I saw the ad of a lady I had seen previously so I contacted her for a sequel date of 1 hour.  She responded immediately agreeing to meet and provided her new addy.  An hour later, I realized I had a 90 minute date alibi so I messaged with the request for a little extra time.  She answered that she preferred to keep it at 1 hour as she recently underwent a boob revision and was sore from that.  Not wanting to run the risk of finding myself flossing with her breast sutures or have my lips stuck to her chest by surgical grade super glue or causing discomfort, even pain, from the prospective physical activity, I cancelled.  When is it time to go back to work?  When would you schedule with a provider who had recent surgery?

Well, I'm not a provider, but if that was your reason, you may not be allowed back.  She was willing to play with reasonable restrictions and you kicked her in the teeth, so you ask for a replay at your own peril

sounds like he just wants "unrestricted" fun.  
She should have mentioned any restrictions upon initial booking.

I arrived for the session and was THEN told that she was not feeling 100%.  You would not have found out until you got there had you not asked about extending the session.  I think she had an obligation to tell you anyway when you booked and give you the option to postpone for two weeks until she was back at full speed.  Its like renting a car and then you go to pick it up and they tell you to go slow because one of the tires has a leak.  Bad form on her part.

If I am reading the OP correctly and his facts are correct, she should have revealed any issues to him at the time of booking that would scale back any of the usual activities.

Her issue was with an extended date. Not a limited date which is what most of you are implying. She also may have had another appointment after him and was unable to extend his time but as many of you have mentioned before. Admiting that as a sex worker you have other clients than the one you are currently speaking/booking/having a session with is taboo according to these boards...

If you ever had a man card, turn it in, and do it NOW.

Escort had just had implants and said she still had a problem with one of her nipples. She was upfront so I went for it and left said nipple alone. Sadly she ruined her breasts, especially that nipple which is now permanently deformed but that is not the point. The point is my expectations were well managed by her.

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for about a month. The procedure was thru her nipples and she allowed I was first to bless the twins if I was careful. They were magnificent before and after and I got to gently remove her bandages but couldn't touch tehm. The sex otherwise was the usual. Spectacular.  

Surely she can come up with some imaginative excuse for not wanting to extend.

We are going by what the OP has told us and what he has told us it would be "limited" per the girl. I am really having trouble understanding how she would be perfectly fine for 60 mins but an extra 30 mins would put her in distress.  

I don't have breasts, obviously, but I'd wager a guess that breast surgery can leave the area pretty sore.  Which can be problematic if the guest wants to play with them, do Russian, or both.  Now, some guests will be OK with leaving them alone and just enjoying other activities.  Others consider breasts to be an essential part of the experience.  I'm the latter .  

I know you were being facetious, but if a provider told me about something like that, it'd put a big damper into the appointment.  Not to mention it's simply TMI.  I remember a provider asking me to reschedule slightly earlier, because she said she had a birthday party to get to.  I'd rather she say something like that.

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to postpone mine so the other client could have an extended session.  It was still wrong of her to NOT present the option and let the person paying decide which they would rather do.

I do think she should have told you earlier and that you made the right call.

"btw, I just got implants" seems to me

Fact one she had a recent boob job and they could be off limits or dampen her performance. Playing with her breasts is an important menu idem to me. Possible play restrictions should have been brought up at the first.

Wow.  So I see by the number of "likes" that this board is completely swayed toward the provider getting paid at all costs even if she is totally at fault.  OzzieM is either a clandestine spy for Team Provider or has no balls whatsoever.  Odd how in addition to having no reviews, he has still managed to be Whitelisted by a provider.  

i wish more providers would be professional about their situations and restrictions before booking.  i am personally thinking of one girl who didn't bother to tell me she was having her period until i wanted to stick my fingers up inside her.  if i had known she was riding the red wave i would have postponed the date for a week or so.  as it was, she made my "not the most professional" list.

For my regular friend to get over her cosmetic surgery. Its been almost 5 weeks now. Last time I talk with her she said that she should be ready by the first week in August. Not sure on what she had done to herself, but I will find out soon. I am glad that she told me that she will be taking a few weeks off because of it. I guess it pays to be a regular client.

Yes I agree, when I had my breast surgery I waited 2 weeks before I started back. After I came back from surgery, before I scheduled with anyone I let them know in advance that I had surgery and that my breast were completely off limits. Some people decided they didn't care and others preferred to wait.

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I don't have breasts, obviously, but I'd wager a guess that breast surgery can leave the area pretty sore.  Which can be problematic if the guest wants to play with them, do Russian, or both.  Now, some guests will be OK with leaving them alone and just enjoying other activities.  Others consider breasts to be an essential part of the experience.  I'm the latter .    
   
 So the OP's provider should have told him about her surgery situation, and what he can and cannot do during the session as a result.  Then be willing to accept the possibility of a "maybe later".  I, personally, wouldn't feel comfortable scheduling with a provider shortly after her surgery.  Because I'd be worried about hurting her, which will make the session less enjoyable, which will make her worry she's doing something wrong.  Not a good chain reaction.

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Many of us much prefer naturals to surgicals (or vice versa). If there was an unadvertised change in the fixtures, she should have told him up front.  

what you were encountering.  That is positive that she told you.  I have a provider that I see often (or did) and she underwent oral surgery the day of our appointment but did not tell me until we met.  I was very disappointed in this because we kiss a lot and she was in no condition to do so.  Needless to say I was fuming after I left.  Have not been back to see her but due to finding better providers.

Why not honor what you originally proposed?  If that's not satisfactory, then decline/cancel, and move on.