I use yahoo mail exclusively to communicate with providers.  Lately it has not been allowing me to delete.  For obvious reasons I need to frequently delete.  Went to yahoo help chat.  They confirmed and were able to duplicate the problem by going into my inbox, but could not fix.  Said they would send to engineering to fix.  

When I was in London an article came out discussing some of the issues that yahoo email has. They are not the only ones though; Gmail and Outlook have had some security issues. There are a few secure email providers that I have asked my clients to switch to like Proton Mail. Check it out.  

Options:

based on the contents of your communications.
one good reason not to mention Benjamin in print  

Tutanota is based out of Germany, and the EU is much tighter on privacy. They offer encryption on the emails as well, but I don't use it. I just delete most things.
I try not to say anything too incriminating, either

While my email is secure, I know how easy it is to hack the average person's account. And also, how careless, ignorant, and lazy some people are about passwords and security.

Advice. I have NEVER mentioned money in an email to a provider or booker.  If I need clarification on anything to do with the donation (extended sessions, advertised specials, etc.), it's by text or phone call only.  As you point out, if there's no mention of money, who's to say you didn't just get REALLY lucky on eharmony or match.com?

Absolutely
 

Years ago, I had a problem with my hobby account. I created another free account with the same service to talk about rainbows and kittens and football and pizza and tried to reproduce the problem ... which I did. I asked their help desk for help on the safe account and the solution worked on the hobby account, too.  

still not safe IMHO says the guy who  
never considered a burner phone.

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Personally I am not so paranoid and I mention money in emails and texts all the time. I am just surprised to see someone who is afraid to mention something in an email but has no problem mentioning it in a text. What the heck is the difference?
Hopefully you are not serious and this is just one of your sarcastic posts.

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I'm not paranoid... but I am careful. And I know most women appreciate my comments and careful considerations. In fact,
some demand it ...lol

Disposable burner phone. No account to trace. Can't do emojis with my CF, but I'll really don't give a shit. She'll get over it or get replaced.

hobby address and delete emails almost daily.

protonmail.com or the absolute most secure, safeoffice.com.