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lester_prairie 12 Reviews 1437 reads
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1 / 12

... not married, and even though I'll be 68 soon, I think I would date multiple (older) escorts.  Not for "free" sex ("free" sex is the most expensive.)   I was just reading another escort lament on Twitter how she travelled alone for vacation because she can't find a reliable boyfriend.  And as many of us get older, both women and men, we tend less and less to want to get tangled up in another committed relationship.  But we still want occasional companionship of the opposite sex.  I wouldn't rule out dating civies that way, but I just feel between civies and pros, the civies would be more likely to want to lock down exclusivity.  I feel pros might be more free spirited that way.  But maybe not.  It's a fantasy anyway, since it appears I'll be married until one of us dies.

Debra_Hollander See my TER Reviews 101 reads
posted
2 / 12

Posted By: lester_prairie

 I wouldn't rule out dating civies that way, but I just feel between civies and pros, the civies would be more likely to want to lock down exclusivity.  I feel pros might be more free spirited that way.  But maybe not.  It's a fantasy anyway, since it appears I'll be married until one of us dies.
I don't know if this is accurate.  It could be, so I'm not saying you're wrong.

 
Over the years, the providers I've known well enough to call friends, have mostly been in committed relationships.  
 I've seen some ladies tweet/post that they're in fully-open relationships and both individuals have sex with others but I don't know if that's more common than what I've seen from those I've known on a personal level.

 
For me?   If he wants to hook up with other women (civvies or pros) then that's fine with me, as long as he's ok with me playing with other men besides my clients.  

 
So far, only one person has been cool with that.    ;-)

gnubie 2 Reviews 92 reads
posted
3 / 12

Thanks to you all who want to complicate this thing to the nth degree. It's really quite simple. Have fun. Be cool. Observe simply rules and boundaries. It just occurred to me that I've wasted far too many hours in this forum.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 87 reads
posted
4 / 12

the time you spend her wasted militates strongly in favor of leaving.  Can't fault you for that.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 112 reads
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5 / 12

It most likely will be you.  80% of obituaries of men end with . . . . . "He was survived by his wife."    

 
My own theory is that women live longer than men because they are not married to women.  

 
typo fixed

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Hpygolky 233 Reviews 82 reads
posted
7 / 12

Getting a heart attack while being with a hooker....Now there's a 8 clap for ya...lol
PS-Look him up

inicky46 61 Reviews 130 reads
posted
8 / 12

when he had a seizure (I don't know if he was married or not) so she called 911 and waited with him for the ambulance. A few years later we were al at a M&G together and she was introducing him around as "Stroke Guy."

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 89 reads
posted
9 / 12

I wasn't really commenting on whether pros have fewer significant others than civies.  I was just saying that pros might be more free spirited about non-exclusive dating.  
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Also I'd be dating women closer to my century.  Not the 23 year olds.  The older ones are more likely to be divorced or widowed.

Debra_Hollander See my TER Reviews 105 reads
posted
10 / 12

I wasn't talking about HAVING an SO, but rather, what type of relationship it is.

The ones I've known have not been as "free spirited" as you think they might be.

In my personal experience, providers do prefer exclusive, committed relationships just as frequently as civvie women.

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lester_prairie 12 Reviews 85 reads
posted
11 / 12

Oh well, it was a fantasy anyway.

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