It's pretty easy to just fuck a prostitute and go on about your business.  What is the need by some of the johns to fall in love with a prostitute?

Why do you care what other guys do? Is it because your rocks off in calling providers  prostitutes and guys Johns.

It would be easy enough to not reply.

I have no idea why some people treat this place like Match Com. Personally, I'm just there to use their body for my own personal pleasure and I pay them to leave.  

After all, he's only a troll and you have said you're at an advanced age, so not a good idea to raise your blood pressure.

Is wasting a breath trying to impress some prostitute.  Let alone try and get involved with her on a social level seeking some bizarre intimacy.

And now you toss out a backhanded compliment to one of the really old johns on these boards.  That is if he's telling the truth that he's 83 years old.

Can you be more specific?

Like who specifically is using this place like e-harmony? And what have their results been?

Is not that I don't give a fuck because to some degree I do. It gets to a point where it's like lets just have fun and that's that. Why complicate things....I'm telling you I have a fiance, I'm saying No to your drink offers, I'm being as honest as I can, no fantasy bulls*it just honest and you still can't understand the situation. Clients that get like that I eventually stop seeing. Not all money is good.

You tell lies all the time to the johns, and some actually believe some of it, for a while.

I don't get it either.

Well if a John is lonely and pays a prostitute to fulfill his loneliness,he will eventually get feelings.Especially if he sees her on a regular basis.They are human

maybe a grocery store, at work, a bar, a party. Sometimes it's because they are looking, sometimes it is just happenstance. Sometimes they meet their soul-mate. In fact, that's exactly how it happens.

I just loved your point of view!, it is that simple,specially when is sex involve,the same thing happens to some providers,it is normal.

I'd like to find a fuck mate, preferably one I don't have to pay. I have no delusions of finding one here.

Face it, man, it ain't gonna happen.  So thank god for P4P.  It was made for guys like you

Seems like you want to be her.

Good providers are experts at what they do, and I'm sure a woman can't do her best work with a man she feels is a total ick-sperience. Each man wants a woman who 'gets' him -- knows how to touch him, and insofar as that's an intuitive thing, a good provider-client relationship, like that of soulmates, is almost required. To have sex in the way you're describing it, I think one could do best investing $everal thousand in a heated silicone rubber doll, possible with a speaker inside, and the face he wants most, and thta way he'll do a big favor to the world of the living

Let me assure you, Vern, you will never see me, touch me or find your soul mate with me.  Ever.  

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great post!  Have a feeling your numbers were way on the low side. But you being so modest, I would expect that to be the case.  With your intelligence, spunk, deliciousness and off the charts sex appeal...........am betting you receive that number of marriage proposals every week........even when you take off.

For me meeting ladies the traditional way, through friends or in the civvie world doesn't work for me. Failed 100 percent of the time. So this hobby enables me to meet ladies that I wouldn't meet any other way. If it weren't for this hobby I'd still be a "40 Year Old" Virgin. LOL!!!!!!!!

I mean ... would you really want a provider (or any woman for that matter) to be 100% real with you.

need a soulmate...  

its just a fun fantasy world where you meet a lot of people and get to know some you see a lot and its just so much broader than regular life but you should probably not overthink it. Women are better at dealing with it and do fake their interest in you sometimes but if they like you as a client thats not a bad thing either

Imo it's genius....we both know the one thing that our loved ones don't....that alone makes for a great friendship...add  great sex and overall respect...count me in.  He would have to be single though. I don't have time for the wife  bullshit.

But, I have to agree. I'm very straight with my clients. I never imply that I have romantic feelings for them, and I don't lead them on. Yet, I've had three issues just this past WEEK with clients getting inappropriately and unilaterally attached.

it meant nothing.  Congrats, though!  I almost LULZ'd.

Erin, you are  awesome.

You must be a very deep person if you find meaning behind gifs.

But you already knew that lol

I found my soul mate via this profession, and I also love mr fisher, just thought I'd throw that in there

Including P4P.  But I wouldn't expect you to understand...the syphilis from your barebacking has eaten away at your brain.