I wonder if there's a website or a way for me to find out if there's only escorts for outcall to dates only like a party or function or just chill out at a coffeeshop?

pay providers to talk to them, sober them up or to get a cup of coffee. I am sure some of them will chime in.

Dude, if you want to pay a provider to look across a table or go to a function you won't have to look very far.  

Time and companionship only. Though I have heard rumors that some of these guys are so smooth they actually get the girl to...OMG...take her clothes off...WOW!

Who the hell are you seeing dude? Which party is 'carrying'? lol

not to kick sand at the "gun and run" crowd

but if a lady isn't sufficiently poised that i would feel comfortable being in public with her i'm not likely to have much "chemistry" with her in private.

whether a lady provides that service or not is something that you need to research. look at her website and adverts.

some of my favorites have been very generous with their time or rate for such occasions, others have very clearly defined compensation expectations for going out. i'm not telling which ones so no PMs, please. it is a matter of personal individual choice, not a "commodity".

Their's greenbacks in the envelope,their are many providers, who will be your date!!!

I cannot speak for all, however, I do agree that not ALL escorts are they type you would WANT to take in public, to functions, etc.  I would suggest doing some homework, perhaps meet with a lady 1st, then discuss in private what she is willing to work with you on,  I personally have done this type of service a couple times, and Loved the company...and worked with the donation...GOOD LUCK!!

Most guys here are going to give you grief (mangina bullshit, etc.) about seeing an escort for social companionship services.  Those guys are mainly the 1-hour, bang-them-and-run crowd.  There are other men who focus on longer experiences with the ladies and only arrange overnights, weekends, dinner dates, and travel companionship.  In those cases, the men are usually hiring ladies they have seen before and who are independent, very poised, and are fun and sexy to spend time with.

For your situation, there are a few (not many, but a few) independent ladies who offer social companionship rates separately from their GFE encounter rates.  It can still be a pretty steep cost, but it's an evening (or day) together with the understanding that there's no sex expected and just a social, public outing is on the table.  

Such girls are rare and usually have a minimum time frame (thus a minimum fee).  Look for an independent girl with a good review history for being poised, intelligent, personable, and friendly.  You may be able to find what your looking for by visiting escort malls and searching on key phrases like 'social companion rates' or something similar.  Good luck.

Is there more?  Explain yourself.

LOL! i've never been a "gun and run" type

and any rumors that i carry firearms are about 50 years out of date! LOL!

it's a metaphor, OSP. it refers to the client who just wants to run in "shoot as many rounds as possible" and head for the hills as fast has his little painted "hobby horse" can carry him.

now some ladies do have "staff" or friends that carry and may indeed carry themselves. i wouldn't know.

When I have looked for something other than sexual serves I have just asked her if she up for it. Paying for a non-sex date is even legal so no need to be bashful about asking as the worse thing that is likely to happen is she says no. Please note if she does not offer a public date rate expect to pay her full rate.

As someone else pointed out we sell time and companionship only.  I just happen to have VERY liberal standards of what I am attracted to age/looks/physique-wise.  The only thing I will not compromise is that he is a gentleman who knows how to take care of a lady.  Usually in multiple positions or bent over a sofa while admiring a view when my heavy breathing isn't fogging it up.

In all seriousness, I have had offered my time for social situations or non-intimate/purely fantasy encounters.  I have also been at 2 parties that were full of us to make the guy who through them look like a stud to his friends from work.  Yes, it happens... and yes, it is just as fun!

Although I still prefer a good f....

...fun time

I like your style!  How could I have missed you?? Fantastic website and pictures....Would love to see you sometime!

...there are a lot of other people who will tell you your interest is dumb because they don't share it.

Your best option is to browse and find ladies you think you'd like to spend time with and then ask them if they'd be comfortable meeting only in public (because some won't).

Be up front about what you want, and don't -- don't! -- ask for a discount or shorter time minimum because you'd only like to meet in public. That's the number one way to get your initial contact ignored.

although i have scotch and cognac as possible consolations, i'm not touching anything until my med issues are sorted out. maybe i'll go get a fig newton and herbal tea....

NO! f- that!

only accept a discount or time off clock if it is offered! NEVER presume that because it has been offered liberally in the past that you can ask for it!

One day, not soon enough as far as I'm concerned, we're gonna have those drinks.

Just like Santa, I'm making my list, checkin' it twice...!

You take care of Tex. Let me take care of the booze!

... I'll bring the porn.  I think my late night solo party just got a heck of a lot more fun than yours

"good F"? LMAO

the epistemological significance of porn:

1) if no one is viewing it at the moment, is it still porn?
2) if it's porn, but you aren't offended by it, is it still porn? or is it only erotic?
for example: i've seen a fair amount of erotic art and film but the only movie i've been really offended by was Mel Gibson's "Passion of the Christ".

glad to hear someone had fun.

The 'mangina' crap sure is getting old.

Good Morning,
Ask the Lady that you care to be with... All she can say is No...

I have been known for these style of date. They are so much. Yet, the negative side is ---Both parties may have to agree on a donation.  That is----If she doesn't advertise it.

Some of us Ladies are just low key.  I get those invites after the first date. Once the guy knows he can Enjoy being out in public with me.

Good luck!
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