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Speacking as an Asian Man I
GaGambler 934 reads
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and naturally my definition of hotness may differ from others.

I believe I recognize this alias, and if I remember correctly you fit that description to a T.

As far as marketing goes and what I find turns me on/off from a website/ad. I have to go along with what many others have said here in the past. I don't go for cheesy, I can't stand ads that start with how smart/accomplished/classy a provider is. I choose to make that determination for myself. IMO less is more. I like a website that gives me a good indication of what the woman looks like, even if the pics are blurred, and I won't hesitate to walk if I feel like I have been misled.

Speaking strictly for myself, I am a shallow, visual creature, and the number one thing I look for in an ad is whether or not I am physically attracted to the woman, and that is something either that you have or you don't have, and the website/ad cannot make me attracted to someone that I am simply not attracted to. IOW I really can't be talked into booking with someone that I am not attracted to, but I can be talked out of booking with a lady who's looks are great, but comes off badly in her website/ad.

I kind of doubt that this has been much help, but that's my two cents.

quietprovider 2393 reads
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COA: I write this not with the intention to make any sweeping stereotypes or come off as racist, but just as a general query:  

Any business book will tell you to describe your ideal client, and go after them. Well, I have found that Asian men tend to like me, and I them. Again, this is not meant to be in/exclusive, it's just a trend I've spotted.  

So as a call out to the Asian men on this board, I just ask: what attracts you to a provider? Is there something you look for in an ad/website/photo/etc.? Basically, what can I do to help you find me, without being potentially rude/offensive/etc?

GaGambler 836 reads
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We look for women with small vaginas to better fit our little dicks. lmao

Is that the racist and ignorant answer you were looking for?

GaGambler 792 reads
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Asian women have "sideways" vaginas. Duh, I thought everyone knew that. lmao

GaGambler 649 reads
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where it comes to the smallest and tightest vaginas I've ever encountered, almost all of them have come attached to Asian women. I don't "bottom out" too often, but almost every time I have, it's been with an Asian lady.

That said, one of the biggest and loosest vaginas I have ever been inside belonged to a Filipina girl, I couldn't quite "clap my hands" but she was close to it.

andrewww12 6 Reviews 976 reads
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OP comes off as racist and ignorant, making it seem like asians are somehow different than any other race and must be looking for something "special" that no other race looks for. turns out (from the 2 asians that have posted so far) that they pretty much have the same the same requirements as me and most other non-asian men in the hobby, for that matter.

Dr Who revived 866 reads
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Posted By: GaGambler
We look for women with small vaginas to better fit our little dicks. lmao

Is that the racist and ignorant answer you were looking for?

Dr Who revived 722 reads
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10 / 33

Dahbble Check  (Hey..are you going to GB for the game tomorrow night?)

I've had plenty of Asian gals....but honestly the tightest and smallest one I've ever encountered was attached to some gal down south.  And blonde.  Go figure  LOL
Posted By: GaGambler
Asian women have "sideways" vaginas. Duh, I thought everyone knew that. lmao

yon 53 Reviews 771 reads
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They are attracted to what most men are attracted to. Everything else is more or less individual preference.

GaGambler 624 reads
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You be the judge??? I agree, how any of this is helpful is beyond me.

no_email 3 Reviews 1018 reads
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I agree in the general sense, that men are men regardless of genetics.

 
Weren't you, of your genetic back ground before becoming a sperm? (or are we the egg?) We are both.

You, and your father are of the same genetic background  
(along with sharing the same genetic background as your mother)  

 
What is decided first genetics, or gender?

 
How my post will help the OP is beyond me.

JawKnee36 95 Reviews 851 reads
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I prefer brunettes, natural curves, good oral skills, maybe some cleverness in an ad, and trustworthy, positive reviews. I don't think this has much to do with my ethnicity though.

But, seeing as I'm half Asian, I require that all providers pass a short math test and then show proficiency with round metal chopsticks. If they can pass those two tests they then have to eat dried, shredded squid or smell durian without making a face.



-- Modified on 1/4/2014 6:58:49 PM

no_email 3 Reviews 831 reads
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Xnyog posted Asian men, are men before being Asian. I agree with that statement. IOW men are men, whether they are Asian, or Polish.

 
Could that technically be wrong? Given the fact you are a byproduct of your mother's egg, and your father's sperm. Both of whom posse their own unique genetic make up, what ever that may be.

 
Are you male/female before becoming what is a byproduct of your parent's genes?

Are you a byproduct of your parent's genes, before you become male/female?

Do both of these things happen simultaneously?  

 

Given the context of the OP's post, what would a good response be?  

Change the format of your website, to that of a Chinese carryout menu. When trying to land an Asian client.  



-- Modified on 1/4/2014 7:14:27 PM

Abc_dude 697 reads
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16 / 33

As an Asian man, I wanted to offer a slightly different opinion than what I've seen so far...first, let me say I am 100% ethnic Asian--moreover 100% Han Chinese...but really I'm probably more influenced by the fact that I'm probably 90% US red blooded American.  

Given all that, when I read the question, I understood it to mean Asian men from a cultural perspective, not necessarily ethnic.  There are lots of Asians like me. Born in the USA and are really just American in my values and attitudes. But there are also lots of Asians that are first generation or immigrants who are very Asian in their values and world-view. Many of my relatives are like this and I have learned that "being Chinese" means that your center of reference is wildly different than westerners. Americans and Europeans do not always agree and often have different  perspectives on things...but nothing I've seen in those differences is nearly as different than a truly Chinese mindset. Which is also extremely different than Japanese or Philippine.  

So, if one could lump Asians together (which most Asians don't do) I would say for those that are culturally Asian and eastern in their worldview, there are some things that might be culturally attractive to Asian men...

So, as noted once above, not-Asian is one of them. Just as a lot of westerners find Asians to be exotic, so do Asian men find western women exotic. Going along with that is the classic western build...taller, bigger breasts, big eyes.  Ever notice Japanese anime always draws the eyes of the cartoon characters with giant eyes? Also, I would say a woman that is not submissive. That doesn't have to mean dominant, but most Asian cultures value various versions of a submissive woman in the social fabric of the society. So an out-going, talkative, and confident woman is not the norm in Asian traditional culture...at least not in the public setting.

End of the day I don't disagree that physically, men are men, and hotness is a key factor, but what defines hot and what are those more intangible factors? I do think a wide survey of men from Asia versus the US/Europe would show some differing trends...

Anyway, I for one thought it was an interesting question...

no_email 3 Reviews 678 reads
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it's not like the real her, is hiding with in the context of what is written on her webpage.  

 
Like GWD said we're damned if we do, we're damned if we don't...  so I don't.

Dr Who revived 690 reads
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oralconniseur 10 Reviews 920 reads
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DON'T see this question as racist at all. It is a legit question.

I have been with a lot of asian women over the years, so now I like providers that are different from pure asian women. I look for women providers that are white, latin, european, black, mixed nationalities or anything but PURE asian. They can be blonde, redhead, brunette or multi colored hair.  

I read the profile bcause I like to converse (smll talk) with a provider and get to know a little about them and to break the ice for a few minutes when we first meet. A friendly open personality is good to have if we communicate (email/text) before we meet.

The physical things I look for in a provider are:  

1. Smooth pussy (I love to DATY)
2. More curves (hips and breasts)
3. Natural breasts (as much as possible), between A and D with nice large nipples
4. A nice full (but not huge) ass that I can hold on to
5. I like long shapely legs
6. nice smile
7. Nice eyes and smile (which is sometimes hard to see without a face pic.)

But the two most important things that matter the most, regardless on how hot she may be is....they must BBBJ and allow DATY

AnotherDonJohn 620 reads
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oralconniseur 10 Reviews 636 reads
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your "look". I think you look great with your womanly curves, nice ass and shapely legs. I now have you on my to DATY list. ;P

AnotherDonJohn 709 reads
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JawKnee36 95 Reviews 878 reads
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If I deem it necessary, I ask for outcall. I figure if they can make it to my place without causing an accident, that's good enough. ;)

GaGambler 864 reads
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Sooo...YouWanna 764 reads
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Honey, all you need to "learn" from this board is you're a dumb bitch, who's not allowed to have wants, needs, desires, or preferences.  

Basically, invest in an air pump, cause you apparently can't win here.

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 609 reads
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the thickest, horse-like dicks have always been on caucasian men. Seen all races and teeny-tiny are also on all races. But some of these white guys have some crazy jaw-dropping, scare-a-provider penises

GaGambler 692 reads
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I wonder how many people even know what either of those acronyms mean?

no_email 3 Reviews 938 reads
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...and if you believe what you wrote is the truth, why read/respond to what is posted on the board?

 
You don't have to, when you do it's your choice. You appear unsatisfied with the choices you make.

...but it's the fault of a fuck board, right?

pleaseme 23 Reviews 821 reads
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Small cocks, big bank rolls! And they finish wery wery fast!

Sooo...YouWanna 587 reads
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Oh please. I am perfectly satisfied with my choices. That's why you never see me bitching about my own. Nice try though. I know you like to think we're all just miserable man haters.  

She would be accused of being racist if she didn't see a certain group, and she's being accused of being racist for wanting to as well. This happens on a pretty monthly basis.  

Ignorance is a personal problem. So are pathetic attempts at being an asshole. Sorry you're dealing with both :-(

mklou 9 Reviews 674 reads
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I am Asian and your definitely my type. Just in the wrong city.

Posted By: devindavette
Asian men usually don't go for my 'look'..I attract 35-45 year old white guys mostly.  
   
 

mklou 9 Reviews 859 reads
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I am Chinese.  Well said.  I will usually stay away from Asian women and look for Caucasian women.

Posted By: Abc_dude
As an Asian man, I wanted to offer a slightly different opinion than what I've seen so far...first, let me say I am 100% ethnic Asian--moreover 100% Han Chinese...but really I'm probably more influenced by the fact that I'm probably 90% US red blooded American.  
   
 Given all that, when I read the question, I understood it to mean Asian men from a cultural perspective, not necessarily ethnic.  There are lots of Asians like me. Born in the USA and are really just American in my values and attitudes. But there are also lots of Asians that are first generation or immigrants who are very Asian in their values and world-view. Many of my relatives are like this and I have learned that "being Chinese" means that your center of reference is wildly different than westerners. Americans and Europeans do not always agree and often have different  perspectives on things...but nothing I've seen in those differences is nearly as different than a truly Chinese mindset. Which is also extremely different than Japanese or Philippine.  
   
 So, if one could lump Asians together (which most Asians don't do) I would say for those that are culturally Asian and eastern in their worldview, there are some things that might be culturally attractive to Asian men...  
   
 So, as noted once above, not-Asian is one of them. Just as a lot of westerners find Asians to be exotic, so do Asian men find western women exotic. Going along with that is the classic western build...taller, bigger breasts, big eyes.  Ever notice Japanese anime always draws the eyes of the cartoon characters with giant eyes? Also, I would say a woman that is not submissive. That doesn't have to mean dominant, but most Asian cultures value various versions of a submissive woman in the social fabric of the society. So an out-going, talkative, and confident woman is not the norm in Asian traditional culture...at least not in the public setting.  
   
 End of the day I don't disagree that physically, men are men, and hotness is a key factor, but what defines hot and what are those more intangible factors? I do think a wide survey of men from Asia versus the US/Europe would show some differing trends...  
   
 Anyway, I for one thought it was an interesting question...

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