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Stage or real name?
goofball42 1 Reviews 1148 reads
posted
1 / 20
Stage or real name?

If you have seen a provider a number of times, and you know each others' real names, would you go by your real names or not?

If I called my ATF by her stage name, she would be pretty offended:

Just curious.

JackDunphy 273 reads
posted
2 / 20
Curious, how do you know she gave you her "real" name?...e


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IBDPhotography 339 reads
posted
3 / 20
Neither

I'd call her "Sweetcheeks!" (lol - j/k)

Alan_Nimm 346 reads
posted
4 / 20
When I see my ATF for p4p

I use her stage name (short form). When I'm interacting with her a friend, I use her real name.  That's a reminder to both of us that the p4p stuff is separate from our friendship (she has an SO).  It works, for us at least. There's another provider with whom I developed a friendship and we followed the same approach, although she didn't have an SO until recently.

1705218 10 Reviews 311 reads
posted
5 / 20
With 4 of my favorite ladies

it is by real names

FatVern 243 reads
posted
6 / 20
Handle

I thought everyone on TER referenced one another by their handle.

russbbj 89 Reviews 257 reads
posted
7 / 20
I feel it's best to use her stage name during a session

That's who I want her to be, when I'm paying for her company.

I know 2 provider's real name and for email or text communication I use her real name, because in that instance she's being herself. When she's being "Bambi" I'll call her Bambi. I don't know why I like that stage name for a provider, but I do. To be clear, I've never seen a Bambi.

GaGambler 302 reads
posted
8 / 20
Why make things so difficult?

Just call her whatever she wants you to call her. Does it really matter to you what you call her?

I know a lot of women in this business, if I am around them in a hooker setting, I call them by their hooker name, If we are around family and/or friends I call them by the appropriate name.

Is this really such a tough question?

GaGambler 265 reads
posted
9 / 20
Too funny, I once knew a girl whose real name was Bambi, not her hooker name

It was the hardest thing to keep up with which name to call her as "Bambi" was much more a hooker sounding name than her actual hooker name.

russbbj 89 Reviews 204 reads
posted
10 / 20
yeah I'm not sure why I like Bambi for a hooker name

I mean Bambi was a cartoon male deer. But it rings my bell. Hell who knows what makes my warped brain tick.

I can assure you of this though, a provider would have to be super hot for me to get past a name like Marge or Blanche or Gertrude.

escalade1964 65 Reviews 293 reads
posted
11 / 20
I think my ATF accidentally shared her real name

Now I don't know what to call her?

I am still at stage name but i am shy

mrfisher 115 Reviews 226 reads
posted
12 / 20
Use her stage name unless she says otherwise...

Almost all gals I've known for a good while have had me use their RL names.  

In one case, a gal had me use another fantasy name she would only give to a very small number of people. It got a bit complicated.

goofball42 1 Reviews 272 reads
posted
13 / 20
Good question

At first, I guess I didn't know. But over time, I realized she told me the truth - from a driver's license when we were getting drinks at a bar, etc.

goofball42 1 Reviews 269 reads
posted
14 / 20
No, it isnt

I agree, call them what they want to be called. I guess that was my question - with a regular, what do they want to be called.

floyd1039 10 Reviews 249 reads
posted
15 / 20
Re: I think my ATF accidentally shared her real name

Had a hotel manage call my ATF by the name she checked in under so I assumed it was her real name. I can't remember it nor do I want to. Just keeps life simple.

keystonekid 114 Reviews 265 reads
posted
16 / 20
Making sure I understand this--you saw her in 2013 and she has no current (last 2 years) . . .

reviews and she is your ATF. Or, is it you didn't review your ATF so other guys wouldn't know about her?

JoeAFriday 6 Reviews 206 reads
posted
17 / 20
Stage vs. "real name".

Posted By: goofball42
If you have seen a provider a number of times, and you know each others' real names, would you go by your real names or not?  
   
 If I called my ATF by her stage name, she would be pretty offended:  
   
 Just curious.
I am Facebook friends with "ones" who friended me, then again there are more than one Friday out in the netherworld, she may have friended the wrong Friday.  As to their names, how can you be 100% certain it is their "real" name?  Seeing their license? She may have had a stalker and made that novelty license toj throw snoopers off.  

In the end, unless you plan to marry a lady, why dig ?

goofball42 1 Reviews 165 reads
posted
18 / 20
just want to point out...

I understand where you are coming from with the points you make.

I want to point out that I never asked for her real name. I never asked for any personal information. After a while, she just gave it.

I'd never give it out, nor would I use it to any advantage or ill will.

Fancy8888 See my TER Reviews 239 reads
posted
19 / 20
No strings attached business

Whatever make folks comfortable.Using real names folks can invade your privacy.

Related Link: http://www.preferred411.com/P136493

GaGambler 162 reads
posted
20 / 20
There can be very legitimate reasons to ask a provider for her "real" name

If I see a woman for quite some time and we go out in public a lot, I will ask her if she prefers that I continue to use her hooker name or if I should call her something else in public. Other than that I don't really care what a hooker wants me to call her, If she wants to keep her worlds separate, that's her right and I don't/won't question it.

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