TER General Board

Sloppy Seconds
SupportForYou 3871 reads
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How do you feel about being the 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th, etc., in line for a provider's work day?  

Do you go with the "don't ask don't tell" approach?  
Or do you respond to advertising that claims she limits her daily sessions to one or two?  
Do you stick with indies (as opposed to agencies, agency incalls, or brothels) to feel like it's less of a revolving door?  
Or do you care?
I realize that in this economy, few providers have many days where they are pounding out more than 1 or 2 sessions anyway (probably more), so it's somewhat moot, but I'm interested in your thought process on this.
We have all had those times when you call 10 minutes before the session, and the last client is still there, wrapping up. Or you see a guy coming down the stairwell from her floor, and he has that slightly flushed look on his face, and are his lips just a little puffy?  
Or take this extreme example from real life: there I was, really into the session, dining at the (y).  Working from behind, and really pushing my tongue deep into her lusciousness.  Then, a taste, not quite the tangy, muskiness of her walls, but something else.  Hmmm.  Taste buds and palate processing.  Sure enough, latex, more specifically the latex powdery stuff. Quick thought, mine?  Nope, hadn't gone FS yet.  Conclusion, the last guy's raincoat.  Couldn't put a time on it,  but clearly earlier in the same day.   If this were you, would you:
A. Savor the moment, finding it highly arousing?
B. Continue, not really caring one way the another?
C. Politely shift your attention to another activity?
D. Jump up and dash for the Scope?  

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 100 reads
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2 / 58

the ladies you've been seeing, because if they don't clean up after each customer, I want to put them on my DNS list.  After saying you are experiencing "sloppy seconds", this is the most good you can do for the community on this topic, IMO.

-- Modified on 2/28/2022 4:39:14 PM

Steve_Trevor 119 reads
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3 / 58

it’s totally moot, for me anyway.

 
I see low-volume providers. Most of them average less than one client per day.
I almost always am their first (and usually only) appointment of the day, as I favor morning sessions—as early as the provider can make it.
All providers I see have great hygiene. They expect it of me, and I of them.

TheVoiceOfReason 109 reads
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4 / 58

How would you know if you are their first or only client?  You have no way of knowing.

badger48 153 Reviews 89 reads
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5 / 58

into account any BF, SO, dates she was on, fling from the night before or that special UTR Monger she sees?

 
The only thing that you can maybe get by being first of the workday, and this is still a maybe, is she might be rested up!

-- Modified on 2/28/2022 5:15:33 PM

herbtcat 6 Reviews 86 reads
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6 / 58

Trying to "time your session for freshness" is a waste of time. You are going to have sex with a woman who had sex with someone else before you.  It's irrelevant if that happened 20 minutes ago, 2 hours ago, or 2 days ago.  Providers have sex with clients - multiple clients.  That is their business model.  Do you avoid meeting your lawyer if you see a client leaving the office as you come in? Don't want to get the stank of that clients' case on you?  The idea that she is "fresher" (or "safer") in the morning is a myth.  I don't differentiate between providers based on non-standardized claims of low volume. What does low volume mean, anyway?  Seems like a subjective description.  

 
BUT: There is an entirely different concern IF the provider is not cleaning the "office" thoroughly between clients.  As CDL mentioned, that's cause for permanent DNS listing.  And to answer your question, I say E. Invite her to take a hot shower with you before doing anything else. If she's not up for that, politely leave and never come back.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

eastside70 47 Reviews 99 reads
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7 / 58

Exactly!!!

The provider probably told him so... so it must be true. LMAO!

Steve_Trevor 101 reads
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8 / 58

as some guys do.  So I get to know the ladies I do see pretty well.

 
Do I know for 100% certainty?  No.  Little in this world is certain.  But I’ll put high odds on my being the provider’s first client of the day when I show up on her doorstep at 8 am.  Also, when a provider has a two-hour minimum I’ll put high odds on her being low volume.  

eastside70 47 Reviews 96 reads
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9 / 58

the provider is freshly clean, the incall is reasonably clean, and I don’t pass their previous client, I don’t really care what number of the day I am. I don't ask. I don't want to know. And to-date, I've never been told.

Since I schedule dates in advance, what I have been known to do is move the date to another day if a provider suggests a different time on the day I originally requested. I do this so as to not knowingly follow directly behind someone else.

cool46 33 Reviews 105 reads
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10 / 58

Supportforyou, you really has a way of ruining a good fantasy, I really don’t think about who she had before me, as long as she make me feel like I’m the most important person in the world to her ,and she smells good and give great service that’s all I care about, I appreciate the beautiful ladies who provide great service, that’s what this hobby is all about!

cks175 51 Reviews 95 reads
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11 / 58
Steve_Trevor 131 reads
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coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 98 reads
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13 / 58

has a two-hour minimum, she's probably not able to see more than 4 guys in a day, and if you're there at 8:00a, you will most likely be the first of the day, unless she starts her work day at midnight.  In my own experience, it's better to be the second customer of the day, because they are organized and fully awake by then, but it has to be a girl that cleans up properly between customers, or it's a pass for me.  Many of my least-favorite sessions were when I was the first customer of the day.  For many ladies, the caffeine hasn't kicked in yet, and they are a little groggy.  

BigPapasan 3 Reviews 124 reads
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14 / 58

...see K-girls almost exclusively.  You've posted that K-girls take only a ten minute break between customers and it is virtually impossible for a provider to "clean up properly" in only ten minutes.  So why are you still seeing K-girls?  Why aren't they a "pass" for you?

Steve_Trevor 112 reads
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15 / 58

you need to find providers who care enough about their clients, and you specifically, to be fully awake and ready to go no matter when you see them.  I’m pretty sure one way they do that is not having a midnight appointment before an 8 am appointment.  

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 92 reads
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16 / 58

of context, you dishonest fuck.  You know I was talking about providers that offer BBFS, and they ARE a pass for me.  That's why you don't have the link like you usually do, you lying sack of shit.  If you're going to be a troll, I will treat you like one and put you back on ignore.  

worried 128 reads
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17 / 58

Why I avoid all BB providers.  No amount of cleaning will clean a CIP.  

John_Laroche 95 reads
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18 / 58

"Sure enough, latex, more specifically the latex powdery stuff. Quick thought, mine?  Nope, hadn't gone FS yet.  Conclusion, the last guy's raincoat.  Couldn't put a time on it,  but clearly earlier in the same day. "

 
It does make one ponder how long residual latex powder persists in the average coach.

If this really is an issue with anyone,  they should book a multi hour appointment and give the provider the first hour to refresh as a gift.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 78 reads
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when I was the real-life boyfriend of a provider, some days she was too tired in the evening for sex with me, so we would do it in the morning, then she was off to the incall to meet the FIRST customer of the day.

 
I always wanted to be an UTR monger, but it's not in my nature to keep quiet about what a good time I'm having with all of the lovely ladies.

helixir 54 Reviews 105 reads
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20 / 58

No--we have not ALL had the experiences you describe.  

Although it does remind me of a filthy joke:
Guy's going down on a girl he just picked up in a bar. He's really going at it and he pulls up and pulls out of his mouth what looks like a piece of lettuce. He's confused but too horny to stop. A minute later he pulls up again, this time taking a kernel of corn out of his mouth.  He looks up at the woman and says "I think I'm gonna throw up."
The woman says "Oh man--that'll be the second time tonight."

chloemercier See my TER Reviews 113 reads
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Low volume providers. If you're worried about a provider seeing multiple men a day, then see a very low volume provider.  I don't know about other providers but I rarely see more than 1 guy a day unless I'm touring, then it's 2 guys a day or on the rare occasion 3.  

If I'm not touring, I see 0-3 guys a week and 3 is an especially busy week for me. I'm only a mid range provider but I imagine the higher a woman's rate is, the less men she's seeing and less of a chance that she has men lined up.

BigPapasan 3 Reviews 110 reads
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22 / 58

I post facts without a link, then you claim its bullshit, and I get to shove the link down your throat.    Who's your daddy?"
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/politics-and-religion-39/i-like-doing-it-this-way-----356034?page=

 
I took a page out of YOUR book, CDL.  How do ya like dem apples?  Who's YOUR daddy?  Hoist by your own petard.

 
Here's the link you wanted:
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/k-girl-113/when-i-started-seeing-kgirls-----18565?page=
"...at the end of 2008, the standard break was 30 minutes.   A girl had time to do all of the cleanup and prep between appointments and then rest for 15 minutes before the next appointment... Then I believe it was booker M in LA around 2016 who first started scheduling ten minute breaks.  Now, I try not to schedule evening appointments, because the more mature (36-40 age) Kgirls that I prefer are sometimes starting to show fatigue for their last couple of appointments."

 
Your post said NOTHING about those ten minute break K-girls being bareback or not bareback.  The break is ten minutes so they can see ten guys a day.  In order to make their nut they have to make ten guys a day nut.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 108 reads
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23 / 58

was not enough time to clean up?  You got the wrong link, you dumbass.   Bwahahahahahaha   Who's YOUR daddy?

-- Modified on 3/1/2022 10:19:11 PM

BigPapasan 3 Reviews 127 reads
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24 / 58

"...all of the cleanup and prep between appointments and then rest for 15 minutes before the next appointment..." if she only has 10 minutes between appointments?

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 101 reads
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25 / 58

BBFS, which is always a pass for me for this very reason.  Some girls are BBFS, some are strictly GFE with CFS.  Again, you take the quote out of context because if you provide the link, everyone here will see how dishonest you are in trying to change the narrative of what I said.  This will be my last response to you.  I will put you on ignore now, so you can say whatever you want and it will have no impact or response from me.  Too bad you can't be a little less of a lying sack of shit. You do bring up some good points periodically that are worth responding, too, but you are obsessed with stalking and trolling me, so I won't give you any more of my time.  Now GFY.  

Steve_Trevor 42 reads
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And there’s RISK involved???  NOW you tell me!  After all these years I thought I was the one and only client of all providers I saw, and it was totally without risk. Talk about bursting a bubble!

 
FYI, some of us are early risers (pun intended) and find that early morning sessions work best for our schedules.  I know, a shock.  

DT_lover 188 Reviews 111 reads
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27 / 58

Throatfuck her till she pukes...and see 5 loads come up.  That's like getting 5 for the price of one?!?

phlatsy 6 Reviews 96 reads
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28 / 58

I try not to think about the previous sessions.  I've spent a lot of time in brothels and have watched the popular girls going upstairs over and over.  I tend to avoid them, but they are the best at their job.  The Black Angus used to open at 5 pm and the girls would show up from opening until about 8 pm.  I sometimes would go with a popular girl when I saw her walk in to avoid a sloppy second.  But it probably did not work.  And they did serve drinks.  A few drinks and I'd let my guard down.  And I was tapping more than one a night, so it works both ways.  I was thankful for covers.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 45 reads
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29 / 58

lent itself to early sessions.  I had one agency girl that would start at 7:30 for me when the rest of the girls at that place started at 10:00, which is the usual agency starting time except in Las Vegas.  Saw her twice a week for an hour or two, and still got some decent work done before lunch.  

badger48 153 Reviews 32 reads
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What's a high-volume day for a low volume provider?
So, she will turn away the connoisseur and she won't see any clients, passing up donations, until she is clean enough for him?  
I don't see it, unless he pays for the missed sessions!  

 
Do you pay extra for a detail wash for the pristine cleanliness?

Kitty76 See my TER Reviews 106 reads
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31 / 58

Look, it's not as if you are marrying the Escort. And as long as she's keeping herself clean and as long as her performance is the top 5 then don't worry where you are on her list of clients that she sees that day.

Steve_Trevor 39 reads
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32 / 58

that she was always dead tired for those early sessions with you—more so because she usually had a late night/early morning tryst with her SO beforehand.  

😂

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 84 reads
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..when the pitcher is all warmed up..  First couple of pitches can go a bit wonky.  

 
There is a reason why they have bullpens. LOL

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 43 reads
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One of the best providers I have ever seen, and I've seen well over a thousand.  She worked three days a week as a registered nurse at a local hospital, so sex work was a sideline for her because she liked sex without strings.  If she was tired from her main job, she just didn't work that day.  Saw her for many years before she got an administrative job in health care and had to cut out the sex work.  Naturally, I turned lemons into lemonade, and we dated in real life for awhile, took a few vacations together, and had a FWB relationship until she got a marriage proposal from a wealthy guy.  She gave me an opportunity to match the offer, but I'm not the marrying type anymore.  Did that enough to know I need some variety.  

ROGM 119 reads
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If you're using a condom do sloppy seconds really matter? Every guy can't be 1st of the day.

Steve_Trevor 55 reads
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36 / 58

a little higher up in this thread.  Looks like you were off the mark when you said then it's better to be the second customer of the day, because the providers are organized and fully awake by then, and for many ladies, the caffeine hasn't kicked in yet, and they are a little groggy.

 
It seems your advice for others doesn’t apply to you.  But that’s not unusual for you, is it.  

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 41 reads
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Being a nurse, she normally got up at 5:00 in the morning to start at 6:00a, which she also did on her days off from the hospital, so by 7:30, she is not in the same state as a girl that who worked late the night before and got up at 9:00 for a 10:00 appointment.  You are right, this is an exception, and I gave enough circumstances surrounding this exception that any INTELLGENT person should recognize it as an exception, but you didn't.  I'm not surprised. My statements are not mutually exclusive.  Generally speaking, I stand by my first statement, but then I remembered an exception.  This girl was not a full-time provider.  In my first statement, I was clearly talking about women who make their living as providers.  Now that I have explained the difference to you , do you understand the difference between a full-time provider and a nurse who is doing sex work on the side?  The mere fact that I had to go back and point out the difference when it was all there in the first place makes you look as dumb as a rock.  Congrats.  

Steve_Trevor 47 reads
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It takes special talent to contradict oneself in the same thread. You have that rare ability.  Congrats to you.

 
NOW you backtrack with stuff like “I was clearly talking about women who make their living as providers” when you said no such thing earlier.  And you talk about women who have jobs besides sex work.  MOST of my fav providers over the years, including my ATF, had/have other jobs and did sex work “on the side”.  You made no allowance for that in your earlier comments.  You assumed everyone is like you—see mostly high-volume K-girls who apparently do have a problem being fully awake at 8 or 9 am, based on what you told us above.  

 
Now try getting this through your thick head:  not everyone is like you.

 
Thank God for that.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 50 reads
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Dumbass.  It talks about providers.  It doesn't mention nurses that are sex workers one or two days a week.  So you really don't think there is a difference between a full-time provider and the hours they keep and one that does it as a sideline? and has a full-time regular job?  This shows your lack of experience in this biz.   You make yourself look more stupid with each successive post without any help from me.  Keep it up, you're turning yourself into a troll.  

Steve_Trevor 58 reads
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a person has to do sex work as their one and only job, or they’re not a provider.  Yes, that’s exactly what you said.

 
I know many women who have jobs besides sex work who will disagree with you, as they call themselves providers.  (Clearly your experience with providers is limited for you to not know such providers.).  You’re saying you speak for all of them when it comes to how they view themselves and their work.

 
And you call ME a dumbass?  

 
🤣

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 43 reads
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I said there are differences between full time providers and those that do it as a second job. When it comes to their their working hours. This post shows you agree, but I had to lead you by the nose to get you there.  Now THAT’S a dumbass.

Steve_Trevor 52 reads
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doesn’t understand what he wrote.  That’s you.

 
You literally said that a provider is someone who only does sex work full time.  Ergo, if someone does sex work along with some other job, they’re not in your narrow mind a provider.  Do you need me to connect the dots for you from your own posts?  Are you that dense?

 
I suspect you’re not. You’re just incapable of admitting that you tie yourself up in knots with the B.S. you post.

 
Go ahead and have the last word. As is your pattern, you’ll use it to rant about how stupid and inexperienced you think I am, how I’m nothing but a fucking alias with no reviews (under my alias) and thus you think I’m worthless etc etc. Hope that will make you feel better about being you.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 43 reads
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because you are doubling down on stupid.  Anyone who reads this exchange will understand who the moron is.  Too bad you didn't go a little further with your education.  LOL

 
I agree with your description of yourself in the last paragraph.  You will get no argument from me.  

-- Modified on 3/5/2022 5:41:53 PM

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 65 reads
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As someone who has no horse in this race, you are right.

Thes are two statements made by the same guy, I quote word for word, juxtaposed against each other :

 

"One of the best PROVIDERS I have ever seen, and I've seen well over a thousand.  She worked three days a week as a registered nurse at a local hospital, so sex work was a sideline for her because she liked sex without strings."

And later

 
"Dumbass.  It talks about providers.  It doesn't mention nurses that are sex workers one or two days a week."  

 
These statements logically contradict each other. If the nurse was a subset of providers as per the first statement, the second statement makes no sense whatsoever.  

And if such a nurse is not a subset of providers like claimed in the second statement, then the first statement about her being a provider makes no sense.

Steve_Trevor 43 reads
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Set theory, and logic & proof.  So useful in many ways… even on a fuck board.  🙂

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 44 reads
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which is that providers who work full time AS SEX WORKERS have a different schedule than providers who have to schedule their sex work AROUND their day job.  The day job always dictates what hours they are free to see sex customers.  If you don't see the difference either, then you and Stupid-Stevie should start a circle-jerk together.

Steve_Trevor 43 reads
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Circle as in that’s what you’re mired in with your posts in this thread.

 
What you said above:  “It [your earlier post] talks about providers.  It doesn't mention nurses that are sex workers one or two days a week.”

 
So you said that nurses who are sex workers one or two days a week aren’t providers.  Now you’ve changed your tune—you’ve suddenly realized that part-time sex workers ARE providers.  Well duh.  Took you long enough to figure that out.  

 
But I understand why you insult people at the drop of a hat—it’s easier than making a coherent, logical argument.  

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 45 reads
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for me to "have the last word" but is too weak to stick to his guns. You're a real milquetoast, aren't you?

 
The argument ended when you doubled-down on stupid, Stupid-Stevie.  

-- Modified on 3/6/2022 9:35:00 PM

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 45 reads
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I see the difference. But the statements I provided still contradict each other.

 
You could've mentioned that you misstated some of these or something, especially since some people here know how careful you are with specific framing of words (for example, talking about Alex and Tim in a way that most people would think they are different people, yet not saying it explicitly).
You could've just said you meant full-time providers instead of "providers" and that would be satisfactory.  

 

I don't care for circlejerks, sorry. I have my opinions and sometimes they corroborate yours and sometimes they don't. I also think name calling is exceptionally childish, but that's just my humble opinion.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 47 reads
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when I first mentioned the part-time provider.  I said right out of the gate that she was a full-time registered nurse and hooked on the side, so any "reasonable" person could assume that she cannot be a full-time nurse and a full-time provider at the same time.  Do you understand the concept of redundancy?  Why should I have repeat again that she is NOT a full-time provider, which is what my first post was about?  When you take statements out of context, they can often be MADE to sound contradictory.  That's Stupid-Stevie's game.  Put the sentence back into the context of the full post and it all works out.  I'm just not going to dumb-down my posts to the lowest common denominator when it comes to reading comprehension, which on this board, appears to be Stupid-Stevie.  

BigPapasan 3 Reviews 65 reads
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Posted By: coeur-de-lion
. . . .
She worked three days a week as a registered nurse at a local hospital, so sex work was a sideline for her because she liked sex without strings...
If she worked THREE days as a nurse, that left her FOUR days to work as a hooker for her side hustle.  Maybe she made more money at her "sideline" than her regular job.  Maybe you're a gullible fool who believes a hooker when she says she doesn't fuck for money but does it because "she likes sex without strings."
I hope she wasn't offering to sell you the Brooklyn Bridge too.  ROFLMAO!!

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 45 reads
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as a nurse, which at a hospital is three 12-hour shifts and is considered full time work.  I'm actually surprised you don't know that.  She worked two days in sex work, seeing a total of 3-4 customers over the two days.  When you start your sentences with "maybe", it usually means you are lying or completely speculating.  You can tell us which it is.  Are you competing with Stupid-Stevie to see who knows the least about hospital workers?

Steve_Trevor 41 reads
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you really are dense.

 
I gave you the last word in a different sub-thread.  It doesn’t apply to every thread / sub-thread on TER, idiot.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 41 reads
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If you are in tree-mode, you will see this is directly under the same branch as where you said I get the last word.  You're weak-willed, go ahead and admit it.  I live in your head, rent free.    Bwahahahahahaha

-- Modified on 3/7/2022 10:23:59 AM

Steve_Trevor 40 reads
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I’ll help you.

I said you had the last word in this thread:
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/a-true-dumbass-993235?page=1

And you did. Then team_rocket_qwerty posted:
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/re-a-true-dumbass-993247?page=1

 
And then you replied to him… starting a new subthread.  To which I replied.

 
As I said, only an idiot would think that an offer of the last word extends to any/all new threads and subthreads.

-- Modified on 3/7/2022 1:38:45 PM

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 66 reads
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It's the same conversation and the same topic.  You want a NEW sub-, change the topic.  You've been posting here THREE whole years.  You should know better.  Now, YOU go ahead and have the last word, Stupid-Stevie.  You're TSTTT.  

Steve_Trevor 59 reads
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why do you keep replying to my posts?  Clearly not TSTTT in your mind.  But then you love to contradict yourself.

 
It’s well known that in a discussion or debate, when one person starts insulting the other, the one hurling the insults knows they’ve lost the argument… or at least they’re incapable of making a good counter-argument. So keep on spewing insults on the boards… we know what it means.  

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