Dear Neona:
Well it is comforting that this minister is at least coming to see you instead of being scrupulous with children. Although you feel somewhat conflicted with seeing him because he is self conscious when he is engaged in activities with you, at least he is coming to a grown, psychologically and emotionally mature woman. With respect to certain idiosyncrasies, if you can tolerate you should see him. However it is an antithetical that someone would pray when being involved in such a conflicting activity such as this. Maybe you can leave the room when he has his moment with god and then continue with the session. That way you can have a medium with him as a client but he can clear his conscience with god. Now the tricky part is trying to charge him for those moments if they exceed the hour that you would charge him?

if they are serious, they are dangerous.  Either way, stay away.

If you need a religious experience, I'd be happy to shout out:  "Oh God, oh God, oh God" when the time is right.

And my thought on this - fucking weird...for you I mean...praying through an orgasm? Um...isn't there kind of a conflict of interest there? Or maybe I misunderstand "Christian values"...NOT. I have some other thoughts on this guy but I'll keep those to myself - wrong board for that.

I'd really love to be a fly on the wall in that room if you do it, for purely non-sexual entertainment purposes. LMFAO!

Maybe he is, but I don't see how needing to pray while performing an 'unholy act' qualifies as dangerous...unless you really believe lightning will strike.  

And as far as being "sick", there are people who ass-fuck farm animals and others who literally eat shit as a sexual fetish...this doesn't even rate in the broad scope of deviant sexual proclivities.

He's a hypocrite for sure, and what he's asking for is pretty fucking wierd on a nonsexual level. Maybe he thinks praying through the act will somehow cleanse him of the deed, or some equally rediculous notion. But hey, you do whatever you gotta do to be able to look at yourself in the mirror.

Dangerous though? Sounds like a knee-jerk reaction. Are you saying that just because he's a minister and it conjures up images of predatory gay priests fucking underage choir boys?

This guy has given you way too much information to be believable. Or, he is extremely dangerous. Stay away! I have no doubt that there are ministers, pastors and preachers getting on with providers, but I can't imagine any such person exposing themselves so blatantly to someone they haven't even met.

I got this email today:

Hello,
I am Pastor of a local church, and would like to come to see you. Even though a man of God, I have my natural needs, and I must be discrete among my parisioners. I would like to come to see you for a "relaxing time," and I need to know if you are a Christian? I can only have my needs met with a real Christian girl. My wife lets me have "relaxation" with her once every 3 months but she does not let me touch or kiss her breasts...and I will want to do that with you, if you agree. I promise to be gentle and respectful.
If you will agree to see me, I must warn you that I will pray out loud while we are "relaxing" together, and would prefer if you would pray with me, especially at the moment of utmost "relaxation." I know I am asking for a special service, and I am prepared to pay extra...whatever amount seems fair to you. And I must ask you to promise to be completely secret so that my wife and the people of my church do not find out!
Pastor A. M.

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I don't have a problem with a minister wanting to see me or any other escort but I do have problem with being told I have to be Christian and he wants me to pray with him.

I responded that my reglious beliefs really shouldn't be a factor in someone seeing me since I am not there to convert anyone into what I believe nor do I want someone to try to convert me to believe what they believe as being true.

anyone have any thoughts or experience with a minister as a hobbiest?

Sounds kinda crazy. Just a little freaky in the sublimal messages, don't know what he's thinking so I would stay away to avoid the slightest problem.

Better be safe than sorry?

Like the others, I just have to say that this all sounds just a little weird and disturbing.  Like Mr. Fisher my first thought was that I pray all the time while calling our "Oh God!".  But it would indeed weird me out a bit if someone started reading scripture during sex...

And what happened to his manners discussing "relaxation" and" willing to pay more to pray" in his introductory e-mail.

I would run very far away.

I agree with everyone else. It sounds like someone's playing a sick game and trying to see how far they can push it. However, if this person is serious and this is real, I think you should seriously consider whether this morally something you can do. For some providers, they may be able to just treat it like any other job and channel their inner actress and put on a show until the end of the scene. For others it may cause problems. I personally would avoid this one, just a little to conflicting for me.

I am not Christian and although I didn't tell him that,  I also didn't tell him that I was either, so I haven't heard back from him.

I wasn't advertising at first and was trying to be the good girl. Then I told him my secret, and he didn't seem to react much to it.

I used to make jokes about writing a book called, "From a Prostitute to a Preachers Wife" lol but he turned otu to be a con artist using God to gain the trust of others so he could use them.

I wouldn't trust this guy with a 10 foot pole, a preacher that will do something like this and expecting you to pray with him during the session??? Sounds like he has some serious psychiatric issues girl, be very very careful.

Marie

I'm 99.9% sure of it!

It's probably a joke, but if he's for real, I'd run.   Just the way he phrases things sounds like he could start an exorsism at the drop of a hat.  Like a bad movie where someone gets killed. Be careful.

I haven't read the rest of the topic yet, but by "dangerous" I think this is suggesting that someone is pretending to be the minister by spoofing his name / ID or his spoofing his actual email address either to embarass him big time or it's someone dangerous trying to get in her pants (and more) by pretending to be someone else who is well known and "safe". I'll post first, THEN read more.

How about being a FLEA on the wall?  (The Autobiography of a Flea.)

Why would you have a problem to be a christian and pray with the pastor.  Very likely you'd be perfectly willing to be a police officer, nurse or anything else for another client.  Just see it as a role play and have fun with it.  Your client pays for a  fantasy and why not let him have it?

I would give this guy a wide berth, He sounds like the type who might want to come home to Jesus and bring you with him.

If he needs to repent, maybe you should just spank him for a half-hour.

You never know how far some will take their role and how serious.

I have never had a minister pray with me during or after time spent. Do they talk about their faith and maybe some insight into why they are with me ? yes, if you show an interest which I feel is very much a part of what I am doing with anyone. I never call it GFE but friendly and personable

There are holy rollers who go over the edge with their christian beliefs but I have never heard minister in the same line. This man could be fine but may be more problems than you can handle. If he doesn't have references I would pass him by just for the unknown ending.

Kisses Haley

If the guy were really a minister he would darned sure be able to spell "parishioner!" LOL

He would no doubt also be aware that the New Testament specifically forbids sexual congress with prostitutes; so would understand the contradiction in his request. (*grin*)

So I suspect it is just role-play.

That having been said, just as I support a provider's right to set whatever terms she wishes for access to her body -- including specifying things such as age, race, religion, whatever -- hobbyists have the same right!

Look, this is not a situation where rights go only one-way.

Men and women both have EQUAL rights to establish the terms and conditions under which they will provide access to their bodies.

The fact that providers might be used to guys exercising that right on the basis of relatively superficial things (i.e. cost, reviews, menu items, looks) doesn't mean that a man can't specify that he will only see women with degrees in hard sciences, particular religious backgrounds, specific political affiliations or whatever.

But, like I said, in this case, I think it is just role-play.

couldn't keep their hands off the ladies!!!!(King David) and he was the "apple of God's eye".
It's human nature to lust!
It's not our fault that God made you women so damn beautiful!!!

Assuming this is not some kind of a prank....this person is obviously conflicted.  They want to secretly do something they believe is wrong and think these other pretenses ameliorate their inappropriate behavior.  Either, they've convinced themselves that your being a Christian and praying with them makes their conduct less flagrant or it provides plausible deniability if they are caught.   IMHO you should decline the appointment.  This person does not seem stable.

Not just King David; but Sampson, Solomon and Lot...to name only a few.  Now, that does not justify anyone's behavior but it does illustrate the human condition.  Most people need the type of human intimacy only available via sex.  Ideally, this would be uniquely available only within marriage, but we don't live in an ideal world and no one (no matter who you are) behaves ideally.

Not because he is a Minister...hell , I suspect lots of ladies have Ministers as clients.  But I know crazy...and trust me...this dude is nuts...maybe dangerous.  Pleeeeze...avoid him.

...one of her most frequent clients is a pastor. I'm guessing "men of the cloth" are "hobbyists" fairly often. The fact that this particular one is cheating on his wife in addition to his god is probably why I became soured on most organized religion a while back: hypocrisy.

Clients is a Minister. A very successful one in fact. All I will say is the church pays VERY well. Rock on, a man is a man regardless of the job he does....and most of them like to get their "relaxation" on.

Does your preacher have you pray outloud with him at the moment of "ultimate relaxation"?  Maybe I've seen too many bad movies, but I imagine this guy doing something very scary at the moment of "ultimate relaxation".  It's one thing to be a minister, or priest, and it's another to be a lunatic.