I'd like to talk to someone about the experience first. She was my first provider and there were some good things, some bad things, but over all I left feeling...bleh... Before I leave a review I want someone to double check my perspective.

Were her pics accurate & did she provide services she advertises? Did you request maybe something not on menu? ..or did you ask a lot of question and scare her to death..lol. That can happen with newbies.  
Sometimes GFE gets confused with "porn star" actives.   CIM/Greek/ Snowballing ect are usually consider to be porn star.
A newbie once asked me to lick his ass hole..Oh hell NO! Not for love or money I said. I've had other others request greek or snowballing, which I don't do.  

Secondly, if you are having mixed emotions about writing a review on her and you are thinking about seeing her again, maybe it would be best, especially as this would be your very first  review, to wait until after you see her the second time.

Not sure if this is too much info or violates the boards rules, remove it if it is. I don't intend for this to be an actual review, but it does kinda read like one doesn't it?

Welcome to the hobby world.

*advice......oops

...until after I had seen another gal, before posting my first review. In fact, I would suggest waiting until you've seen several before you write a review to "calibrate" your scale.  

...your mind, but as GaG noted I'd give it a few days to let the dust & emotions settle before penning the actual review.

whether the inability to suspend disbelief was on your end or hers. If you're nervous, it can be hard to "forget" why you're there. So that might be something you're projecting upon her... again, hard to tell from your post. It's obvious that at least she didn't have a "businesslike" approach, from what you say, so I wouldn't slam her for it. Maybe you guys just didn't click, or maybe it was nerves. If you had a good time and want to, see her again... and, as other say, review her after you've had some other experiences to put this one into context (I'd definitely mention the age discrepancy and your reaction to it).  

Truth.

Her name, email, number, assuming you want to know if she has a profile somewhere.  You said you don't know if she is on TER, is active or participates? How did you meet her? If you met her through P411 her profile should have a link to her reviews, or you could type her name in the search box here and see if she has some recent reviews.  Of course all of that is in hindsight since you've already seen her.  But maybe it would give you more of an idea about her should you decide to see her again.  If this is something you are going to be doing with frequency then getting VIP would be a start, especially if you want to receive PMs.  It wouldn't hurt to wait until you saw her again to get a clearer picture.

That's fair. As a general rule, I do think WAY too much and I probably stood in my own way as far as "suspending disbelief" goes. However, mentioning you have a party to get too, doesn't help. I didn't need to know that. I know it's not a "work related" party, but knowing that you've got to get ready and jet AS SOON as we're done makes me feel a little "inconvenient." And in fact she was getting ready for the next event in her calendar before I even left.

There  are hundreds of thousands of hookers who have reviews here and only a relative handful that post on the boards or even read them. Same with the guys. Just look at how many "users online" there are at any given time, then compare that number which is always in the tens of thousands, currently almost 85,000, to the number of reads that any one post will get.

You should write the 1st review since you paid for the services (unless provider willing to give you a refund).  The provider should give you the 2nd date for FREE because her services are below expectation.   It is no cheap, no providers will state ahead of time what are allowed and no allowed when setting up the appointment, will not show their face in their ad or email picture with their face, and all providers just want the MONEY.

They also get paid for their acting skills and making you believe they really WANT to have sex with you.

You probably don't have enough perspective at this time to know if the bad was something you should take some responsibility for of is the providers fault.

8 posts and 2 reviews. We should all be taking notes.

If you like running your fingers through her hair you might also be one of those guys that like to caress a face. Some providers don't like to too much as they put a lot of effort in to the looks and you can do some damage -- no they either have a fix session or maybe look a bit worse for someone else.

My thoughts exactly. My next provider will purposely NOT be her in order to gain that perspective.

I am indeed "one of those guys." I want to play with every inch of a girl's body. Excepting feet and anal. Not into it.

which is no one's fault.   Just move on and don't fret.  

(although I've forgotten once or twice, particularly when I was in a rush. Not optimal, but it happens. Guys have done it to me as well just FYI).

If so, that would explain everything as you NEVER fuck with a black woman's hair. EVERYONE knows that. lol

"But the transition from small talk about being from the same nonFlorida state and getting our clothes off had the feel of "so we doin' this or what? Here are the rules..." "

I think the OP had unrealistic expectations. And I do get the hair thing. Just things the OP as a newbie needs to understand is that it's very common for people to have certain rules. And it's not uncommon that the first time might be not as a organic with some people. OP should probably hobby a bit more before he starts getting the gist of what hobbying is  about before writing reviews.

Nope. White as the driven snow... in Florida no less. O.O

Because that's constructive and really adds to the conversation.

I must be one you would want to avoid to then. I'm certainly not a Poker 59/Cum@60 type. I often spend the last half or so of an appointment cuddling. But I do like a lot of touching all over and working as hard to please her as she works to please me. Probably why I mostly see the same lady or two, we develop a chemistry and know what makes each other happy. And yeah we are probably going to both need a little putting back together at the end.

Ok that's fair. That was the whole point of starting this thread was to get alternate perspectives.

This guy says what I think.

...but I think here is the crux of the problem -- "...but when one pays money for an experience one does have certain expectations."

Just don't. This *isn't* your girlfriend, or your personal life.

Ok. That's a fair point. Hadn't thought about that aspect. I'll take that on board.

Providers brought shoes and didn't like it. They returned it for refund and wrote bad reviews on the shoes at Amazon.   So guys should also write reviews to let other know services provided by providers are below standards.  There should not be only good reviews and no bad reviews.  This defeed the purpose of this and other erotic web sites.

Actually the hair thing was rule #3. Laid out up front, not during the action. Rule #2 was no anal (no argument from me, I'm not into it) and Rule 1 was something I don't remember because it wasn't something I'd ever even remotely thought about.

Amend - provider charged 300 and provided below standard services. You should write the bad review.

usually start with a drink, or something.  

deciding whether to write a review or not, wait until you encounter the unrealistic expectations of many of the providers to your numeric scores.

You contribute nothing to this conversation. Take your insults to another thread. I'm talking about my experiences and asking legitimate questions. If you can't behave in a civil fashion, stop posting in my thread.

We had a decent 15 minutes of chatting. It wasn't immediate.

Then it sounds like she wasn't comfortable with the situation.  

and when they start making jokes about "don't mess with a white woman's hair" be sure to let me know

You should either get better at reading reviews or, because YMMV is a real thing, realize you're gambling when you pick a provider. Some let you use their body like a carnival; some are wham-bam thank you, sir; some are hurry up and cum in me. That's the hobby.  

Just a comment here about some of the issues raides by OP.
I have long curly hair and it is closer to  a mane that I care to think,takes one hour to dry in the morning...
yes,you can touch it but be careful as no it won't be like the shampoo ad:
you fingers won't slide thru it,you'll get stuck and pulling hair is not part of my sex activities.

Hookers are not doctors or lawyers. $300 an hour for FS is not a lot in the hobby. You should recalibrate your customer service expectations. Unfortunately for you, clients are willing to pay that much merely for a warm place to stick themselves.  

...to see her again maybe talk with her before another date. AND THEN if the 2nd date still leaves you feeling 'meh' then write the review as a total of both dates.

My ATF is ebony, and she LOVED it when I pulled her hair.

I enjoy face fucking while hair pulling.  Most provider s do not like there hair touched but are ok with the face fucking.  However, the girls will usually allow the hair pulling when asked nicely.  I think in-person communication is key when asking for special requests.

Well... it was over all pretty "vanilla" sex. I didn't make any requests, I let her take the lead. Being the first experience I decided to just hang back and see what she'd do. I followed her lead the whole way. We weren't in any weird or painful positions. I'm generally not a very intimidating person. I don't have a large frame, my cock is fairly average. I don't have weird sexual appetites. I'm pretty direct in conversation (especially keyboard warrior forums LOL), but in action I certainly prefer to sit back and see what happens and then respond to whatever is going on.

Ok. Honest question.

"If you expect more, you must study reviews. If $300 is too much to pay without the girl "mind fuck[ing]" herself into liking you as much as you, in your consummate professionalism, care for you patients, maybe you should stick to your incredible one-night stands. "

Whether you're paying, or not.  

You're absolutely right!

I think it just depends on the woman and whether or not she has extensions or any type of hair enhancements. I have thick curly natural hair and I LOVE having my hair pulled but I'd probably feel differently if I had clip-ins or something like that

Specifically for me...