I have noticed that almost all providers close their eyes during the heart of the session. I am talking about during the actual act of intercourse (I know that the better GFE will look into your eyes when performing BJ). But during intercourse, they almost always close their eyes. My guess is that they are fantasizing the client is George Clooney, Brad Pitt, Johnny Deep, or whoever. Am I correct on this?
So far, there was this one young provider (early 20s). She kept her eyes open during intercourse. She was a visiting tourist from another country. I think she is fairly new as a provider, at the very least the first time doing this in the United States. Not only did she kept her eyes open, she moved her head in for some DFK and back. She stare deep into my eyes and grip me really tight with her arms during ACG. I am sure that she O maybe multiple times. Needless to say that was one of the best sex I ever had in my life. Lucky/unlucky for me, she was only visiting for 1 week. If not, I will be seeing her every couple of days. My question is " Is it rude to ask a provider to look deep into my eyes during intercourse? " I know I can ask and the worse she can say is no. But I think the eyes are one of those tell-tale signs that is very hard to lie. And if I ask the provider to do something that she is not comfortable with it would get real awkward real fast. What do you guys think? What do you girls think?

For the record, I often am thinking of someone else in order to "finish"  

staring into his eyes during ACG...mirror or contortionist?

Great question!  For me, it's a case by case kind of thing.  While some clients feel that eye contact heightens the experience and creates a more intense connection, some find it more than a little awkward.  So I'll usually just follow his lead.  If I find that he seems to enjoy watching me watch him, I'll do exactly that.  But if I notice that his eyes are closed, I'll do the same.  

If she wants to shut her eyes will kissing, having intercourse or giving a bj, that is her prerogative.   Asking her to open her eyes is a bit too controlling, at least for me, especially if it is what permits her to do her job.  Ultimately, that is the fear, right?  She won't open her eyes and maybe that is an indication that she does not want to share every bit of intimacy with you and that is a reminder that whatever maybe happening is tied to a wad of C notes.    My thought is this:   tough titties, it is tied to the money, deal with it, have a good time and don't give her instructions on what to do with her eyelids.    Incidentally, some women do shut their eyes even when they are perfectly fine with what they are doing and enjoying it, even in the civvie world.

My ATF for example has this look while giving BJs. I think it's very hot. But I also know not all providers like to do that.  

fucking acronyms

Does it matter? She "O'ed, I'm sure, maybe" ...

Seems kinda creepy to me. Most people close their eyes while kissing/having sex I think.

The last time I had intercourse with my ATF, we locked eyes as we moved slowly. If it had been a real girlfriend, it would have been a romantic moment. I know if wasn't real, but it felt good, and she has beautiful eyes to stare into.

I love making eye contact during sex - and the looks don't matter. The excitement in the eyes is exciting. There's something about being caught in the moment where a guy is really turned on, and in the middle of getting laid.

Don't be so hard on yourself! I wouldn't assume that all providers who close their eyes during "the act" are fantasizing about some (presumably) universally handsome movie star. It may just be a reflex; I'm certain lots of ladies have been known to do so with all types of gentlemen in all types of situations. I also wouldn't consider it rude to ask for what you want; I'm sure you put lots of consideration into selecting the ladies you date and pay top dollar to enjoy their company. Granted, many ladies do not publish their activities publicly and avoid listing them in correspondence, so it may just be a matter of broaching the subject gently.

During sex on my own time I like to close my eyes and drift off and really concentrate and get into the sensations. If my sexual partner demanded I look them in the eyes the entire time I might not get out of it what I deserve and that would be the last time we would have sex.  

Sure I would ask a woman to look at me during sex IF I'm named Brad Pitt, George Clooney or equally good-looking.  

If my eyes are closed, I'm into "it."  Open = I'm into "you."

My sentiments exactly! Almost spooky how identical my response is, down to the Saget preference (smart and funny FTW).

Your conclusion is good, let the lady be, but your reasons are too awful to not comment on.

Funny, I was just thinking today I needed a to add a cute red head to my selection lol. e

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