But can't tell who it is or read it because I'm not a VIP. BAH! I hate this not knowing stuff.....

Yes, but I still think I should be able to read the message at least, then perhaps pay if I wished to respond, the way Match does theirs......

ok, what do you mean 2 days? You mean write reviews, I would but I have no new ones to write.

Are you claiming that you want to play for an hour for the rate of somewhere between $250-$350  
but are unable to support the sponsor? Goodness I am sure someone will take $50 off her rate to
direct you to where you need to be. Why can't you see someone and write your review ? I'm sorry  
I cannot understand the logic in the fee VS. the VIP   . Just sayin...

It creates trolls.
I myself let VIP expire. It really does limit what you can find out about the ladies.
More so than I remember.  
When I need it. I am gong to give the site the cash they deserve for keeping us safe.
This forum works great. We should support it.

It's crappy that people still don't read FAQ's, guidelines, policy etc...
All you really know about this site is that you can get free VIP for writing a review?

you can go and search through bad websites (the ones that have expired) and report them by problem reports. Each approved gives you 2 extra VIP days.

He is just trying to read his mail, if he wanted he could of put up a fake review. Some quarter should be given. He is just looking for help.

i always invest in quarterly VIP if i am short on days..you get 90 days for 75 dollars and can pay by credit card..safe..secure and certainly worth it compared to what you pay for a session..there are too many advantages NOT to have it..

Just saying at least we don't have one more fake  review floating around here, your right he is whining but every member has a budget and at looks like at one time he did have the cash and hopefully did write a legit review. That's my point reviews are the major reason most of us are on here better no review than a fake one.

If you can't afford VIP, HTF can you afford to hobby?  The fee is nominal compared to flying deaf, dumb, and blind...

You can read my "Posts" for free.

if you are broke you can't see providers so why bother with the message system? most of them are not looking for a broke pen pal

He said he has a crew cut , maybe his brains were in his hair .

where the hell does he work? i could see a few providers being broke because business is up and down, but a grown man? unless you work at walmart part time, most men over 30 have a job with a salary.

But son!  One also supports this site by submitting problem reports because they let TER correct reviews that have misinformation.  I rarely do it (I have loads of free VIP days because I write reviews) but it's a perfectly legit way to earn VIP days.  TER offers it because they clearly believe it is of value to the site.

TER is a business first and foremost. Do you also expect hookers to meet you for drinks OTC first, and then perhaps pay if you wished to?

What would prevent people from including an alternative way of contacting them, like say an email addy or telephone number and thus circumvent the need for you to pay at all?

Look this hobby is not exactly a cheap one. I don't expect a golf course to allow me to hit free range balls until I can afford to actually pay for a round of golf, and surely you can understand why VIP features here are limited to people who actually pay for them, or otehrwise contribute something tangible to the site.

I can't fucking believe I just defended the Euro's. See what you made me do. Now I have to go puke. Thanks a lot asshole!!!

VIP is definitely valuable for doing research and for backchanneling. Free days are not really free. TER puts a value on their VIP days  You either pay for it or you work for it. 30 bucks a month or 15 days for a review or 2 days for problem report. Probem reports improve the database. As Nick said, they wouldnt give VIP days if they didnt put a value on a problem report.

I am not whining, I'm writing a legitimate gripe. the reviews I did write were at a time when I did have a nice full-time job, but that day is since gone.  

Are you drinking again

But of course what you said is 100% true. No matter how you feel about the Euros or whether you support them or hate them, facts are facts.

I am genuinely sorry you can't afford the twenty five bucks to buy your VIP for the month, but this is a HOBBY, not a charity run by our friends in the Netherlands.

TER is a multi million dollar business, devoted to a hobby many times more expensive than golf. Why do you deserve a free pass when the rest of us have to pay? would you really implore your local country club to give you a free locker and range balls, and then maybe AFTER you hit them really well on the practice tee you would then pay them to actually play a round?

I don't mean to be harsh, but grow the fuck up, get a job and/or quit trying to enjoy a hobby you obviously can't afford. Honestly if you can't afford twenty five bucks for VIP you should be spending every waking hour looking for gainful employment, not worrying about who PM'd you on a fuck board. I feel sorry for people who can't put food on the table to feed their kids, I don't have a bit of sympathy for someone who can't afford VIP on a fuck board.

Probably drunk?  LOL!  Gambler is pretty much always drunk at least to hear him tell it!  But, if so, he is very high functioning for a perpetual inebriate.  Not sure if he was drunk before that dinner in LV or not.  If so, he can certainly hold it, especially after we downed four bottles of wine with the two Frenchies!

Yeah, right after I posted i thought I probably should have left out "probably."