A provider and I became (I thought so) very good friends. She invited me to join her in Las Vegas for a couple of days.  When I indicated I couldn't give her the expected donation she replied she didn't want money for intimancy, just go as friends. Afterward it turn out she wanted the expected donation in jewelry and other material goods.  We have since gone our separate ways, with bitterness toward each other. I learned my lesson!

If she in fact misled you, then shame on her.  But I'd urge you to review things in detail and ask if you bear some of the responsibility for a misunderstanding, or if you just didn't read her properly.

Responsible providers don't mislead clients about this type of thing, and there are plenty of providers who in fact relax the rules for certain clients or in certain circumstances and who DO want to be friends with clients.  They're good people for the most part and don't try to trap clients.  

As the song says, "Pick yourself up, brush yourself off, and start all over again!"

And we agreed to put it in writing but she ultimately chose love over money.  Go figure...

The kind of provider he describes and the kind you describe both exist.  I obviously don't know the facts of this situation but it wouldn't shock me if the story were exactly true as it stands.

I've been lucky enough to have met a few of the second kind and I've had no cause to doubt their friendship or regret mine.

she didn't want money for intimancy, just go as friends


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I don't know the whole story but in recent years, LE has been able to bust providers on a client that they used for many years.
Never say sex for money no matter how long you know each other.

I used to work at a parlor, when it got busted--LE made a deal w/ the owner to keep the place open and they would come in a bust who they wanted and give immunity to the owner.

That may be why my case hasn't ever gone to trial and it happened in january.

ps. once we submit a site, can we change the link?
I have added private/ to the end of my url to protect children