I say the latter. Because it depends on the Bro and/or the Ho. There are some bro's I'd go to the mat for. And many I'd happily kick to the curb. Same for the ho's. It depends on who they are. Dirtbags come in both sexes. Loyalty to one sex over the other is bullshit. I'm loyal to my friends and I'm fortunate to have found a lot of them in this game.
Bro's Before Ho's = Bullshit.
Discuss
Both "bro's before ho's" and "ho's before bro's" is utter crap. Each person must be placed according to the quality of their caricature.
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do you even know what you are saying?
A caricature is a rendered image showing the features of its subject in a simplified or exaggerated way. see also: politics
In literature, a caricature is a description of a person using exaggeration of some characteristics and oversimplification of others.[1]
A caricature is the satirical illustration of a person or a thing, but a cartoon is the satirical illustration of an idea.[2]
Caricatures can be insulting or complimentary and can serve a political purpose or be drawn solely for entertainment. Caricatures of politicians are commonly used in editorial cartoons, while caricatures of movie stars are often found in entertainment magazines.
The term is derived from the Italian caricare—to charge or load. An early definition occurs in the English doctor Thomas Browne's Christian Morals, published posthumously in 1716.
Expose not thy self by four-footed manners unto monstrous draughts, and Caricatura representations.
with the footnote:
When Men's faces are drawn with resemblance to some other Animals, the Italians call it, to be drawn in Caricatura
Thus, the word "caricature" essentially means a "loaded portrait". According to School of Visual Arts caricature instructor Sam Viviano, the term refers only to depictions of real-life people, and not to cartoon fabrications of fictional characters, which do not possess objective sets of physiognomic features to draw upon for reference, or to anthropomorphic depictions of inanimate objects such as automobiles or coffee mugs.[citation needed] Walt Disney, on the other hand, equated his animation to caricature, saying the hardest thing to do was find the caricature of an animal that worked best as a human-like character.[citation needed
First of all, scoed is an admittedly unlettered man. He continually makes mistakes in posts like this because he only uses spell check, not a dictionary.
But your long-winded, pseudo-intellectual finger wag just makes you look like a know-it-all trying to make yourself look smart at someone else's expense. I'm too lazy to check but I'll be you've lectured angelexitic, too.
Give it a rest
I meant to type "character" but must have butchered it so bad my phone must have auto corrected to "caricature". I know what both mean. I am sorry for the typo and any confusion my error may caused. Writing is a weakness of mine. My post Should have read:
"Both "bro's before ho's" and "ho's before bro's" is utter crap. Each person must be placed according to the quality of their CHARACTER."
I hope that clears up any misinterpretation for any on what I meant to say. Thank you for taking the time to point out my error. I know my writing needs improvement and am trying to do just that. I wish I could say my screw ups like this are rare but they are not. Feel free to point any and all out. That way I can improve, maybe. I have always had a hard time writing. Again thank you for pointing out my error.
..but I'm betting some of these misogynistic narciccists will disagree with you...
right here on this very board I can think of several women that i would trust more, and are just all around better people than many of the 'bros" here.
I mean given a choice between ho's London or Terrilynn and someone like Dungy or this new idiot Single47, it's a no brainer. I would stand behind either of those "ho's" and I wouldn't piss on either of those "bro's" if they were on fire.
who I would trust over quite a few hobbyists. I agree that London and TL are two of them, and I could probably whip up a list and add a few more.
A lot of the drama and bad shit is created by hobbyists, not just providers. It has always been that way and always will be.
I would say that "bro's before ho's" really are words to live by.
It's just that some of my "bro's" happen to be women, and also happen to be Ho's.
OTOH, I think we can all agree that while I wouldn't piss on the like of Dungy, Ridgetucky et al if they were on fire, I also wouldn't piss on the likes of Taylor/Roger or any one of a thousand BSC ho's either, besides they might want to charge me for it. lol
but watch on when pissing on the ladies, some of them charge extra for it.
Bro's are peeps that you know and trust. Not some random doush bag. Bro's are peeps you grew up with. your twisting the meaning to suit your purpose. If you would trust a ho more than a life long friend then you must have really poor friends.
Who is to say that a ho cant be just as good a friend 
At the end of the day a person that is real is just that, a REAL person. I have many Bro's I grew up with and many hobbyist I have known over a decade so I think at this point we are REAL friends. Sorry but you sound like a woman hater but it seems to me that THAT is the reason most the gents are here... PUSSY! lol
Why cant a ho be just as good a friend as a bro?
Happy MD weekend 
Hugs and kisses
TL
unless of course deep down you don't like women, and only think of them as fuck toys. Even an asshole like me isn't THAT shallow.
Personally I think he is the one twisting the meaning.
You know what I find ironic? it's the guys who aren't politically correct and have no problems using the words hooker or slut that deep down really "get" the women in this business and by contrast that guys that get all hung up with labels, never have a clue and most likely will never be true friends with a "Hooker"
When I an though treatment. There where four people who checked up on me nearly every day or everyday. My with who is a provider, my current ATF a Backpage provider, a retired provider that I met as a provider and my son. Three ho's and my own flesh. Yes others checked in on me, but not as often. My ATF help my son come to grips with what is happening and gave him a way to feel a little less powerless with a way to help me. Dude, I will stand by those ho's before an bro's except my son.
The people I grow up with picked on me daily and beat on me. Those fools I trust least of all.
Thanks GaG and panthera You guys are and always have been nothing but great to me so yea I would have you guys back too I think we all see some batshit carzy shit when we see it period. IDK if I would piss on anyone, well maybe ONE person in the world and he would NOT be worth the trouble even lol!
Hugs and kisses
TL
If we are going to paint a broad brush, there are some hobbyists that believe everything a provider tells them is the gospel. With so many white knights and manginas walking on all fours following providers around and gossiping, it makes me wonder if anyone can really be trusted anymore. Again, broad brush, but I think I made my point as you did also.
And, yes, there are plenty of BSC ho's who can't be trusted. I'm pretty sure I made that clear.
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Broad strokes...........not a broad brush
has a nice ring to it, but not always true.
Bro's Before Ho's = Bullshit.
Discuss.
First of all, "Bro" - I hate it when people say "discuss" at the end of their post. Like we don't know that's what we are supposed to do. I love you man, please don't do that anymore, I'm begging you
IMO, "Bro's before Ho's" does not mean blind allegiance to one sex or another. It means that you don't fuck over your friends (your "Bro's") for some random piece of ass. In my younger days, it meant that you didn't have to worry about getting stranded at some remote party because your fail "Bro" who was driving ran off with some skank. Bro's before Ho's were words to live by.
Lungman, Udo, Ridgetucky, Fidcouf, or any of the latest flavor of the week douchebags - over London, Kera, Rasha, Sarah, Amber, et al - I don't think so.
I promise I'll never say "Discuss" again! Please don't hate me! Here is a bonus for you to make up for my terrible gaffe
Answer: Words that are written out to extoll ones attributes...falsely
OK Alex..."What are mangina boys on TER"?
As others have stated there are few folks that I believe on here. Most throw out drivel that is just time wasting nonsense. To take it as anything more than that...well, I guess some do.
But those that I have gotten to know somewhat I enjoy bantering with via PM/email. Still to "trust" implicitly someone who you have NO vested interest in is naive as well. Giving out any real personal information to anyone is risky....some have no problems doing so. But I have no interest in sharing that part of my life with anyone here
Like the new handle?
Its all BS you know...
skippy
Just who is spreading those nasty rumors about a "kinder, gentler" CPA?
Its all BS you know...
skippy
but I was tempted to yesterday, and you know the reason. lol
i really thought we had something, BroCPA
Some I've come to know personally, and there are some Ho's and Bro's that are just plain ignorant.
Hiding ..... bc they have and continue to do exact personal attacks on Folks.
Trust is two way street, and there are a few in this demimonde, that I trust and respect. others I can careless for. that being said ...... Live and let Live, Life's too Short waste on anger.
Karma is a powerful Source whether or not you believe in it.
Peace Bro's....and Ho's
Namaste
if you are willing to classify them as a ho, they obviously aren't important to you. therefore, not only should bros come before them, but it shouldn't be close.
This ho knows that bro’s no foe nor faux.
Those in the know...want to no 
"The rows the ho hoe grows."
lotsa hot mojo! Fo sho! (or was that Fo Shizzle?)
Using the term "Fo Shizzle" is one of them. lmao
In my experience, there are very few bro's that are true friends. When I was younger, every one of my husband's friends hit on me except one. That one is is still a friend many years later. The others have fallen by the wayside. It's hard to find a true friend. My son learned this the hard way when he had a bad accident. Where were his bro's? No where to be found. Not even the best friend he knew since kindergarten. He now has a girl as a best friend. Why are most men not good at friendship beyond what is convenient?
Bro's Before Ho's = Bullshit.
Discuss.
Maybe your husband "picked" those friends for whatever his reasons were at the time. And assumed that they were more than just acquaintances...when in reality they were leeches.
Friends....as in those you can truly count on are rare. And in order to maintain that relationship it requires effort. Many just assume that because they shared a laugh or two they were "friends".
I have only a couple of realy lifelong friends. But I have many acquaintances who I enjoy their company. Assuming that those acquaintances would stand by me is not something I expect.
He who does not expect shall not be disappointed.
Stop expecting!
Bro's Before Ho's = Bullshit.
Discuss.
That's how it is with me. I have a few life long friends I have been able to count on when times got tough. I understand men and sex but I don't understand men and friends. I asked mainly because of my son. He's learned the hard way that true friends are rare and precious.
Thanks for your response.
Friends....as in those you can truly count on are rare. And in order to maintain that relationship it requires effort. Many just assume that because they shared a laugh or two they were "friends".
I have only a couple of realy lifelong friends. But I have many acquaintances who I enjoy their company. Assuming that those acquaintances would stand by me is not something I expect.
He who does not expect shall not be disappointed.
Stop expecting!
Bro's Before Ho's = Bullshit.
Discuss.
As I said, I've made a lot of friends in this little world. A group of us have evolved from coming to like and respect each other on line, to actually meeting and playing together. And I mean both Bros and Hos. We've had some damn good times together and plan on many more.
are not good at friendship, beyond what is convenient, is not a fair statement.
Men are quite capable of forming deep and lasting friendships. Forming friendships, with trustworthy people, is not gender specific.
In some cases, women may put on a better 'show' of intimacy, publicly (maybe). But, that does not always boil down to a friendship that meets the bar of a 'friend showing-up when its REALLY important'
Bro's Before Ho's = Bullshit.
Discuss.
I'm sorry to hear about your son's predicament. I believe friendship is learned and the bond is strengthened through adversity.
You can have both male and female "friends" growing up, and they can remain lifelong friends.
Friends migrate into and out of our lives, some are "more present".
But the true measure of a friend is the ability to forgive.
In my neighborhood we had a lot of friends, and in the course of life we've argued, fought, and eventually remained friends, some closer than others. My two best friends from the neighborhood remain/remained friends to this day. some of the girls from the neighborhood were our friends as well. My next door neighbor, the tom boy that she was, was our goalie in Hockey, the best damn goalie in town I might add. She ended up being an "All State" Goalie for girls field hockey. go figure! Even though she is the next state over, we are still great friends today.
Sadly one buddy took his life several years ago (he battled Bi-Polar Effective disorder since sophmore yr in HS) we remained friends, and the bond was strengthened because of his illness. We initially parted in HS after he went to the Public HS and I went to the near by catholic HS. But, when he was diagnosed..... I had no idea....His mother actually called and asked us to stop by and see him....we did.... and even after he moved away to Ohio, we made a pact to remain best friends, We were more like brothers hence the term bro's...and we did til the day he died. Think of the movie "Stand by Me" We had some of the girls our age as good friends as well. At his memorial, everyone spoke, all had great things to say, His, Dad, ever the "Oratorio" waited til the end and introduced me as his "Son" and my buddies "brother"........... one of the toughest, yet rewarding moments in my Life.
Back in the day before "AIDS" and all this shit, we had made and sealed our bond, and became "blood brothers"
My other Buddy is still around today a couple towns over, and we get together for drinks, dinner golf, golf outings, etc..... most recently, his brother, just older than him, needed a new ticker at 52,and they had a benefit for him........Iarrived and was getting a drink surprisingly I ran into my personal physician of 25 yrs or so....shocked we knew the same guy.....When My Buddy barges in line and we give each other hugs and a kiss, (buddies can do that and not be gay) when he introduces my doc to me, lol, and then introduces me as his "1st friend" ever. So there you have it Doc, that's how I know T..
This benefit had over a thousand people, friends, neighbors, friends from the "Hood", classmates, friends from all over the country flew in.......they raised over $200k for the family.
We grew up helping folks in need, asking nothing in return. That day was his.....
Friends show up in times of need, but this taught. Our parents showed us by example.
In all, I have a couple get together's each year.... Football parties, Bears v Packers, Playoffs, etc....when I have all these friends, from different phases of life....and we "roast" each other to no end.
Funny thing about this "demimonde" is that a couple "Ho's" I know, live near by, and know some of my friends....talk about "2 degrees of separation".
"Life is Good"
Bro's Before Ho's = Bullshit.
Discuss.
Your response has touched my heart. Thank you for sharing so much! Standing by your friends in times of need shows you to be a very special person. I hope my son finds someone like you to add into his life. It was very hard for him when his best friend abandoned him. I'm not sure why he did that. He could have been unable to handle how badly injured my son was or he might have just considered it a loss of a fun time buddy. At 20, who knows. But it was harder for my son to deal with than the year and a half of therapies. We heard through the grapevine that he said my son was messed up and will never be the same. So what! Isn't that when you are supposed to step up the most as a friend? You did that with your buddy when his Dad called you. Thank you for letting me know their are men out there like you.
You can have both male and female "friends" growing up, and they can remain lifelong friends.
Friends migrate into and out of our lives, some are "more present".
But the true measure of a friend is the ability to forgive.
In my neighborhood we had a lot of friends, and in the course of life we've argued, fought, and eventually remained friends, some closer than others. My two best friends from the neighborhood remain/remained friends to this day. some of the girls from the neighborhood were our friends as well. My next door neighbor, the tom boy that she was, was our goalie in Hockey, the best damn goalie in town I might add. She ended up being an "All State" Goalie for girls field hockey. go figure! Even though she is the next state over, we are still great friends today.
Sadly one buddy took his life several years ago (he battled Bi-Polar Effective disorder since sophmore yr in HS) we remained friends, and the bond was strengthened because of his illness. We initially parted in HS after he went to the Public HS and I went to the near by catholic HS. But, when he was diagnosed..... I had no idea....His mother actually called and asked us to stop by and see him....we did.... and even after he moved away to Ohio, we made a pact to remain best friends, We were more like brothers hence the term bro's...and we did til the day he died. Think of the movie "Stand by Me" We had some of the girls our age as good friends as well. At his memorial, everyone spoke, all had great things to say, His, Dad, ever the "Oratorio" waited til the end and introduced me as his "Son" and my buddies "brother"........... one of the toughest, yet rewarding moments in my Life.
Back in the day before "AIDS" and all this shit, we had made and sealed our bond, and became "blood brothers"
My other Buddy is still around today a couple towns over, and we get together for drinks, dinner golf, golf outings, etc..... most recently, his brother, just older than him, needed a new ticker at 52,and they had a benefit for him........Iarrived and was getting a drink surprisingly I ran into my personal physician of 25 yrs or so....shocked we knew the same guy.....When My Buddy barges in line and we give each other hugs and a kiss, (buddies can do that and not be gay) when he introduces my doc to me, lol, and then introduces me as his "1st friend" ever. So there you have it Doc, that's how I know T..
This benefit had over a thousand people, friends, neighbors, friends from the "Hood", classmates, friends from all over the country flew in.......they raised over $200k for the family.
We grew up helping folks in need, asking nothing in return. That day was his.....
Friends show up in times of need, but this taught. Our parents showed us by example.
In all, I have a couple get together's each year.... Football parties, Bears v Packers, Playoffs, etc....when I have all these friends, from different phases of life....and we "roast" each other to no end.
Funny thing about this "demimonde" is that a couple "Ho's" I know, live near by, and know some of my friends....talk about "2 degrees of separation".
"Life is Good"
Bro's Before Ho's = Bullshit.
Discuss.
The last thing I want in the bedroom with me is one of you dudes, so I don't ever discuss dudes with the ladies.
Some people may call that bros before hos, but for me its purely the fact that I'd rather keep it between the two or (in the case of a in a duo) the three of us. There's enough dick in the room with just me there.
I trust people who have earned my trust. I've never met any of the men on this board so I would never make any assumptions, positive or negative, about them. All we are doing is reading words on a computer screen from one anonymous guy to another. On the other hand, I meet escorts, even a few (though not many) who participate here, on a regular basis and know pretty early on who can be trusted and who can't. I treat all of the boards here as pure entertainment, nothing more. I read the reviews to help me decide who to see, the rest of what's written here doesn't really enter into my decision making process.
Nobody on this board is your Bro. Bro's are peeps that you know and trust. Not some random doush bag. Bro's are peeps you grew up with. If you would trust a ho more than a life long friend then you must have really poor friends.
people you grew-up with. They could also be people you've met along they way (even, here, on this board). And, just because you grew-up with someone does not automatically make them trustworthy. Life-long friends evolve and change like everyone else; and, now and again, not always in a good way.
And, yes....some ..ehem..."ho" I get to know, in IRL, could be someone I find just as trustworthy as any other person I've known my whole whole life.
If you always put your bros before ho's you could find yourself supporting assholes while dismissing great people simply because they don't fit your preconceived assumptions.
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I might not know you from Adam, and you certainly aren't my Bro. but many here are. There are both men and women here I have known for a decade, know everything about them, met their families, drink with them, do business with them, and yes there are a couple who I would trust a lot further than many of the people I grew up with.
It must suck to be on here without any friends.
with the exception of one particularly wacky lady (for whom i don't have a review in my profile) almost all of my grief in this hobby comes from the bros.
in fact for that one, she stayed quiet and wasn't MUCH of a problem until her WK bros persuaded me to take down the review i used to have up for her.
the bros are more unreliable. they get overly jealous about who sees who. they spread all sorts of crap to persuade ladies to not see you. the worst behavior (with some exceptions) comes from the ones with many, many reviews. they are most likely to run to their favorites with gossip from the RO board (which leaks like a sieve) and stir up crap. then they turn around and try to blame the guys with few reviews. NEWSFLASH: it's the guys with the most skin in the game who are least trustable and most corruptible.
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Yep, there are several guys I know who are totally toxic. One has been banned from here numerous times for his manipulative shit. This game attracts some very good people as well as some real sickos.
i always base level of trust on the actions of the individual not some slogan. i'm justifiably suspicious of folks who sloganeer like that. they have an agenda.