the same username? Since that's against the rules, you assume it's one person who can't get their story straight and becomes an annoyance. I hit the ignore button awhile ago on the username. Not all of us spend tons of hours on here or are backchannel buddies to know someone isn't freaking bipolar or whatever w/ their stories. So you move on...

That's a lot of venom.  I believe there are 1 or 2 other couples that use the same user name as well.  Should they all pay for two accounts?

b/c no one is supposed to share their username and if that's not the case and unless you're in the know that some people can share usernames, how are the rest of us to know? For the rest of us, it comes off as reading a username constantly pulling our chains with switching btw "I'm a man today, no I'm a women." Sorry that sounds like venom to you, but if we have no clue, we have no clue. And when I think someone is pulling chains with their story (I've been an escort 20 yrs, now today I've only been one 3 yrs, etc.), the poster comes off as not genuine & I just stop reading those posts.  

"Well good for Mrs. and Mr. for getting around the rules w/ sharing a username and IP address."

Good for them. Just understand when people are put off or confused b/c they think it's a troll and aren't backchannel buddies to know it's two different people using the same username. Some people get banned for this offense, others bypass certain rules here and good for them on the rules they bend. To each their own, that's all

Thanks for the tip .  

I am so sorry to read that. What a bastard!! I hate that some men do that. It really enrages me. He never hurt your friend? Thank goodness you lived to tell the story. My heart goes out to you.

I don't understand why they don't just get different accounts already.  And I really don't understand why TER allows it.  Whatever.  I guess they're special for reasons I neither understand nor care about.  I ignore most of their posts anyway.

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...I don't understand why they have to share the same handle.  One can use the handle and one can use the alias if they can't afford two accounts.

Why should we have to go to the trouble of figuring out by the post or by looking at the signature to see if it's Mr. or Mrs. who is posting.  It's not fair to the rest of us.  If 'perfectstorm' posts, I immediately know who it is.  The same rules should apply to everyone.

TER does not allow multiple usernames from the same IP, so if they signed up for multiple usernames, then they would be breaking the rules. TER also does not allow providers and hobbyists to sign on from the same IP. Samiam is retired. She is no longer an active provider, so that is not breaking a rule. I assume TER also would not allow more than one hobbyist submitting reviews from the same IP. None of this applies to them. All they are doing is posting from the same handle. I never saw a rule that said two people living in the same house can not share a username to post on boards.  

As I said above to Natasha there are rules prohibiting multiple usernames from the same IP, and rules against hobbyists and providers using the same account, but how is a couple using the same account violating those?

They write completely differently.  Either that or you have to believe it's one person creating two different personas to amuse themselves.  Either way, who cares?  I can't believe the amount of energy that's already been wasted on this.

The rest of us posted that we were confused too, b/c we didn't know two people could share a username. Some of us don't pay attention to posters if we think they're just being trolls, and obviously we wouldn't know if we didn't know you can use one username. What's obvious to you, isn't to others. Nonetheless if the topic is useless to you, post somewhere else. No one is forcing you to be a part of this conversation. Really.


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For someone who claims not to care, you seem to be spending a great deal of time and energy sustaining this conversation.  Not to mention that your last couple of sentences are incomprehensible

please know -- most men are NOT like this.  this person sounds like a legitimate sociopath to me who enjoys degrading women.  he represents an extreme minority of the hobbyist -- and general male -- population.

A tip for you . Don't try to get the last word in with him or you'll loop that song  .  
  The more he doesn't care the more he will yap  .
  I'm not sure if the  guy below is his BFF , alter ego ,  clone ,  or he had  a  
   difference in opinion  .  LMAO      He'll stalk your words if you keep going .
 
  So much about crumbs , ass the world turns .

This is nothing new to most of us, they have been here for several years and I am with Inicky on this, I have no idea why you have wasted so much bandwidth on this very old topic.

Sorry you had to go through that and continue to deal with it. There is no doubt this probably happens more than we know and the girls are afraid to say anything. Kudos to you for coming out with it and telling your story.

I don't believe this story.

Clearly your inability to read and comprehend suggests that for YOUR safety you shouldn't be playing where the big kids play.

from providing. Her story has been out here many times and many choose to believe.  
Feel free to believe it or not believe it, just like anything posted on an internet forum.

you should have just kicked him in the nuts jumped on them sprayed in the eyes with chemical cleaner and kicked his ass on the street, me in the uk we can call the police they are fantastic they hate guys abusing us