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GaGambler 360 reads
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2 / 43
frontpage 26 Reviews 408 reads
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3 / 43

The ad and pictures read, "Hot young DD breasted latina". What I encountered was, well lets just say it was false advertising>>>>>>>>>  

I bolted....

EroticRobbin 571 reads
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4 / 43

He or she, obviously were lax in regard to performing due diligence before booking the provider.

GaGambler 406 reads
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5 / 43

I have walked on numerous occasions. and if I walk, I don't leave one red cent as a "cancellation fee" I don't reward bad behavior and any john that does is doing us all a disservice and is part of the problem.

jelloman42 10 Reviews 270 reads
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6 / 43

Her pics were obviously out of date and severely retouched, and she lied about her age to the tune of at least 15 years...

...this was before I knew about P411 and TER...should have walked but the little head was in charge at the time...

Were I to be confronted with a similar situation today I would walk...

EroticRobbin 458 reads
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7 / 43

Does that mean you don't read provider's profiles and reviews, because "reviewers were too chickenshit to tell the truth?"  If that's the case, what's the point of reviews?

BTW, GaGambler, XOXO's! ;)

nevertoolarge 30 Reviews 233 reads
posted
8 / 43

one time i arrived at a girls house ...  totally misled on looks .. heavy and old ... she greeting me and then had me wait while she went into bathroom to freshen up ..  i walked out while she did.    imagine her surprise when she got out .. or i bet i wasnt the first!  LOL  

although recently in vegas i booked a double .. one girl hot, the other a top rated TER girl, i dont know how .. pictures easily 15 years old,    i kept them but was very upset and disappointed.

Debra_Hollander See my TER Reviews 387 reads
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9 / 43

I've actually heard guys say that certain ladies probably only blur their photos to trick guys into seeing them, because (in their opinion) no one would see them if they showed their faces.   That is just plain fucking mean.  It really is.  

Beauty is in the eyes of the be-fucking-holder!  Very little is more subjective than whether or not someone is attractive.

Years back, I worked with a stripper who looked a LOT like the actress/comic Sandra Bernhard..... she was a perfect example IMO, as some guys thought she was drop-dead gorgeous, while others couldn't believe the club had hired her.  
Now, if SHE were to hang up her shingle as a provider, and blur her face......I can imagine the reviews would be very mixed, indeed.  

Just because some reviewers don't want to call someone out as "ugly" doesn't make them "chickenshit"...... it makes him a wise gentleman, who realizes that his opinion is NOT the unequivocal truth of the situation, and he does not want to unduly hurt her feelings.  

Because, yeah, being called ugly?  That shit hurts. Having it blasted out there for all to read, forever?  Well that just plain sucks rancid donkey dick.    

If you don't like the way a lady looks, and the only misrepresentation going on is that she just didn't SHOW her face.... you do not have any business feeling deceived.  

Because there WILL be people who think she's beautiful.  

xoxoxooxoxoxooxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoo

Afro-desiac 336 reads
posted
10 / 43

If an escort uses false advertising to lure guys in hoping they'll be weak enough to stay and pay, you can't simply say it's all his fault for not doing his homework well.
Clearly he did not, but that does NOT absolve her for trying to perpetrate a fraud.  Your refusal to say one word about her deception is bizarre.

escalade1964 65 Reviews 212 reads
posted
11 / 43

8's and up only.....

even if they were chicken shit and lied, I stay for the sex.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 347 reads
posted
12 / 43

But then realized she had a full length mirror facing the door.

(ba-doom)

But seriously, a few times gals were not quite as cute or slim as I had hoped, but not butt ugly either, so I stayed and had a great time nevertheless

EroticRobbin 158 reads
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13 / 43

Posted By: mrfisher
But then realized she had a full length mirror facing the door.  
   
 (ba-doom)  
 

bbfs4ever 310 reads
posted
14 / 43

Especially when a prostitute doesn't show her face.  Johns are paying good money to fuck, presumably, a decent looking woman.

Basing my opinion on the descriptions of others is just not a good formula as to whether I would find that prostitute attractive.  If others find butt ugly attractive, so be it.  There are a bunch of old, socially awkward men here who will find anything with two X chromosomes worthy.  

If we are not discussing money and a certain expectation, I would wholeheartedly agree with you.

But this is P4P.  Show those mugs and let the buyer decide.  

To not expect some of the guys to tell the truth is idyllic.  You're lucky that most here have no balls.
Posted By: DebbieNoonerGirl
I've actually heard guys say that certain ladies probably only blur their photos to trick guys into seeing them, because (in their opinion) no one would see them if they showed their faces.   That is just plain fucking mean.  It really is.    
   
 Beauty is in the eyes of the be-fucking-holder!  Very little is more subjective than whether or not someone is attractive.  
   
 Years back, I worked with a stripper who looked a LOT like the actress/comic Sandra Bernhard..... she was a perfect example IMO, as some guys thought she was drop-dead gorgeous, while others couldn't believe the club had hired her.    
 Now, if SHE were to hang up her shingle as a provider, and blur her face......I can imagine the reviews would be very mixed, indeed.    
   
 Just because some reviewers don't want to call someone out as "ugly" doesn't make them "chickenshit"...... it makes him a wise gentleman, who realizes that his opinion is NOT the unequivocal truth of the situation, and he does not want to unduly hurt her feelings.  
   
 Because, yeah, being called ugly?  That shit hurts. Having it blasted out there for all to read, forever?  Well that just plain sucks rancid donkey dick.    
   
 If you don't like the way a lady looks, and the only misrepresentation going on is that she just didn't SHOW her face.... you do not have any business feeling deceived.    
   
 Because there WILL be people who think she's beautiful.  
   
 xoxoxooxoxoxooxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoo

PRS2005 306 reads
posted
15 / 43

seven years old. She was obviously older than her photos, and much heavier. The difference between the real her and the photos was night and day. She had a double chin.  

Great reviews. A lot of locals, which makes me wonder how many score her high so as not to upset the apple cart in their town.

EroticRobbin 300 reads
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16 / 43

Posted By: PRS2005
seven years old. She was obviously older than her photos, and much heavier. The difference between the real her and the photos was night and day. She had a double chin.  
   
 Great reviews. A lot of locals, which makes me wonder how many score her high so as not to upset the apple cart in their town.
That display VERY amateur videos on their websites.  You can't photo-shop amateur videos, unless you pay a fortune to have it done.  

I film my videos with an inexpensive webcam, so...What You See, Is What You Get. ;)

NaomiGrey See my TER Reviews 294 reads
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17 / 43

I've had amazing tunes with butt ugly men.  

I walked out cus the guy had a dead stare, handsome but dead stares and no moaning bleh... And I didn't  feel like being murdered that day. So I walked out. ;)

NaomiGrey See my TER Reviews 178 reads
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18 / 43
Afro-desiac 188 reads
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19 / 43

Instead of putting up another correcting the first.
I like your pix.

ThePeopleRule 315 reads
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20 / 43

Posted By: EroticRobbin
He or she, obviously were [sic] lax in regard to performing due diligence before booking the provider.
 
it is in the male genes to want to "explore" and find out what is around the next "wrong turn".

NaomiGrey See my TER Reviews 192 reads
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21 / 43

Thank you :) I know I can but then that takes away the original reply, and I didn't feel like waiting lol

bocabuster 19 Reviews 262 reads
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22 / 43

You bring up a good point: there are wayyyyy too many reviewers writing phony reviews.  
They seem to be pandering for attention/affection from a provider rather than posting an honest observation.  
And TER makes some terms ambiguous: what the hell is "a few" tattoos? And "average" body type is all over the board.

lopaw 29 Reviews 149 reads
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23 / 43
lopaw 29 Reviews 325 reads
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24 / 43

...I try to do my research as best I can and choose women with solid track records in terms of reviews and up to date photos. Yes I know that some reviewers will lie or "bend the truth" about her appearance, and some providers post outdated pics.....but so far (knock on wood) I have been delighted and enthralled by all of my dates.

bocabuster 19 Reviews 244 reads
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25 / 43

A couple of times I should have.  
But to be honest I just couldn't imagine being that unkind to anyone.  
I know, I know, sounds lame but I never walked in her shoes

clairecavendish See my TER Reviews 213 reads
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26 / 43

Some guys here have been tempted to book by a lovely photo of a young, slim, pretty thing only to go to the booking and have the door opened by a 55 year old, size 16 ugly mama. If it was me I'd run like the wind but a couple of guys I've asked said they were too scared to leave!!!

sympathyforthedevil 57 Reviews 191 reads
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27 / 43

She saw the look on my face and said.."this isnt going to happen is it".  And she is still here. I have no idea how.

Montero1510 See my TER Reviews 184 reads
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29 / 43

AMEN, girl!  

Beauty is SO in the eyes of the beholder. There's someone out there for everyone:-) be it hairy armpits, or heavy.. There's a guy out there for every type!  

Xoxo!

1192967 45 Reviews 240 reads
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31 / 43
vantheman666 11 Reviews 182 reads
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32 / 43

Meet and Greets don't work well everywhere.  The Twin Cities are relatively small, and it's too easy for LE to infiltrate that sort of event.

PhilAnderz 22 Reviews 180 reads
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33 / 43

Yes, and I've walked out because the provider was an obvious TS / TV, whatever —i.e., not what I bargained for or ever would.  "Not that there's anything wrong with that," right

YoMaMaDo 220 reads
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34 / 43


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CorbinCandor 168 reads
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35 / 43

..the “customer is always right,” means anything at all to you? But I’m certain it can always be argued against the customer always being right, as in the case of beauty based on opinion and not 100% fact. So what’s the default to who is justified in going forward or not going forward and walking out? Who is righteous and who is not righteous, particularly when it comes to the gray areas between butt ugly, beauty and deceit?

At its lesser extreme, I’m thinking the gray areas and those that are flexible towards them in judgment on beauty and discrepancy in advertising may get more out of a session then those who are more ridged towards them. It may come down to missing out a great time if not going forward amounts to “throwing out the baby with the bath water.”

But in the end, the customer has the right to default for whatever reason, even lack of reason, and likewise for the provider to default, from safety issues to lack of reason.

However, being jilted is unfortunate because it causes doubt and unhappiness in both parties and is an ongoing issue of complaint on the board. (Just saying.

GaGambler 187 reads
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36 / 43

Your time here has obviously done you a lot of good. Congratulations for owning a pair. Other guys could take lessons from you.

I notice Debbie and a couple of others are twisting themselves into pretzels trying to excuse the inexcusable, Beauty may be in the eye of the beholder, but we can all pretty much agree on UGLY, and some women flat out fucking lie about their appearance by using Aldo Pics that shave off twenty years and forty pounds of ugly fat. Then the BSU, spineless suckups that see these women are too fucking cowardly to tell the truth, so when a guy does a "normal" amount of research, he is greeted by a shamu when he was expecting a mermaid. When that happens to me, I Walk, and as I said before, I don't leave a fucking penny.  

This is not the clients fault, this is an intentional act of deception on the part of the woman abetted by the spineless reviewers who still give her high marks and more importantly answer yes to "Are the pictures accurate?"

Debra_Hollander See my TER Reviews 163 reads
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37 / 43

But that will still be hurtful.  I'm not saying you should stay and play if you're that repulsed.  Just be aware that this is a human being with feelings.  Do unto others...... and all that!

Posted By: CorbinCandor
..the “customer is always right,” means anything at all to you?
 
If he is indeed my "customer" or client, meaning he has already rendered payment, then yes.  I will want him to be happy.   If he is unhappy with my appearance and wishes to leave, hey.... don't let the door hit ya on the way out!  
However, if he feels he shouldn't have to pay.... no, he is NOT right.  Just because one jackass out of hundreds thinks I'm unattractive does not make him "right".   The evidence, that being popular opinion, is strongly to the contrary.  
Posted By: CorbinCandor

But in the end, the customer has the right to default for whatever reason, even lack of reason, and likewise for the provider to default, from safety issues to lack of reason.
 
I strongly disagree.  If  the lady  has not made any false claims or statements, and the only cause for surprise was due to the client simply not seeing her face prior to meeting.....no, I do NOT feel that he has the right to default on payment.  

If the provider has made all preparations (got a room, readied herself, set aside time for him which may have included turning away other clients for that same time) in good faith, done nothing wrong, he should fulfill his financial obligation to her.  

 
Guess what?  I've had a few walkouts.  It really stings.  

When those walkouts have meant I've lost money by paying for a room, or could have had another date who would have actually PAID me.... that's harsh.  Not only did I get insulted, but I had to literally pay for HIS bad behavior.  No provider should ever have to deal with that.  

Worse,  is when they go on to complain about me via backchannel or in a very public review.  Completely unkind and uncouth.  There's just no justification for that.  

Be a gentleman.

Afro-desiac 161 reads
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38 / 43

If she's ugly but looks like her pix, that's not her problem.  If she's using fake or deceptive pix, that IS her problem and she has no beef if he walks.  We are talking here about truth in advertising.
If I book a hotel room based on fake pix, but when I get there it's a dump, I'm walking.

PenleyDuke See my TER Reviews 203 reads
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39 / 43

My taste in men and women is very specific.  Wonder if this is true with you as well or if you like a variety.

lopaw 29 Reviews 202 reads
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40 / 43

Well I do like variety, but I tend to always seek out tall (at least my height, which is 5'7"), long haired brunettes with athletic builds. But I have been known to take a voluptuously curvy short blonde to VIP at a stripclub. And that rare ginger can be kryptonite to me.

How bout you, Erin?
What lights your fire in a woman?
Posted By: Erin Keevy
My taste in men and women is very specific.  Wonder if this is true with you as well or if you like a variety.  

PenleyDuke See my TER Reviews 229 reads
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41 / 43

I'm a softball player  lover.  You know the type right?   Pretty but kind of masculine.  Drives me wild!

CorbinCandor 172 reads
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42 / 43

..but I know I cannot control the thinking and actions of others (however unfortunate it is to be treated unfairly through no-shows amounting to no-income). I also understand that others have the right to disagree here on the boards. Beyond the butt ugly put-down, I can relate to the strong reasons to justify actions in walking away and not going forward, like a straight shooter like Gag; pointing out blatant deceit in advertising (what you see is not what you get), but also some adjustment to going forward, like the flexibility of a Mr. Fisher; pointing out that minor differences are acceptable. However, beyond the above (if I wasn’t clear in my previous reply), I do not identify with an irrational reason or no reason at all for walking out except there is nothing you or I can do about it. (Some may say blacklist that person, post something on the board, but how effective or worth the effort is questionable?) I can only think that individual sees things differently and has the right to accept criticism or reject it. (That person is in charge of his or her own thoughts.) However, as far as disrespecting the golden rule, “do unto others..,” to counter that, call it karma or "what goes around comes around," especially where disrespectful behavior put out sooner or later comes back to the offender. So, perhaps the safest deterrent (although not a guarantee) is a P411, along with other verification sites, and the TER reviews that can lead to success.

Other than that, when the unfortunate happens, it calls for compassion because rejection leading to loss time, loss income and unfair reviews certainly hurts. Any provider that is in the same situation and any client that is in a similar situation pertaining to a last minute cancellation or no-show will know how it feels. I can empathize.

 
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