Bet many of us are curious......OK........maybe just some of us......at how providers would rate hobbyists.  We have seen threads ad infinitum on the merits of providers rating hobbyists.......but not a specific discussion board input from providers.

come on, stop this nonsense...

Of course you are entitled to your opinion........for opinions are like assholes............everyone has one.

when I worked for a national investment management bank...............my clients were a business to me as well......but

I doubt if any of the guys are concerned about what other guys do or don't do?

So unfortunately, he's ruined it for the majority of others, lol ; ) See, we actually CAN enjoy this...

I'd bet that to the extent providers categorize their clients, the important factors are things.

So many things jokingly said get taken to heart, and feelings get hurt.  

Thank you for your input.  Would you care to respond to my original post?

not concerned in the least bit...........read my original post...........it has all the information you will need to understand my intent.

You can create this client review board if you so desperately desire this information, or pay someone to do so.

yeah...gotta agree, especially about the hygiene and for what i do ...keep in mind manners and respect start from the point of contact

Hey, I am open-minded..........will admit it when I submit a dud post!  Am strongly considering going back to school and learning how to write English.

With the exception of the age and eating of pubes comment.

What is opposie? And how do I know how you are unless I've seen you? Pretty silly comment. It's hard to avoid the ones I don't like unless I've seen you to know better, correct?

Not really.......but somehow feel I may have hit a sensitive nerve.  We are all anonymous here.  Our privacy is being protected.  Within that context, I have nothing to hide.

... as long as the jokes aren't intended to injure the other person, and each party respects the opinion of the other even if they disagree.  

If my choice is to understand the ladies better or to understand my fellow hobbyists, I will take the former hands down, no question about it.   The problem with these general questions is that I would expect that there are guys who are prompt and guys who are not, guys who are clean and guys who are not, guys who are physically attractive and guys who are not, guys who have a modicum of brains and guys who do not, etc. etc.     My guess would be that most guys who do this with some regularity are fine on most accounts, those things that can be controlled such as promptness, respect and hygiene.   Sure, there are outliers, we know that, but as a bunch I would wager that we are fine.

Exactly......hobbyists are paying for a service.....BUT.....that does not give them the right not to be considerate of providers.

hope that made you feel better....."DUDE'......sounds like you need to get laid.  That's my opinion.

Maybe you do not need new friends........maybe you need a new sense of humor.  Most NYers are too direct anyway and have no idea how others take their comments.

Well said. Pangloss!

Don't tell me you are so illiterate that you couldn't insert the T where need be?...

I think my friends just need a tampon.

You are asking about reality. The smart ones don't do anything to detract from the fantasy. That would make any data collected of little to no value.

have an iced tea........put your feet up.......and relax.  Confident nobody is on here to be confrontational.......well ALMOST nobody.

Can not help but wonder what a provider is thinking when you make an appointment........is she happy to see you or happy to see you leave?

Of All the stupid posts that crop up in this group this one rates as #1 of the SPOTDecade.

My post was more about what wasn't said than what was said. No where did I say men should act like assholes, show up smelling like a disgusting old fuck, or anything like that.

I don't even have an ego, which may very well be a personality disorder in and of itself.

Thank you for being open minded..........this post has not generated the response I thought.

some very good points.  But to a certain degree we all must be open to change.......maybe not our core values but only through change do we improve ourselves.

if we can show them the respect and consideration they deserve.........maybe they can" sell us our fantasy" with a little less acting and a small degree of mutual understanding.  No matter the occupation.......no matter the job.......imagine how well people perform when they have positive motivation.

why it was not directed at you.......but at the ladies.  Maybe you would have been considered as one of their LESS favorable clients.  I am sure even YOU do not pay ladies to HATE the time they spend with YOU.

No, no, no, no, no..........not a site.........nowhere did I mention a site.  Just on a one time, now only exchange of some basic information........was wondering if the ladies would provide some insight into what they experience.

I was born in Manhattan and raised on LI.  If you do not know it by now..........NYers are VERY direct.  More direct than people from any other local.  I know because; "it takes one to know one."  Through my travels and sometimes the hard way, I learned about my own directness.......and through self-reflection......found a way to use it as a tool, not an obstruction.

I wanted to say something negative about Twitter, in relation to the free market, the idea of a client review board and generating revenue, but forgot where I was going with it.

What a pathetic reply. Why do you hide behind an alias if you are so wonderful. Maybe, just maybe I might reconsider your stupid insults.

When I leave a date/session, one of the things I like to think about is how much of the lady I met.   Sometimes, I have walked out knowing full well that the answer was zippo and then there have been a few times that I am pretty positive that I met the lady behind the work persona.  However, most of the time it is definitely a mix.

quite sensitive we are........maybe it is time for your annual hook-up with a provider........may help relieve some of the stress you have obviously been under.

your conclusions imply all hobbyists understand what behavior constitutes good manners, respect, and courtesy.  Just read some of the posts in this and other discussion boards and it becomes clear.........that is not always the case.

Only one lady responding to your question is your answer. The majority know that if they told us the truth about what they really think of us, they would be out of business. For example, my lady this morning told me how attractive I am. The perfect thing to say as I'm walking out the door, but, what does she really think?

That being said, I would posit that a lot of the shit we see on these boards is bravado.   That is not to say that there aren't bad apples, they exist, but at least the little feedback that I have is that most guys are fairly decent and respectful.    Then again, you read posts in which the ladies keep harping on something like hygiene and I wonder how fucking hard is it to wash your junk and your ass?  But as I type this, I am reminded that half an hour ago I was switching channels to catch another sporting even and I accidentally stumbled onto something called the "600 pound me" and I can completely appreciate how a big guy may not be able to clean himself up.  

I knew what it meant, but if you could not understand that I was trying to draw your attention to your error, that's not my problem. Rarely are you ever able to compose a passage that is free from spelling errors, and I've yet to see one free from idiocracy or belittling others.

Assuming I want to be like you.

but I'm a lazy American, so chances are I'll never make it.

Just as I thought= too gutless to let us see your reviews and white lists , if any.

Exactly!  I prefer the provider I'm spending time with to be somewhat chatty.  I've been known to have a couple ladies giggling and laughing when I have used my wit and humor mixed in with some dirty talk before the action heats up.  Either that or they're laughing at my pee pee lol

Are you so down on yourself that you don't think you have at least one attribute that couldn't be attractive to a woman like this provider?

Manners: 9

Unfortunately a topic a huge number of johns get all upset about...the abject reality of what hookers really think. Yes we provide a fantasy but we live in reality and we, hookers, have opinions that unless said under an alias (yes I am one of those gutless ones who will not reveal who I am to the board) the cold hard truth upsets johns like no other.  

She means his body or looks. I seem to have the draw of the short straw because I have had johns ask me outright if I am attracted to them or if I find their bodies attractive. I have to manipulate my answer so as not to cut of the money stream..the reason I do this.  

It nice to see the non edited view from the other side of the hill.

Hell, I know full well that the ladies who play with me wouldn't given me the time of day if there wasn't money involved. However two who retired have seen me just for old times sake.One spent 3 hours cleaning my house without pay, And a couple of others spend a lot of time with me off the clock. So Smart ass you don't know me nor do you know WTFYATA

Thank you, one honest person.......no wonder so many fragile egos were shattered by a mere question.  Isn't it interesting how much they revealed about themselves in their banter?

honest man.  I am not so thin skinned...........and can handle the truth..........but if they DID reply.......it would not be about anyone in particular.  That is the beauty of anonymity.  Can you believe how many hobbyists were afraid they would appear less appealing than Brad Pitt if any true inputs were contributed?  Just by their temper tantrums in and of themselves.

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Yet you are still here........let me know when you win that Brad Pitt look alike contest.  I am banging Christie Brinkley but only come back here to read the articles........kind of like why you told your wife you buy Playboy.

Yet you are still here........let me know when you win that Brad Pitt look alike contest.  I am banging Christie Brinkley but only come back here to read the articles........kind of like why you told your wife you buy Playboy.

No no. Not down on myself at all. In fact, today I had a lot of good attributes. I accepted her compliment. I just used it as a case in point, that no matter what's said, one never really knows what a lady is thinking. The reverse is also true. An old friend, who happened to be very nice looking, never accepted the compliments I threw her way. Her quote was always, "It's the sex talking, not you." No matter what I said, she never knew what I really thought of her.  

Or sad.  I'm not sure.  But I'll stick with funny, since you get to laugh all the way to the bank!

we are into negative territory.  Is that even possible?  lol!

... to these idiots who put you on the spot seeking compliments. Or it could be they know the score and like having a beautiful woman compliment them, even if it's not sincere. I prefer honesty. Which is why I never ask a provider if she thinks I'm attractive.  

Oh yes I do know what the fuck I am talking about. I inferred in my post they would not have sex with you for free. Huge difference to hanging out. So sensitive  yet quite the blowhard. And you crapped on someone else for insulting you yet you did the same thing right here by calling me a smart ass. Was not insulted but when the pot stands there with his hands on his hips yelling at the kettle it does seem quite lame.  

It is a legitimate question. Not a popular one by the looks of it around here. I mean Grandpa almost popped a blood vessel, you've got others freaking out all because nobody wants to hear a hooker tell it like it is. You;re safe though, I think two answered out of what...hundreds, and that in and of itself says way more. I am under an alias so could care less what barrage of bullshit I get flung at me.  

My 1 is possibly another hookers 5. Look I have very specific tastes. I like em younger and in amazing shape. I am one of those athletic types that does not deviate much from her own kind. I am not looking for a husband or a boyfriend. I am looking for something that turns my head and that I get what I want from and then I leave.  

The guys are great in personality, okay one is as boring as a box of rocks but sweet. The bodies though...soft, too hairy, pudgy, no tone, belly fat, some have cellulite, and the man boobs.  

I treat my guys as I would want to be treated if I where the john and they were the hookers.  

Unlike many who just get pissed at the reality. The guys I see are really great and I do spend some OTC with them and have been seeing them very frequently for quite some time. Most of my guys I see weekly.  

How many other johns put up threads asking for provider input? Plenty. Unless that input is positive, I guess anything else is unwanted. And how many providers out of the hundreds actually replied? The silence alone says more.

How refreshing..............a dose of reality..........in this fantasy world of ours.  Too bad you are not in Las Vegas, can tell I like you already.

re:So the two who saw you for old times sake..was it sex? Or an OTC visit?

Do you even read your own posts............did you ever think your assumptions could be waaaaaaaaay off..........and talk about trying to squash a dissenting opinion, you should change your TER handle to that?

There are commonalities, to be sure, but it would be wrong to apply the same ratings to providers as to clients. We would rate them on different factors, and I imagine different providers have different preferences, as well.