I spend time with intelligent, interesting older men. Before I started this, men were either kids, my age, a little older, or OLD. As a 20-something, I'd never really have intimate chats w/men 40 and 50 years older than me. I do now, and I'm always learning something new. It has also made me relate better to older people in my personal life (not sexually, but in conversation) and that has actually created some good opportunities.
I like the company of most of my clients. I genuinely look forward to seeing them, and generally, they treat me very well.
I've had some great dates/experiences and hope for more of the same. One of the best was a small, private concert venue in NYC. Another was a winter trip on which I learned to ski.
I am never wanting for sex. I have a lot of sexual confidence in my normal life and am very clear on what I want
That's it in a nutshell. I don't get turned on by danger or illegality or risk, quite the opposite. I don't like living a double life, either. I don't do this for the sex, but do enjoy getting it while the getting's hot (not in all cases, but most).