I was a regular with an escort whose company I enjoyed. After some time we entered into an exclusive monthly arrangement.  I had been in a relationship with an escort in the past but it didn’t workout.  I like this arrangement because  I enjoy her companionship and of course the sex but with no strings attached. I’m sure I’m paying more than I would for a sugar baby, but when we see each other, its generally  for 3 or 4 days at a time  and often involves traveling together.  I would be interested to here from  both clients and providers who may have had similar experiences

I'll caveat this with I've only ever gone the SB route but have a few hobby friends that have done the exclusive provider route. The provider route will definitely cost you more but the availability and scheduling tends to be much easier. It's easier if you want to travel and easier for last minute +1 types of occasions. Most providers (or at least any you would ever consider on an exclusive basis) are pretty skilled at being able to navigate various situations (I.e. Let's go away for a weekend and lock ourselves in the hotel to I need you as a +1 for a business occasion. On the SB route, it's much easier on the wallet but a few caveats I have found thus far. Takes a while to churn thru to find the right one for long term. Most want long-term and proclaim drama free but the drama seems to appear relatively quickly (if only there was a site dedicated to reviews for SB's where you could, oh wait. Sounds like an expansion opportunity..TER admin, are you,listening). Once you find one you like, the scheduling tends to be a little more complex, especially last minute. If you need them for a business function you have to tread a little more carefully.  Not always suited for a +1 business climate. Hope this helps...

with  escorts, but have never paid for their time.  There is no shortage of escorts that are willing to spend their "vacation" in a foreign destination.  Its rare, but I have had a few turn me down if they're not going to get direct compensation, so I move on.  I have also had some ask what the donation is going to be.  I just tell them I don't pay for traveling companions,  but I pay for all expenses involved.  Either they want to spend their vacation in Paris, London, Brussels, Maui, St. Barts, etc., flying first class, top hotels, and amenities, or they don't.  If they don't, someone else will.  

One was about a week long, and they all (with one exception) turned out fine.  Most were 2-3 nights.

I would pay a rate that compensated them for their lost revenue had they not gone on the trip, and all things considered, we both felt very comfortable with the finances which worked out to about $500-750/day.   This was up to 15 years ago, so some inflation ought to be factored in for today.  Of course I bore the full cost of the travel, hotel, meals, and other entertainment.

The main thing is whether you and the provider feel good about it.   If so, then you're both winning.

These trips have some of the best memories of my life, and that is something to relish.

That's interesting feedback.  I have a few questions:

-Do they provide "quid pro quo services" for the airfare, hotel, etc.?
-I'm curious if these are (TER variety) providers?
-Or are they mostly K-Girls like your reviews?

Thanks!

a lot of our time together with meals, sightseeing (most have never been to some of these locations), etc., which includes sleeping in the same bed at night and all the activities that go with that.  At the time of the invitation, you have to have a frank discussion of mutual expectations and make sure you both agree on the parameters of the trip.   Sometimes I set these up in conjunction with a business trip, and I have to spend a whole day sometime during the week in meetings, so I will suggest she have an indulgent spa day at my expense, which has never been turned down.  Lol

 
In eleven years, I have only taken two Caucasian providers and one Latina, the rest were Asian, but they all seem to enjoy the opportunity for travel to places they have never been that they may not ever get to on their own, regardless of ethnicity.  Asian providers are workaholics, so they seem to prefer shorter trips of 3-5 days.  

The sugar world is in a gray area of legality, but the minute you get a bunch of idiots naming names and reviewing PPM dates along with services provided that will be the end of the sugar world as we know it. Say good bye to Seeking.com, and all the rest of the sugar sites once this happens as they too will be subject to FESTA/SOSTA and that will be the end of that.

 
That said, I have taken a lot of hooker GF's on short trips, only a couple of extended trips though. One was the absolute WORST ten days I have ever spent in my entire life, which was a ten day trip to Hawaii with a K-Girl GF who I had been dating for a few months, but a girl who I had never spent longer than overnight with prior to this trip which actually ended our relationship, If I had been paying her I would have put her back on the plane and sent her home on about the second day, but instead I suffered through the entire trip and broke up with her almost the first minute after getting off the plane in Atlanta. lol

 
The other longish trip that I have taken with a hooker or ex-hooker was one of the best trips I have ever taken, and even though it was some 8 or 9 years ago we still reminisce over it every once in a while. She was/is an ex hooker who I met as a client, young white girl almost exactly 30 years younger than me. (well she was young when I met her, 18, but she is 31 now. lol) We took a trip out to California, starting in the Bay Area where we went to visit my mother, YES I took a hooker home to meet my mother, but my mother is NOT the typical 80 year old, I think she was 75 at the time. lol  We spent a couple of days in the Bay Area and then rented a car and drove PCH all the way down to Huntington Beach, or at least as much of the coast hwy as we could drive at the time which was most of the way. We than spent a few days in Huntington beach and had a great time.  

 
Most of my other trips with hookers have been limited to 2-3 days at the most. I honestly believe I now have a expiration date with ALL women of about 2-3 days after which I desperately need some "alone time" lol I have never paid an American provider "for her time" to take a trip with me, my attitude has always been, "if I have to pay her to be "nice to me" for 3 days, do I really want to spend that much time with her?" But I have taken a lot of Chicas on two or three day trips to the beach or the mountains and paid them, but the rates were such a pittance (maybe $200 day)  I never really even thought of as really paying.

i've never traveled with an escort yet but invited one to italy, before this whole outbreak, she said it would require compensation for her time... same thing you said... i'm thinking, have you ever flown first class overseas... ever been to italy... every toured europe in real style... her  tune may change in time but the point is just as you said, others would gladly vacation under those conditions.

I do not pay for "time and companionship" if I am going to take a girl out to dinner, or on a multi day trip to Italy, and she requires compensation to do so, then I am nothing more than "work" to her. I don't pay people to be my friend. I don't mind at all though paying women to have sex with me and then leave me alone. Anything that happens AFTER the sex is because she likes me enough to enjoy my company without being paid.  

 
Guys ask all the time "How do I know if she actually likes me or if it's all an act because I am paying her?" There is only one way to know for sure and that is to take money out of the equation.

If it works, you're both winning, if not, you're both whining.  Lol

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well said... i'm down to be your friend but not paying for that... i'll treat you well and show you the world but that's just being friendly... now, i do agree that accounting for lost revenue while out of town with me would be a good move too... i'll keep that in mind if/when i do travel with a provider...  

kind of reminds me of an older topic, getting attached... not sure who said it but he know he was more than a client when she said "i don't want your money"... kind of a similar setting...

Others have said it too, over the years, but I don't think anyone else has said it lately, since FOSTA/SESTA at least.

 
Other guys might feel different and they might really like a paid companion for several days, but like I said, I have too big an ego to pay someone "to be my friend" I don't want an employee who is going to have to guard every word and constantly be "on" during our time together. If I am not going to like the "real" her, I don't want to spend a fucking week with her hooker persona.

I know this girls that sometimes I give her a ride home or we go eat something. Sometimes I go and grab something to eat  at her place. I pay for the food because I want to. And yeah, we are friends. But paying a less known one or pretend and stay longer or go places. First of all I can't afford it. It is too fake and ...
arghhh most of the girls I see want you to finish and get out. If you can't finish on time they start kicking you out.  

Why should I pay for friendship if nobody would pay me to be a companion of any kind? If they did I would be their lap dog.

No I wouldn't do that  
before you ask

I've been SB several times (all were via Seeking, not my ads). Probably because I'd been provider for a while before discovering SB/SD, approach to "arrangement" has been a rate for time, depending on circumstances of the rendezvous (traveling to meet him somewhere, his visiting me, etc.).

Some might say that's just a provider/hobbyist situation, but from my POV there is a difference. When SD says he'll be arriving Tuesday evening and staying with you until Thursday morning, you are his for the entirety. Arrange for dinner and a show, make him breakfast before he leaves for the airport, and of course "play" whenever he desires it

And I do say all of that with a smile on my face and not a "sexwork is work" attitude. Going to Palm Springs to be there for him while he does business for a couple of days may be nice (if its in Spring lol), but our arrangement rate won't change for some type of "its like a vacation" adjustment.  

At the end of the day, my time has become his time and regardless of any "its a nice way to make a living" thingy, your time is not your own. That said, the longest rendezvous has been 5 days and not to vacation type spots, so I'd prolly be open to established SD pitching an arrangement adjustment for a true vacation sitch. However a new potential SD coming out of the box with that would be same as getting a cold call, "I'm in Roosevelt Hotel Bar, come meet me for a drink and we'll see what happens" and to which I reply, "You have fun there!" :-P
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Kacy TGirl

If this was a rescue dog that you would adopt, then doing this would be incest.  Disgusting.  

Win-Win...

I'm curious about when it was at its best, how many times per day did you get laid?

Did your companion venture off for a productive day herself when you had your business meetings?

And did it ever reach the point where you were both whining?

I don't want to take an "employee" where she is getting paid to cater to my every wish.  We have to be going as FWB, so how many times a day we fuck is a mutual decision, but its usually twice, either morning and night, or else morning and mid-afternoon  Sometimes she initiates and sometimes its me.  Oftentimes, if we're both  tired, we will fall asleep for a few hours and then wake up in the middle of the night and have the second fuck, then back to sleep.  There's no set schedule.  Since the sex is incidental to us being there together, and not the main reason we went (well, at least not the main reason SHE went - lol), it depends on what else we did during the day.  I always like morning sex, after a tooth-brushing, a shave (my face, her pussy) and a shower.    

 
Also, if its really an egalitarian situation, there might be a few minor arguments during the week, just like any couple might have, but never about sex, more likely, about what to go see, or where to have dinner, which opens up the opportunity for "angry" sex, or later on, "make-up" sex.  Lol

In your exploits have you ever encountered one of these FWB's acting as a lure to bring another woman into a threesome?In GaG terms that's like being dealt a NINE and a TWO and drawing a KING.  (lol)

left the US about 5 years ago living in Seoul who I see twice a year and we're FWB.   I will go to Seoul and stay with her for a week and then six months or so later she comes here and stays with me, so its a twice a year type of friendship.  When I go there, one of our activities is to bring home a salon girl one night for a threesome.  She used to be a salon girl before working in the US and knows how to pick a good one for us, AND get the local rate, not the "tourist-rate."  Other than that, I have not tried to recruit a second for someone I have just taken on a one-time trip somewhere, but its a good idea.  I probably should one of these times.