I say the latter.  Because it depends on the Bro and/or the Ho.  There are some bro's I'd go to the mat for.  And many I'd happily kick to the curb.  Same for the ho's.  It depends on who they are.  Dirtbags come in both sexes.  Loyalty to one sex over the other is bullshit.  I'm loyal to my friends and I'm fortunate to have found a lot of them in this game.
Bro's Before Ho's = Bullshit.
Discuss

Both "bro's before ho's" and "ho's before bro's" is utter crap. Each person must be placed according to the quality of their caricature.

..but I'm betting some of these misogynistic narciccists will disagree with you...

Don't I know You Bro (e)

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right here on this very board I can think of several women that i would trust more, and are just all around better people than many of the 'bros" here.

I mean given a choice between ho's London or Terrilynn and someone like Dungy or this new idiot Single47, it's a no brainer. I would stand behind either of those "ho's"  and I wouldn't piss on either of those "bro's" if they were on fire.

If we are going to paint a broad brush, there are some hobbyists that believe everything a provider tells them is the gospel. With so many white knights and manginas walking on all fours following providers around and gossiping, it makes me wonder if anyone can really be trusted anymore. Again, broad brush, but I think I made my point as you did also.

has a nice ring to it, but not always true.

And, yes, there are plenty of BSC ho's who can't be trusted.  I'm pretty sure I made that clear.

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First of all, "Bro" - I hate it when people say "discuss" at the end of their post. Like we don't know that's what we are supposed to do. I love you man, please don't do that anymore, I'm begging you

Answer:  Words that are written out to extoll ones attributes...falsely

who I would trust over quite a few hobbyists. I agree that London and TL are two of them, and I could probably whip up a list and add a few more.

A lot of the drama and bad shit is created by hobbyists, not just providers. It has always been that way and always will be.    

I promise I'll never say "Discuss" again!  Please don't hate me!  Here is a bonus for you to make up for my terrible gaffe

I would say that "bro's before ho's"  really are words to live by.

It's just that some of my "bro's" happen to be women, and also happen to be Ho's.

OTOH, I think we can all agree that while I wouldn't piss on the like of Dungy, Ridgetucky et al if they were on fire, I also wouldn't piss on the likes of Taylor/Roger or any one of a thousand BSC ho's either, besides they might want to charge me for it. lol

but watch on when pissing on the ladies, some of them charge extra for it.

Some I've come to know personally, and there are some Ho's and Bro's that are just plain ignorant.
 Hiding ..... bc they have and continue to do exact personal attacks on Folks.

if you are willing to classify them as a ho, they obviously aren't important to you. therefore, not only should bros come before them, but it shouldn't be close.

Like the new handle?

This ho knows that bro’s no foe nor faux.

Just who is spreading those nasty rumors about a "kinder, gentler" CPA?

Those in the know...want to no

but I was tempted to yesterday, and you know the reason. lol

"The rows the ho hoe grows."

i really thought we had something, BroCPA

In my experience, there are very few bro's that are true friends. When I was younger, every one of my husband's friends hit on me except one. That one is is still a friend many years later. The others have fallen by the wayside. It's hard to find a true friend. My son learned this the hard way when he had a bad accident. Where were his bro's? No where to be found. Not even the best friend he knew since kindergarten. He now has a girl as a best friend. Why are most men not good at friendship beyond what is convenient?

The last thing I want in the bedroom with me is one of you dudes, so I don't ever discuss dudes with the ladies.

Maybe your husband "picked" those friends for whatever his reasons were at the time.  And assumed that they were more than just acquaintances...when in reality they were leeches.

lotsa hot mojo!  Fo sho!  (or was that Fo Shizzle?)

As I said, I've made a lot of friends in this little world.  A group of us have evolved from coming to like and respect each other on line, to actually meeting and playing together.  And I mean both Bros and Hos.  We've had some damn good times together and plan on many more.

That's how it is with me. I have a few life long friends I have been able to count on when times got tough. I understand men and sex but I don't understand men and friends. I asked mainly because of my son. He's learned the hard way that true friends are rare and precious.  

I trust people who have earned my trust.  I've never met any of the men on this board so I would never make any assumptions, positive or negative, about them.  All we are doing is reading words on a computer screen from one anonymous guy to another.  On the other hand, I meet escorts, even a few (though not many) who participate here, on a regular basis and know pretty early on who can be trusted and who can't.  I treat all of the boards here as pure entertainment, nothing more.  I read the reviews to help me decide who to see, the rest of what's written here doesn't really enter into my decision making process.

do you even know what you are saying?

Bro's are peeps that you know and trust. Not some random doush bag. Bro's are peeps you grew up with. your twisting the meaning to suit your purpose. If you would trust a ho more than a life long friend then you must have really poor friends.

Broad strokes...........not a broad brush

Nobody on this board is your Bro. Bro's are peeps that you know and trust. Not some random doush bag. Bro's are peeps you grew up with.  If you would trust a ho more than a life long friend then you must have really poor friends.

total load of crap

with the exception of one particularly wacky lady (for whom i don't have a review in my profile) almost all of my grief in this hobby comes from the bros.

people you grew-up with. They could also be people you've met along they way (even, here, on this board). And, just because you grew-up with someone does not automatically make them trustworthy. Life-long friends evolve and change like everyone else; and, now and again, not always in a good way.  

First of all, scoed is an admittedly unlettered man.  He continually makes mistakes in posts like this because he only uses spell check, not a dictionary.
But your long-winded, pseudo-intellectual finger wag just makes you look like a know-it-all trying to make yourself look smart at someone else's expense.  I'm too lazy to check but I'll be you've lectured angelexitic, too.
Give it a rest

Re: total load of crap

Yep, there are several guys I know who are totally toxic.  One has been banned from here numerous times for his manipulative shit.  This game attracts some very good people as well as some real sickos.

are not good at friendship, beyond what is convenient, is not a fair statement.  

I meant to type "character" but must have butchered it so bad my phone must have auto corrected to "caricature". I know what both mean. I am sorry for the typo and any confusion my error may caused. Writing is a weakness of mine. My post Should have read:

i always base level of trust on the actions of the individual not some slogan. i'm justifiably suspicious of folks who sloganeer like that. they have an agenda.

Who is to say that a ho cant be just as good a friend At the end of the day a person that is real is just that, a REAL person. I have many Bro's I grew up with and many hobbyist I have known over a decade so I think at this point we are REAL friends. Sorry but you sound like a woman hater but it seems to me that THAT is the reason most the gents are here... PUSSY! lol
Why cant a ho be just as good a friend as a bro?
Happy MD weekend
Hugs and kisses
TL

Thanks GaG and panthera You guys are and always have been nothing but great to me so yea I would have you guys back too I think we all see some batshit carzy shit when we see it period. IDK if I would piss on anyone, well maybe ONE person in the world and he would NOT be worth the trouble even lol!
Hugs and kisses
TL

When I an though treatment. There where four people who checked up on me nearly every day or everyday. My with who is a provider, my current ATF a Backpage provider, a retired provider that I met as a provider and my son. Three ho's and my own flesh. Yes others checked in on me, but not as often. My ATF help my son come to grips with what is happening and gave him a way to feel a little less powerless with a way to help me. Dude, I will stand by those ho's before an bro's except my son.  

I'm sorry to hear about your son's predicament. I believe friendship is learned and the bond is strengthened through adversity.  
You can have both male and female "friends" growing up, and they can remain lifelong friends.
Friends migrate into and out of our lives, some are "more present".  
But the true measure of a friend is the ability to forgive.

Using the term "Fo Shizzle" is one of them. lmao

Your response has touched my heart.  Thank you for sharing so much! Standing by your friends in times of need shows you to be a very special person. I hope my son finds someone like you to add into his life. It was very hard for him when his best friend abandoned him. I'm not sure why he did that. He could have been unable to handle how badly injured my son was or he might have just considered it a loss of a fun time buddy. At 20, who knows. But it was harder for my son to deal with than the year and a half of therapies. We heard through the grapevine that he said my son was messed up and will never be the same. So what! Isn't that when you are supposed to step up the most as a friend? You did that with your buddy when his Dad called you. Thank you for letting me know their are men out there like you.

unless of course deep down you don't like women, and only think of them as fuck toys. Even an asshole like me isn't THAT shallow.

Personally I think he is the one twisting the meaning.

You know what I find ironic? it's the guys who aren't politically correct and have no problems using the words hooker or slut that deep down really "get" the women in this business and by contrast that guys that get all hung up with labels, never have a clue and most likely will never be true friends with a "Hooker"

I might not know you from Adam, and you certainly aren't my Bro. but many here are. There are both men and women here I have known for a decade, know everything about them, met their families, drink with them, do business with them, and yes there are a couple who I would trust a lot further than many of the people I grew up with.

It must suck to be on here without any friends.