I recently put this on my local board. I want to know what others think?
Ladies what would you want to do? how much sex is too much or not enough in that time frame?
I am meeting up at about 8 oclock at night so what to do after that?????????
any suggestions???????? thank you.

If you don't know what to do after that, you could call me in as a pinch hitter... LOL.  I have already answered a similar post on one of the local boards recently, so I won't bore anybody with a repeat.

I'm not sure I'd WANT 24 hours with a provider.  There's only so much time you can devote to the fantasy of the moment ... and then you'd have to go someplace with her, eat with her, talk with her ... yanno ... BE with her.

Doesn't that defat the whole PURPOSE of having someone who's willing to LEAVE when you;re done?    I mean .... if I wanted to actually TALK and CARE about what she says and does ... I'd have stayed married.

I pay 'em because they LEAVE.   And because they NEVER ask me 'where the relationship is headed.'

It was one of my very best experiences.  She was attractive, bright, a wonderfully interesting lady and highly intelligent.  We never (even to this day -- we still talk although she's retired) run out of things to say to each other.  Only 2 hours of our time together was spent horizontally, and it was very much more than sufficient for me.

I'm planning another such "date" in August.  And I'm so looking forward to it.  This lady seems to be at least as charming and wonderful as my last long date.

If the date lasted for 24 hours, I suppose the difference between that date and my description above would be spent holding on to each other whilst catching some ZZZZZZZs.

In other words, the sex is awesome, but the warmth and companionship, IMHO, is equally wonderful.

F.

He (meapig) would have to pay me to even want to lay with him and I would be toooooooo happy to leave.

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I'd have myself a good time.  How is that, concise enough?

Seriously, I have spent close to a week with one fine lady and have gone on several weekend outings as well.  I have had a great time.

Megapig points out the diversity of the hobby.  I personally don't like the wham bam encounters.  I like getting to know the person behind the Foster Grants.  To me this is the menaing of escort: someone to accompany you for a time.  Not just a quick fix. Though I do enjoy the ability to bring an end to the encounter without the expectations of a specific future and the "why don't you ever call" that can become a hastle.

So to answer you question: I've taken dates to dinner, breakfast, the theater (Blue Man and Cirque are great) and sight seeing in San Francisco and wine country, Jazz clubs and sailing.  Oh, and how about a swingers club?  They are fun.

Being that I have only so much energy for horizontal activities I would hope the provider was a favorite of mine, that would indicate she was also a friend. That said; 4 hours of GREAT sex & 20 hours of just having fun together and doing whatever fits our fancy at the time.

and understand perfectly...it's just that you sort of worded it badly. Do you mind if I take a stab at it, and reword? Let me know if I got it, or if I'm way off base here..
For you the fantasy can be complete, and fulfilled in a short time period. That's part of the excitement and thrill. To spend a long period of time with someone and maintain a fantasy at a certain level starts getting too much into reality, and you can't keep it 'erect' so to speak. It's climaxed for you, and done after your two hours. You just need a 'refresher' and appreciate your time spent, and then you look forward to your next rush, next time.  Prolonging the time takes away from your enjoyment of the fantasy. Your fantasy is the mystery of the person, who's also a fantasy. She is whatever you've created in your mind. Your interest in a Provider is merely that, and you're not interested in knowing her on a more 'personal' level. That need is fulfilled - in your marriage, or present relationship. Therefore what she thinks and how she feels, at least hearing about them beyond your two hours, is too much. It's the Reality thing..
You adopt Charlie Sheen's philosophy about paying them to 'leave' and appreciate how the Hobby allows you the fun and fantasy of a real relationship while being MINUS the headaches and demands of one.
You don't expect anything from this Provider in a personal sense, nor do you want any more required OF you..

Is that it?

...then stop at a strip club on the way home.

First...a romantic dinner(what's happening under the table) and a movie(of course a little oral play in the back of the theatre...maybe a hollowed out popcorn container on big Jim)...followed by dessert at her place(yum-yum)
...two hour nap in each others arms...shower together(with a little touch touch,soap soap nice-nice)...followed by midnight bowling(with a secret sexy rendezvous in the shoe room)...followed by a heavy make-out session in the back seat of my 65 Chevy(more oral)....stop at the 24 hour Stop N shop where we have a produce manager/cashier fantasy session in the see through window meat dept....breakfast at a roadside diner (ala Jack Nickleson...look out Jessica)....then its off to her place
for some passionate between the sheets pleasure.
Now , that's a night!

i guess pretend she is your girlfirned and hang out w/ her. talk to a hot chick and get a lot of sex. most of the girls i know are just butt ugly.

and when your cranky and you know it ...please don't clap your hands.

Cheers!