Should a caucasian+____ mix consider himself in the minority category? I'm a Vin Diesel-type mutt in the sense that people have a hard time pinpointing my ethnicity, yet I'm definitely not white (for the record, I look nothing like Vin Diesel).  

I am a mutt as well, in my case a Sicilian Chinese mutt, I always go with Asian as that is the dominant "look" that I have. Most people recognize that I am Asian and "something" but no one hardly ever guesses anywhere near correct on my actual mixture.

I think I would actually find the statement "Oh you are not one of those people I was talking about" a bit offensive to tell the truth, but that's just me and it would depend on exactly what she was trying to convey when saying it as to how much offense, if any that I would take.

I'm also part Adam and part Eve supposedly. I think it's more accurate that we all partly evolved from Lucy the ape...  

...and it was a mix of straight up racism and prejudice based on a bad experience.  But she was hot and I was ready to fuck, so fuck we did (or in the horrible parlance of TER, I let the little head do the thinking)!

I have this problem as well.  Except Im AA+____ Which can get dicey when providers state that they dont see AA's B/C technically Im not totally AA, and had I not said that few people would guess it.  I understand why providers dont see AA's especially the smaller ones.  Its obvious.  Also because most AA's not all, so dont start flaming, but alot want to "tear it up" which if you're booking a 60 min appt sounds like a nightmare for some providers.  That being said Im definitely not in that boat, and I think the best way to combat this is to just get your name out there to the providers that you're a good guy and safe to be around.  Some ladies just dont see black guys, nothing to do about that they just dont prefer it, but others that say no AA's under 35 40 etc I think might be persuaded if you have some good references for being a good customer.  One of the few advantages of not being a 6 foot giant weighing over 200 lbs.

but yes, I can relate. lol

"What would Hitler say?" lol

Let's face it, Obama is not known as "half white" and does anyone remember how badly the Koreans treated Hines Ward until he got famous?

The truth of the matter is, most people with "racial preferences" where it comes to clients aren't really going to care that much if you are a "half breed" they are going to look at your "dominant" race and judge you accordingly.

I am rather interested to hear what women with NBA policies have to say on the subject, it might be rather interesting, or at least revealing. lol

I have to wash them too?!!?!?  J/K.  Yes this is my point.  If you can establish yourself as a good guy and not a potential threat I think many providers that only see _________ will see you.  

A recent shot of GaG, taken in his native Sicily

So this may be unrelated,  but, I'm a mix of three distinctly different ethnicities (mom is Dominican and Ethiopian, dad is Polish Jew). However,  I identify as Black and,  given the choice,  will typically just say that instead of mixed, regardless of how "exotic" I'm told I look.  

You did place the word "bold" in there too, so you may have been saying "some are bold, while others are racist." Just trying to understand you here.  

(I am not attracted to AA men  etc.) she steps in front of a firing squad. Because in reality she might only be attracted to a very small % of her client base so attraction might have very little to do with it. She just might not want to deal with an AA guy because of a past bad experience or she is not a fan of how they treat women from her perspective, or any number of reasons, and racism could be one of them.

I wasn't asking her about what a providers policy was re: AA men, I was specifically asking her about her comments she about men that post that they DONT see AA WOMEN, not the other way around HT.

A preference (or attraction or lack of same) does not equate to a prejudice.  I happen to prefer white brunettes with athletic bodies, who are at least 5'5" tall or more.  Does that make me prejudiced against blondes or redheads?  I see them both, too, depending on specifics.  But I also see AA gals and Asians, just not as much.
Will someone please look up the definition of "prejudice?" I'm too lazy.  But look at the damn word.  It means to pre judge. And not about looks.

Yes,  saying you are not attracted to any member of a single race is racist.  What is that lack of attraction based on?  There is no one feature or characteristic,  physical or otherwise,  that every single member of any race has in common.  So,  your lack of attraction is based on stereotypes of what you think every member of that race is/looks like.  That's racist.  I don't see why people don't understand this.  

I am not attracted to very "African" looking black women. Very dark, larger nose, kinky hair is not attractive to me.  

I would assumed "mixed blacks" such as Vin Diesel, Tiger Woods, Derek Jeter and yourself would not be seen by a provider with a Caucasian only policy.  I would guess and assume that Caucasian only means just that.  

I am not attracted to black girls or asian girls, not because they are black or asian but because physically they dont appeal to me.

But I just saw that Brad and Angelina got married in France. I'd always admired both of them as actors and as human beings, but now that they're married I think they're the Pitts!

a dick is a dick is a dick..

Yes, I can see EXACTLY how you would be offended if/when someone were to tell you "you are pretty hot for a black girl" I mean WTF???!!! That would be akin to someone telling me "you aren't that repulsive for an Asian dude"

That said, I will admit that I have my biases where it comest to the ethnicities of the women I see/fuck, but saying someone is "not like the others" or "one of the good ones" is incredibly racist, not to mention offensive.

Guys, I would recommend you keep this in mind when seeing "exotic" women. Do you really want to offend anyone that is about to be that close to your junk??? lmao

I thought halle berry was black unless you meant lighter skinned black woman.

seeing any provider who has "racial preferences."
Most that are listed, that I have seen, discriminate towards AA (the majority, not ALL, but most.)

The fact that you imagine a specific type of woman when someone says "Black woman" is exactly what I'm saying is racist.  You're not attracted to dark skin or wide noses,  fine,  but,  neither I, nor Halle, nor millions of black women possess those features,  so why generalize us?  I'm not attracted to blondes or blue eyes but I would never say I'm just not attracted to white people,  because white people come in all forms and diverse looks.  

What physical trait does every single Black woman share with every Black woman?  

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Also GND, Soccer Mom, MILF, and Classy sexy woman at the cocktail party.

Handle what exactly. And are we talking people or dogs here. Good lord. If it's people...people are people. It's a Non-issue if you ask me. Last time I checked it was 2014, not 1914. People in general still need to WTFU.  

President Wilson asked me to tell you he would like to take you for a walk.  But only if you don't poop on the White House lawn.

But rather how he is seen by the hooker community. And its a fact that people of color do experience some rejection due to the race..

I read it a bit differently (don't I always). The gentleman in question is still subjecting himself to how he 'sees' and views himself in the description of his own being. If he didn't view himself in the certain way he described (in this community or not) I highly doubt anyone else would see him that way as well, is my point. Let's see, how shall I put this..............gently.

I did read that again and thought it was off track...however I left it as I did have somewhat of a point...if not on point..

and Halle Berry has none of those physical traits. FYI her mother is full blooded Swedish. She is beautiful PERIOD to me, always has been.

For me it not about the color. I've met Zoe Piers personally and she's beautiful to me. She's African and her voice slays me.

about a Jewish person thinking they are whiter than white? Nicky defense on why he doesn't think that???

I'm betting he's of Eastern European descent...you do know something about the history of European Jews don't you? And it didn't just  stop there, people in the US were and are still racist about Jewish people. You think the white supremisist  embrace Jewish people? Why is that?

You WAKE UP. So there's no love loss between you two but for heaven's sake at least try not to appear so ignorant.

I'm not here to debate the whole is it a race or religion thing but Jewish people have been persecuted and killed by people who believe they are  somehow inferior, or less than whites by white racist. And you come up with him than he's thinking he's whiter than white. And if he does so the hell what.

Damn just damn. And I'd write this to you if you said this crap to any Jewish person here.

Bone up on your German history. Call him old or something to get back at him, GEEZK.

You are very confused. Something that may be "racial" isn't necessarily "racist" and is in fact rarely so, imo. People confuse those terms all the time, as you are doing now. To me racist speaks to superiority, which is totally different than attraction. I can't tell you why tan white women through light skin AA women attract me. I really have no idea. I do know I am not attracted to the polar extremes of race, I.e. Very dark OR very white, pale skin.

...he did read his favorite comic strip during its original run.

Cause you just did.  

I simply am not attracted to black and asian women, just the way my brain is wired. I still treat them like any other women, only difference is that i wouldnt want to fuck them or date them.  

Now, seriously, children. If any of you think I'm giving out personal information on this board, or if any of you believe what I've said about myself is true, you are dumber than I thought.
It is all a smoke screen for the real me to sit behind.  It's so much fun to watch Minnie swing and miss.  And, gosh, now she's getting mad! Geezk! Oh, I mean, Oy Vay!

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I'm kvelling!  Time to go to schul. Now don't be such a vontz.
Pretty hard to grow up in New York (do I really live there? Hmmmm....) without picking up some Jew Talk.
Now, don't get me started on those schwarztes!

I suspected that this might morph into a no-AA only thread, but I was also hoping that there would be some discussion of the other maligned ethnicities that you list.

It is good to see this discussed. Watch the ads and see if some the words change to be more friendly. I saw a review of myself on another board (providers board, provider let me look). I laughed what the provider thought my race was. You are correct the race that you get labeled as is the dominate one that comes out as color.  

I've never tried to deceive a woman into seeing me. And from my end, there's also a self-respect issue with not trying to pass for something I'm not.  

I always thought she was black thanks for the info

Some will use the not use the word "Absolutely"  in front of no AA. I think that might be the distinction on them being flexible. My hobby buddy took a chance one time with a no aa and it turned out to be good. The provider disclosed that she was not interested in ghetto guys.  The session turned to be out good.

I will go out on a limb and state that it may not be so much the skin color or religion BUT more so how these cultures treat women.

No,  it wouldn't be racist to say you don't like pale skin.  Thats a specific trait that plenty of people of different races possess.  

She is Black.  Swedish is not a race.  Just because her mother is Swedish/white doesn't mean she isn't Black.  Her father is African American.

I am more interested in what it is attached to. If a penis slid in my door without a "dick" attached to it, yeah I would see it. It's the "dicks" I prefer not see no matter what the ethnicity is. I will say that some ethnicities are not known for the respectful treatment of women. I prefer to avoid those if I can

All of the providers I mentioned used the specific label "caucasian only." Since I got the green light, I was curious as to how flexible they're preferences truly were. One was wary of immigrant men who have a low opinion of sex workers, one was no-AA/Indians with good refs/mostly ok with other ethnicities, one was just not attracted to guys she didn't perceive as white.

Unless her memory is failing her because it's been part of the banter here several times.

Taylor made the inane comment that she betting he'll say he's whiter than white. there has been a huge racist debate as to whether Jews are white or some other race. In Germany Jews were killed in mass numbers because they were somehow a race of people that should be exterminated.

So to say what she did to a Jewish person was ignorant as hell.

Steph

but what Taylor did.

although there is no shortage of misogynists nor overactive machismo among Caucasians...

And yet we escorts are nearly burned at the stake and dragged through the mud whenever this comes up on our end. Why do you think none of the ladies here have addressed the OP? Interesting, how often this happens on this board , where the men whine about stupid hookers, but change their own morals and ethics for the whim of an argument. As long as it's the opposite of what the girl says...

Casually throwing around the word "racist" and accusing me of that when you have never met me is the height of ignorance, arrogance and hate. You don't know shit about me. You read something in some hysterical racist book or mag or you watch too much PMSNBC to come to your disgusting conclusions about "racism."

My bad, her mother is of European descent Dutch, Irish, and German. Her mother has blond hair. There are plenty of pics online of Halle and her mother.

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even though she's half Caucasian!

Steph xoxo

you sure as shit knew he was Jewish. Why don't YOU expand the grey matter between your ears.

You stupidity in saying you're betting he'll say he's whiter than white was ignorant as hell and thoughtless.

Whatever she is she's a hot babe I'd like to bang lol

Middle eastern, Pakistani or Indian guys right off the boat along with their views on women. If they have been here long enough to realize that shit does not fly with women of this country, then I might see them.

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They said "no way!"  Because I wasn't smart enough.  Now Gambler's trying to make me an Honorary Chink. If he fails, I'm going for Sicilian.

If you're willing to let some stranger put his cock in your mouth and pussy, I'd say you get to decide.

because I DEFINITELY have some preferences, at least in "general" terms. That's the thing about making general statements. lol

In order I prefer skin color to be yellow, brown, white, and then black. Does that mean that I like all Asians above all Blacks? Of course not, it's just that "in general" I prefer the stereotypical slender, petite, delicate featured Asian woman over the stereotypical "other women"

In specific, I like what I like and over the last month or so I have been with Black, White, Asian, and Latina women alike, and I enjoyed my time with virtually every one of them. What is a bit ironic is that one of the women who was most "my type" ie petite, with delicate features was a black chica from the DR. So, so much for generalities I suppose.

That said, I stand by my earlier statement, when speaking generally, I prefer Asians over all, followed by Latinas, Whites, and Black women IN THAT ORDER, if that makes me a racist, so be it. I doubt that the little Dominicana I was with will agree though, she was so hot, I went back for seconds, and if I run into her again, which is quite likely, I am pretty certain I will go for thirds as well. lol

Sicilian??? Well maybe you have a shot there. lol

not do I care. But since you're thinking and speaking for me now too, anything else I need to know? Lol. This is hilarious to take something so out of context. Grabbing for straws huh? You really shouldn't hate that much, not good for the soul......Steph. Just admit what this is really about, it'll look much better.  

How people get so bent outta shape about 'color' and all the sudden the board is supposed to be  a serious conversation, but mention 'non'color issues like our safety or womens  policies on how she handles that safety and it becomes a  laughing stock. Yep. These are the kind of folks were dealing with here. Not pretty if you ask me.

I'd be careful with that. Not very attractive. Did he get you to say that too? Seems he's going around (lil cult like if you ask me) telling people the same thing lol.  

Except for one.  And he hardly qualifies as a male.
So it's just hilarious to see you proclaim you "want notta thing to do with any of them" when you know that's the last thing any of us want.
You're like the guy who's fired and yells, "You can't fire me!  I quit!"
Lordy, you are just such a stitch, Minnie.

I answer to all of the aforementioned. or at least I do when the person using those terms has a smile on his face.

Now that you mention it many of my friends call me a "ChinkWop"

You sure about that? That's quite the statement. Of course, you'd only know that if you were watching my 'every' single move again. Kinda creepy Nick.

Your annoying personality put off "nearly" every male on this board, including me.  And I know of at least one male whom you solicited here back channel and did see you.  He regrets it

Was hoping she wasn't going to go down that tired and worn out "racist" nonsense b/c I only like "half white" black girls. Reminds me of "white Hispanic" but that is a discussion for a different day and different board.

Why are people more offended when the idea that they do racist things is pointed out than by actual racism?  

Berry was born Maria Halle Berry, though her name was legally changed to Halle Maria Berry at the age of five.[4] Berry's parents selected her middle name from Halle's Department Store, which was then a local landmark in her birthplace of Cleveland, Ohio.[5] Her mother, Judith Ann (née Hawkins),[6] who is caucasian, and has English and German ancestry, was a psychiatric nurse.[7] Her father, Jerome Jesse Berry, was an African American hospital attendant in the same psychiatric ward where her mother worked; he later became a bus driver.[5][8] Berry's maternal grandmother, Nellie Dicken, was born in the United Kingdom (Sawley, Derbyshire, England), while her maternal grandfather, Earl Ellsworth Hawkins, was born in Ohio.[9] Berry's parents divorced when she was four years old; she and her older sister, Heidi Berry-Henderson,[10] were raised exclusively by her mother.[5] Berry has said in published reports that she has been estranged from her father since her childhood,[5][11] noting in 1992, "I haven't heard from him since [he left]. Maybe he's not alive."[10]

Feelings are personal. You can shout RACIST and RACISM from the tallest mountain top and nothing is going to change.  

There is more than enough real racism to get worked up about, and trust me, I can get worked up with the best of them when it's deserved, like CiscoDog's racist crack to Curly, which was NOT made in jest, or any of a dozen "Jew bashing" posts made on P&R lately.

This kind of uber sensitive, we are not only all equal but exactly the same bullshit, gives real racists cover by allowing them to point out how thin skinned people of color are, and how there really is NO racism today, which we all know is bullshit, and racism is color blind. you want to see racism, just see a handsome black dude bringing his "uptown white bitch" back to the hood and watch the sistas go fucking nuts. Or what happens when a "good Chinese girl" marries one of those evil "white ghosts" and has her entire family disown her for years. Oh yeah, that's my mother I am talking about, and that's a true story BTW. Yeah, I have seen enough REAL racism to last me several lifetimes, I have no patience for race baiters of any color.

an 'annoying personality' too? on top of everything else? Geez, how much can 'one' lady take LOL.  

So I didn't.  Can't you just let me have the Cliff's Notes? From the tiny amount of it I scanned I don't think we're talking about the same unhappy client.  So I guess there's more than one.
Wow, you are some lil' marketer, aren't you?
Don't you get tired of losing?  Guess not, Minnie.

Count us in!!! lol

Question...is any gentleman 'happy' here paying for what they pay for? I have found most are not, they are unhappy lil creatures, no matter what you give. They always want more, more, more, and more and drain you while they attempt to take more. That's my conclusion of the 'hobby'.  

They are "poor, unhappy lil creatures."  Well, thank god I'm not one of them and never will be.  You have no idea, but then again, you never have, Minnie.
And it's beyond hilarious to see you call yourself  too smart for this (or any) place.  Hint: anyone who has to say so simply isn't.  And your behavior here proves it.