You can't review us, so let us get some feed back from you on us - First in series [if i get around to more, or if other hobbyists can pick up other poll questions]

What is the AVERAGE GRADE for APPEARANCE you assign to the hobbyists you see ON THE AVERAGE [throw out the highs and the lows - what do most of us look like to you on the average?]

I think what Eugene Levy looks like is the typical appearance of the gentlemen I see....so about a 6-7?

My clients may not be GQ models, but they are generally very intelligent, well educated, and very interesting to be around.

Women are not as hung up on a man's physical appearance as men are on women's....so trust me, if a man is clean, pleasant, and polite, he will have a nice time with a provider.

BTW, I think Eugene Levy is really funny and I would love to meet him!

guess that puts the John Candies at 3-4.
I wonder if a girl has ever said to her self "goddamn these guys are fugly! I really should raise my rates before the next guy calls"???

This cracked me up!  OK, well, I may be fugly but I'm a good kisser!  BTW, I look more like an overweight Rick Moranis

.........if the Gentleman is fun and clean, then he gets an A+ no matter what he looks like!  

Really...the more attractive a Gentleman was, the less fun he was!

THANK YOU KC!! Just because a guy doesn't look good physically, doesn't mean he isn't going to be fun, witty, intelligent and treat you well.

It backs up my next post to scampr very well.

Thanks again.
Jimbomania
PS. Why do all the cool open-minded providers live so far away from central Florida?

Saying that the John Candy's must be a 3-4 is one of the most insulting things I've ever heard in my near 31 years. I have rarely been offended, but scampr's post sure hit me wrong. To think that just because a guy is heavy set that automatically puts him in a low-range as far as attractiveness goes. I really hope you were attempting to be humorous in your post.

At 415 pounds, I know physically I'm no great prize, but when it comes to mentality, charm, passion, humor, honesty and all the things on the inside that truly make a person beauitful you'd be hard pressed to find someone as good looking. In fact, I have been called handsome by some very pretty women just recently. On hotornot.com I have averaged a 6 in looks, and it's a bad picture. Beauty is found within, and everyone is attractive in some form or another. You just gotta look past the end of your nose to see someone on the inside is all.

When I go out to a strip club, the ladies love to spend their time with me because I'm genuine and sweet, and make them laugh (without telling the all too easy fat jokes.) I have more self-respect and a higher level of wit to resort to such cheap laughs. I appreciate them spending their time with me, and they all tell me they'd rather spend time with me than some good looking, thinks he's all that wanna be model boy who treats them, and probably all women like dirt. They have fun, I have fun. And it's all good. The one's who don't wanna spend time with me, it's their call, and their loss. And the other girls tell them later they messed up when they passed me by because they had just as much fun entertaining me as I had being entertained. And on return visits, I end up with four or five in a very short amount of time who at the least wanna sit and chat for a few minutes.

Again, I do hope you were kidding in your post. The mere thought of a provider raising her rates to try and weed-out the less attractive men really gets my blood boiling. Fat guys have money too. Why do you think the big spenders in Vegas are called whales? That's not some cutesy little phrase, it is based in more realities than their bank roll. A provider trying to bid herself up is missing out.

Jimbomania

that genuine charm, intellect and sense-of-humor outweigh good looks, it is my considered opinion (and experience) that deep down women can be just as shallow as men when it comes to physical beauty.

Put more "correctly" (far be it from me to do such a thing!) it is more the case that women ARE more sexually attracted to the Brad Pitts and Keannu Reeves of this world but would then rather settle down with the Eugene Levy and Ray Romano's in "real life"

BTW, I happen to think Eugene Levy is a comic genius and he can marry my daughter or sister any day.

Oh for sure women are shallow, probably more-so than men. I've said before when I'm just out and about I get the Sean Penn look form women. As if they are in a restaurant looking at the menu and don't like the food.

And what most women don't know about the Keanus and Brads and Kevin Costners, Stings of the world is, Keanu and Kevin have about as much talent as a bag of ice, and Brad Pitt, Sting and many other male sex symbols rarely shower and wash their hair. Reports of them smelling bad on the movie set or video shoot are rampant. At least I wash my ass, you know? How these high profile, rich people can not bathe themselves is beyond me. And Brad lands Jennifer ... what about that liberty and justice for all stuff man?

Beauty fades with time, sadly. But a heart of gold never loses its value, as it remains pure through time.

Jimbo

Over the years, I've noticed that the chosen, supposed Male Sex Symbols have rarely 'done it' for me. Most of them get barely an 'eh' from me. Brad Pitt, yuck. The ER guy, what's his name? George Clooney? Eh. Kevin Costner..maybe, though barely. But, any of the ones I really like are not the Sex Symbols, which, to me, is even more appealing. And they aren't necessarily good looking, either. (Like Vincent Dinofrio..he has my attention!)

I don't know necessarily about looks, can't agree or disagree about shallow-ness, but I will say this, that whomever I see in my personal life is someone I must be very much attracted to! (I didn't say he must be attractive - but that I must be attracted to him)
And, your heart decides on its own, sometimes with no choice or warning! And it can be very surprising indeed!

Like I said, anyone can be attractive. Something about them can send you reeling. Might be their intelligence, eyes, hair, build, looks, bank account, car, humor, smile, their power or whatever. But everyone, and I do mean everyone is attractive on some form.

Blessed are those who seek inner beauty.

Sedona, men in your personal life. Now I am jealous.

Moving to SD,
Jimbomania

Physical appearance is always relative to attitude.  Appearance is not an issue, but hygiene certainly is.  A disproportionate number of hobbyists I have entertained failed to see the importance of soap and water.  It is difficult to have a good time when the odor of ball sweat and bad breath permeate the air.

How can any hobbyist expect a provider to enjoy his company when smells like he has not taken a shower in a week?  As providers, we are expected to be clean and well-groomed.  Hobbbyists should have enough considertaion and respect to do the same.

-- Modified on 7/7/2003 2:23:46 PM