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When I see my ATF for p4p
Alan_Nimm 346 reads
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I use her stage name (short form). When I'm interacting with her a friend, I use her real name.  That's a reminder to both of us that the p4p stuff is separate from our friendship (she has an SO).  It works, for us at least. There's another provider with whom I developed a friendship and we followed the same approach, although she didn't have an SO until recently.

goofball421151 reads

If you have seen a provider a number of times, and you know each others' real names, would you go by your real names or not?

If I called my ATF by her stage name, she would be pretty offended:

Just curious.

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goofball42272 reads

At first, I guess I didn't know. But over time, I realized she told me the truth - from a driver's license when we were getting drinks at a bar, etc.

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IBDPhotography340 reads

I'd call her "Sweetcheeks!" (lol - j/k)

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Alan_Nimm347 reads

I use her stage name (short form). When I'm interacting with her a friend, I use her real name.  That's a reminder to both of us that the p4p stuff is separate from our friendship (she has an SO).  It works, for us at least. There's another provider with whom I developed a friendship and we followed the same approach, although she didn't have an SO until recently.

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1705218311 reads

it is by real names

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FatVern244 reads

I thought everyone on TER referenced one another by their handle.

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russbbj257 reads

That's who I want her to be, when I'm paying for her company.

I know 2 provider's real name and for email or text communication I use her real name, because in that instance she's being herself. When she's being "Bambi" I'll call her Bambi. I don't know why I like that stage name for a provider, but I do. To be clear, I've never seen a Bambi.

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GaGambler265 reads

It was the hardest thing to keep up with which name to call her as "Bambi" was much more a hooker sounding name than her actual hooker name.

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russbbj204 reads

I mean Bambi was a cartoon male deer. But it rings my bell. Hell who knows what makes my warped brain tick.

I can assure you of this though, a provider would have to be super hot for me to get past a name like Marge or Blanche or Gertrude.

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GaGambler302 reads

Just call her whatever she wants you to call her. Does it really matter to you what you call her?

I know a lot of women in this business, if I am around them in a hooker setting, I call them by their hooker name, If we are around family and/or friends I call them by the appropriate name.

Is this really such a tough question?

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goofball42269 reads

I agree, call them what they want to be called. I guess that was my question - with a regular, what do they want to be called.

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escalade1964294 reads

Now I don't know what to call her?

I am still at stage name but i am shy

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floyd1039249 reads

Had a hotel manage call my ATF by the name she checked in under so I assumed it was her real name. I can't remember it nor do I want to. Just keeps life simple.

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mrfisher227 reads

Almost all gals I've known for a good while have had me use their RL names.  

In one case, a gal had me use another fantasy name she would only give to a very small number of people. It got a bit complicated.

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keystonekid265 reads

reviews and she is your ATF. Or, is it you didn't review your ATF so other guys wouldn't know about her?

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JoeAFriday206 reads

Posted By: goofball42
If you have seen a provider a number of times, and you know each others' real names, would you go by your real names or not?  
   
 If I called my ATF by her stage name, she would be pretty offended:  
   
 Just curious.
I am Facebook friends with "ones" who friended me, then again there are more than one Friday out in the netherworld, she may have friended the wrong Friday.  As to their names, how can you be 100% certain it is their "real" name?  Seeing their license? She may have had a stalker and made that novelty license toj throw snoopers off.  

In the end, unless you plan to marry a lady, why dig ?

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Fancy8888239 reads

Whatever make folks comfortable.Using real names folks can invade your privacy.

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