I saw a hooker back in 2005 and when I contacted her again in 2009, she never every single detail about me.. My likes and dislikes. It gave me a  pause as to how much I should share with someone. That's why I never share my real name, my home address, or anything family related..

effort to flush everything from my mind immediately after the date is over. I mean men have sent me their Wikipedia files, photos etc, which is fine, but I don't care to know anything more beyond that except that he's safe, fun and a gentleman who plays his part before and during the date. Notta thing more. And after that, when it's time to say goodbye, I can only hope and pray he does the same kind of flushing of me until we meet again.  

my reviews to see what I liked.  I'm sure they could use a review written about them to help "remember" a previous date.

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if you really mean and do what you wrote then i applaud you taylor poo .....

Mutual respect is important , xoxo  

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effort to flush everything from my mind immediately after the date is over. I mean men have sent me their Wikipedia files, photos etc, which is fine, but I don't care to know anything more beyond that except that he's safe, fun and a gentleman who plays his part before and during the date. Notta thing more. And after that, when it's time to say goodbye, I can only hope and pray he does the same kind of flushing of me until we meet again.  
   
 It's called in my book, the "Respect of the Game". Ya just gotta have it.  
   
   

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I write everything I know about him in a notebook after our date is over. Not just likes and dislikes, but things he's talked about himself. Like having kids, his hobbies, favorite teams, struggles he's having, etc. Before I see him again, I review my notes and bring up those things with him. It's a trick I learned in a social graces book, the name escapes me, to be more thoughtful. This was really helpful in the sugar bowl because sugar daddies require a lot more maintenance than clients. Instead of writing novels, I write quick little notes now.  

but I have heard of ladies keeping notes of clients. I used to when I had many more. Now it's like having a few boyfriends to remember lol.

... and I'm not even wrong, because I'm a man.

don't get many complaints in that area, so I keep mental notes of the other random stuff.

the fact that she probably fucked 100s of guys between our fuck meets, which were 4 yrs apart, makes me want to believe that it was probably not memory.

But when I see some shit like that, I always go a little paranoid, but regardless in a situation like that a provider has much more leverage over the guy to get him in trouble - should things go sour...

So if they almost keep my phone #, would they almost know who I am when I text/call?

And forget notes. Wasn't there a case a while back where a provider filmed the session without telling the client?

has ANYTHING TO DO WITH KEEPING NOTES, BV?  

as long as you (universal tense) don't write it down.. Can you imagine if a provider gets in trouble with LE and they take away her PC/laptop, and they find detailed notes on her clients? Not fun....

It's the accidental or intentional leakage of that personal information is what matters. Senator's jobs are not any more important than other people's jobs.  Some girls keep records in their google docs, emails, calendars, personal blogs, etc and it stays there indefinitely until she either deletes it or gets caught or falls into wrong hands.

Does your mom know that you are a provider?  
Or did you mean that you are just giving her your client list as a safety measure for yourself but she doesn't really know what you're doing?  

Part of the reason I stopped. Good note.

Senator's jobs aren't more important than ours how come they get better retirement and health benefits than we do ? Oh.. they also get much better opportunities to cash in on graft and corruption than the average John.

If it falls into wrong hands the damage is equally traumatic to some people who are not blackmail proof.  

so here's a direct quote of what you wrote...

But don't be a pedantic putz. main point is that senators are no more important or different from us in the context of how our personal info should be handled or expected to be handled.  Some girls keep notes of clients regardless of how self important or perceived to be important a guy is.

I have no need to ever harbor the knowledge bestowed on me from any gentlemen in this world. I have enough to worry about on a daily basis, trust me. Now, might I add there is one aspect of this 'Respect of the Game' I did forget to mention that goes even deeper.....much deeper.  

I know a provider who uses a Google number for her business and takes notes after the initial session in Google Voice. The next time he calls, she knows she's seen him and knows what he likes/doesn't like, how long the session was, what he paid, if he tipped, if he has any special or peculiar attributes, etc. Kind of scary, really. Cops get phone, phone describes the session and parts of your anatomy one would only know if she saw you naked.

I was I a hurry to close out of TER because a civvie lady was coming to my table to join me for desert and talk. So...

Bring extra large condoms - this guy's the size of two coke cans!

My mom knows I'm a provider, so I keep that list as a safety measure. If I don't come home, she can refer to the list in the safe. It was mainly when I was sugaring because I did not screen those men in the same way I screen now (provider referral).

This is why I like paper and paper shredders. Yikes!

A more likely explanation is that she simply made some notes to herself, saved them along with your contact information and had them readily at hand when next you contacted her, even though it was four years later.

Contrary to Rod's presumption that it is a bother to save information for that long, I would argue that it's actually more bother to delete it than to keep it once it's saved to her phone, computer or whatever. I doesn't take a bit of effort to keep this kind of information, OTOH it's a pain in the ass to clean out these kind of folders. I know I have people still on my contact lists that have died more than four years ago. I just haven't bothered deleting them.

long before he changed his name.

I wish he would go back to being simply enigmatic.

I do not keep notes. Some people I remember massive things about them others nothing at all. Not sure why.

Ladies that I particularly enjoy, I want to keep memories of.  When I return, I want to already know what she likes so we can take it to the next level of sex play and not have to waste time starting from scratch like we're strangers.

They have all the data and it never goes away.  Same with almost every other cloud service.

I do  keep notes in the contact info for future reference, it mainly just says if he was nice or not (so I know if I'm willing to set another apt), ic or oc, and one specific thing to help me remember them. Nothing personal, just for my own eyes, and of course for reference purposes...
Each lady is different though