Met a new provider a few weeks ago.  The only 10 I have seen in this business.  The kind of looks that would have men of all ages stumbling over their words.  From what I could tell, the session went really well.  She stayed at least an hour over time, with no pressure at all to do so.  Lots of open discussion about "next time" and so on.  I could sense nothing going bad.

She sent you MULTIPLE pre-emptive emails telling you not to negotiate?

That was a poorly written section by me. Lots of emails, but only one re negotiation.  Another point - I have several existing referrals.

Same lies and BS goes on all over the hobby... My client list overlaps with A LOT of ladies in my area and with the traveling ladies as well, but the same guys will write a review for another lady and not write one for me. Do they think I am horrible??? Of course not, I see them all the time and talk to quite often between sessions! After being in the hobby for a few years, some things you have let go and say it just is what it is.

Or was your point about referrals telling us you negotiated with those and they ratted you out to this girl?

If she had asked the OP to pay her for sitting around after the session ended...that's a different story.  He could have then shown her the door.

So, send her one of these:

Why say you will give a white list if you have no intention of doing it?
I've been lucky to have top hobbyists that understand that the importance and weight true reviews make in this industry...
she may be top 10..looks only go so far
the brain is a sexy.organ too
wink..a winning combo with skills is legit..happy hobbying
sincerely,  
lovely Lorena DE leon

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I would consider it quite unprofessional for some woman to bug me about writing her a review, and what's good for the goose..,..

I tried to white list a person once. and for more than a few days, it wouldnt show on his profile. I deleted the referral and added it again. Eventually it did show. TER is a bit slow on that matter maybe? If u have other white list referrals it's best to let it go. Assume she did it and move on.

In fact, I never agree with BS just on principal, but in this case he's right...

Exactly right Lobo! A couple months ago a woman visited me at my hotel. After a great session she hung out for quite awhile, drinking and regaling me with stories. That was fine as I didn't have anything else going on. When she finally got ready to leave she tried to say I owed her for the entire time. I had not asked her to stay and told her that. She huffed out and lost any chance that I might see her again. Her loss (shoulder shrug).
          Regards.......RR

I've had the same thing happen. Don't worry about it. See her again, discuss the WL and then write a review. Some girls don't know how to WL but won't admit it except in person. In that case you have to send them instructions. Other girls only WL if you've reviewed them. Still other girls only WL if they get a 9/9 or higher rating from you on TER. Worst case she's lying.

...obligated to pay for more time in that situation. If he was the one over staying then you'd have a point.

Ya, I am seeing her again no matter what happens with the WL. This girl is pretty rare - smoking hot, performance that never stops, and really interesting at the same time.  I'd be nuts not to repeat.

That is what charging by implication would lead to.  Awkward as hell for everyone.   I think she just lost track of time due to the stuff we were talking about.  I wasn't going to suggest she leave when she is lying there naked beside me, and by all impressions enjoying herself.  I could see that being super insulting.

Ok.. from your post you mentioned that you saw the provider one time. She asked you when you are going to see her again, and you said that you intend to and plan on following through with it.  

your next appointment when she started emailing you after you had seen her.
You do mention she sent more than one email inquiring when you would be coming back and setting an appt.
Maybe she figured since you have not booked another appt she is not going to whitelist you.
But she is not telling you this.She just keeps saying she will but yet no whitelist.

I did review her after the second whitelist request.  She was happy with the review, and that is when I made the last inquiry, and then dropped it.  

1) Until I did it once, I thought it would be a tedious process which it is not.  She may not know that.
2) She may want to keep you to herself, sexy...it does happen after all she gave you extra time off the books.
3) She may just have not gotten around to it.
4) It may be true that she has not learned how to set limits in her dating schedule and then immaturely resents you for it even if she thinks that you are a nice guy.

Maybe it is an oversight on her part?