If you need more than pepper spray, call your local problem solver.

everyone in his civvie life lol luckly I havent had to deal with this before and Its actually a quite scary matter.I try to plays things as safe as I can as regaurds to where I host(I never host at my home)My screening system and trusting my gut but even with that whos to say that one of my regulars coundnt just snap one day.hell I even thought the cashier guy at my local gas station  a while back was stalking me.you can never be to carefull with anyone hobbiest or not!!

they have nothing better to do than to stalk a girl. Quite pathetic if you ask me.

Spend that time getting laid... or go out and have fun with friends.

I guess a guy like that wouldn't have too many friends otherwise they would have stopped him from making a total fool out of himself to the ladies he's stalkin.

which is usually the case. He knows she is afraid.
He has called her out and she responds in fear..

This is what they use and this is where the get their thrills

There is no excuse for Threats and stalking..
Ignore and delete trolls.
Do not Acknowledge them and if you do only when you have to but by doing so take the power back by documenting any and all communication, lies and threats that seem suspecious.
File reports etc..

There is no excuse for tolerance and threats.. period.

If a lady has a reputable reputation it will be obvious that his accounts are threats and intimidation and lies... infortunatly for the lady she is already in question with the authorities and if she is in question with her clients it is worse.. But this is not an excuse for him to get away with it...

It will only continue if you let it.. log, report, document, Tell someone and never ever back down!

Because he got away with it once or twice she gave him the power.TAKE IT BACK...
Typically, they leave a trial of the same or similar tactics.. It can stop HERE!

I can promise you. if you have facts, documents and can find proof of other victims ( there are) once you stand up and look evil in the face it WILL stop. One way or the other..

( My evil side. MF don't F with me. I will never be afraid of  you)  

Long story short. I learned this lesson the hard way and I will never back down again...........

Too many girls in this hobby are messed up in the head.  OP - I can relate to your post and feel your pain.  Sorry to hear.  I think there are more messed up girls than guys but it's a nightmare for either gender.

There are things we all do that we don't think much about.  You car can be your worst enemy when it comes to a crazy person.  If they know what you drive and your tag #, they now know all of your personal information.  I personally think it's a bad idea to use the same incall on a consistent basis.  Also, never let a hobbyist/provider see your car.  Be aware of your surrounding and make sure you are not being followed.  Take different routes home so nobody can follow you there.  

A great hobbyist/provider can turn crazy after a period of time.  I had a stalker once.  He never did figure out where I lived or my "real" information, thank goodness.  However, he somehow figured out and showed up at my church! He cornered me by my car with my children in the car.   Pepper spray got my point across.

Been there many times with Hobbyist and unknown and known civies.
With Hobbyist, I ignore and hope that it will diminish over time. Either way, the damage is done especially when bad-mouthing is involved. Quiting the biz I an option or reinventing yourself seem to be the best options to free yourself from the torture!
With civies I called the cops over and over and over til they were commited to a psych unit. I had moved upon his discharge from the psych unit out I wasnt anywhere to be found.
The other one I reported to the cops where I work and I'm not sure what the cops did to him but he was no where to be found...he just fell over the planet or was "taken care of" after all it was Alabama.

I've found that having a 2nd persona so hen they go digging they'll find my 2nd persona and stop digging so much....keeps em busy too. You can't imagine how proud they are about discovering my "real idenity" and I just go with it...it's worked a lot..!

Good luck and stay safe!!

Hugs,
Heather of Alabama

I think a visit to a attorney might be a good investment.   The atty would likely employ a PI to identify the stalker.  Often a cease & desist letter to the stalker will reclaim the power & he'll back off, not wanting to be outted himself.  A restraining order may be required.  Unfortunately this requires real names.  
Reinventing yourself is not so bad.  Lot's of girls create a new stage name every day.  It is starting over but a few good customers can write reviews & give you a leg up.  It might be necessary to voluntarily delist which is allowed for a stalker here on TER & likely on other sites.

Certainly best security practices need to be employed: not working from your domicile, strongest passwords, I find the lost passwords links to be a flaw...  how a hacker accessed Sarah Palin's yahoo acct.  I recently redid all my accounts...  morphed the lost passwords information into something else so the correct answer will not work but a certain wrong answer will.  I have a key hidden to crack these for my own use.  

This should not happen but unfortunately it does.
Best Wishes,
skb