Post you exact post on your local board. Let the ladies there pm you to ask.
Also follow the advice of other posts on here.By a member of Ter who has been screened.
The threat of many things and yet a little battered and bruised not lost a penny due to "low funds:
Still....feeling really bad about it
Wondering all day what to do about it
Beyond that, I'm not sure what else to do.
Very sorry this happened to you.
I'm also hoping that the "battered and bruised" is meant figuratively. If literally, then I would not blame you for contacting LE and pressing charges.
She maybe able to get it onto the provider's board to warn others, or at least help you determine the best route to go.
Good Luck!
putting him there is warranted. People who rob, stalk and abuse providers are legit candidates for the BL. And, yes, the PO board is a good place to go. If you're not a member, find one who is to help you.
Just keep in mind, if he has friends on the PO board they may call bullshit on your claim. And, like the RO board, the PO board leaks like a sieve.
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As other members said, you can report him to a blacklist site. That's all you can do about that situation.
What you CAN do for yourself is prevent it from happening again. You might want to hire a screener, or ask a girl in your area to mentor you.
Sometimes guys will just take advantage of a new girl, but more than likely, he's done this before. Yea, some guys are whitelisted...and have just as many blacklistings as whitelistings. Yea, some guys have a reference or two or even three...a reference is only as good as the girl who gives it. Some girls can't remember whether they saw the guy or not, so will say 'he's OK' rather than admit it. Or, they don't set healthy limits and so will think a true creepazoid is OK for everyone else to see, too. Screening is an art and it takes time to perfect (if you can ever even do that)...I've been at it for years (and I am a BITCH lol) and still an asshole slips through once in a while.
Post you exact post on your local board. Let the ladies there pm you to ask.
Also follow the advice of other posts on here.
to handle this for you, get in touch with me Katrina. I travel the Mid-Atlantic region weekly and would be happy to assist.
The shit-smudge who did this to you (or any other provider) needs to be reached out to and have his outlook and perspective adjusted somewhat. Guys like this are usually pussy's that only bully and victimize women, cause another guy might knock them into the next zipcode.
Firm persuasion can usually produce surprisingly remarkable results.
Richard
You were the only person I thought would know who he is
I called twice on the hotel phone because you are not familiar with my cell and knew the hotel I was staying in and you did call back after I left.
thanks so much
I would say the odds of getting robbed by a TER member after 3 weeks is slim to none especially if he was screened.
I am not necessarily calling BS on your post, but I will not take your post at face value either. No one knows who you are or whether or not you are credible.
Not credibility. This is what a newbie does. That is why I have not posted the details. No-one would believe me.
Being new means lots of mistakes ..like when someone says they are a member of this board and they really are not.
You had said previously that you had screened him.
I sent her a PM about this, but no reply. My guess is some guy told her over email he was a member here, and she did not verify that by making him PM her. She probably has no VIP. She may have taken it at face value that what he said was true, but that's about as nuts as believing a guy is not a cop because he says so. She is new, and lucky to be alive.
first he was screened "really hard" but used his TER ID "as a weapon" now we find out he is not a TER member at all, I am sorry about whatever happened to you, as exactly what transpired is not clear either, but you need to get your shit, and your facts together before any one here can offer you any useful advice.
I was giving an example of mistakes made when a provider is a newbie. ( I made that in the past) I am pretty sure the high profile ladies on here have had a guy threaten to give bad reviews or such if they did not give in to certain demands. I have read this many times on here.
I was feeling pretty low about the situation and had no-one to tell and I am glad I let a little of it out on this forum.
I am "too" afraid to go into details for the obvious reasons and also very, very concerned using any blacklist board.
I really do appreciate the ladies on here for their stories
and thank the members for making me feel better about this tricky situation.
Thank you very much!
I get it. She was blackmailed by a TER reviewer, and does not know what to do. My guess is he is making threats to "ruin her" if she tells anyone what he did. My advice...fk him and his handle! Put it on every blacklist site around, and let that punk take his best shot. If he is married, he would be na idiot to try and do a damn thing.
If someone is blackmailing for good reviews from either end, TER won't put up with that. Of course, she has no proof because most guys are not dumb enough to ask for BBFS or threaten via email, when they know the provider trusts them enough and they can do it in person..
Yes, this does happen a lot. Hobbyists use their so called "Reputation" to pimp, extort, and try to get providers to do all sorts of things. "I will give you a 10 if you give me half off." "I will give you a higher score if you let me BBFS." "If you don't give me extra time, it might affect your score. Girls I give 9s and 10s always seem me for half the rate, or off the clock.
It almost looks like you are filling in the answers for her.
I had serious doubts about her story when she first posted it, and now even more since the distinct smell of swiss cheese is in the air.
Don't get me wrong. I trust your hooker translation service, but today I want a refund 
It was a good guess though, right?
after reading her often changing story, I have no idea what, if anything actually happened.
My advice, stick to vodka, it makes you a bitch, but it makes you a smart bitch, or at least a "smart ass" bitch, and I kind of like you that way. Stoned, you might just become "nice" and that would be boring. lol
And mellow chicks bore the shit out of me.
Many members here are fake. They have reviews & never paid to see a provider. I called out a few in the past for writing me fake reviews when I never saw them. Regardless if the score was a 9, or an 8 I still ask for all fake reviews to be deleted. I would hate for another provider to base seeing a member off a review. Sorry this happened to you, but do not let him do it again. Warn other providers.
You post in the PO forum to & have the providers pm you for details. Keep your head up!
Blacklist him on EVERY site and have a large male friend pay him a visit!
Go see a lawyer who has some guts. This is an intentional tort, it sounds like possible extortion,but two can play that game. A good lawyer can obtain his real name and the threat of a lawsuit mixed with the publicity he might face may do the trick without anyone getting arrested on your part. Keep your big tough guys and use a lawyer instead, in matters like this, they are much scarier...
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