I've recently seen a few girls who have been unable to have intercourse with me due to my size. I am average length, six inches, but very wide, just over two inches at the base when fully aroused (and I'm always fully aroused). They try taking me in a few different positions for a few minutes and give up. Some can take it good in their mouth and I get finished that way but what is worse is the hand job. I remember one gal who was a trooper and when I finished doing her every which way she told me that she was hurting. Why do small providers get into the biz if they can't do it with large men? or are we far and few between? and what should I do, tell the girl about my size before booking?

PERHAPS THERE IS A LACK OF PROPER PREP AND STIMULATION ON THE PART OF BOTH PARTIES. WOULD YOU CONSIDER THIS A DISTINCT POSSIBILITY?

If fisting is possible with proper prep you shouldn't have a problem.  Remember they are able to have babies and that a lot bigger than what your concerned about.

I love foreplay and DATY and do it well. I've read the discussion recently of how to DATY and when I hit the spot I stay there. Who really knows how stimulated the provider is. Maybe thats the difference, if I think about the girls who couldn't take me, they were in it for the money, "wam bam thank you man" sort of, asking for donation, counting donation, talking dirty to make you finish sooner...  it takes two to tango.

Just because a woman is able to have babies, doesn't mean she wants to go into practice to have some by opening her wide in that way. As for myself, I am very tight, and I don't even like a finger in me. I prefer just a penis that is constantly going in and out of me, and a tongue on my clit, and I will be a happy camper. As for the gentleman with the wide penis, maybe some stimulation to her clit might make her wetter for you. Also, maybe trying some lubricant might help.

I am a small provider and very tight. I won't see someone that is going to hurt for any $$$ in the world.

Some guys can open up a girl and look deep into her, there is no raindow there. On the other hand. Yes lube up good and most ladies can take it. But you have to go slow.

I'm just jealous.  I'm as big as Howard Stern.)

I haven't met one yet I couldn't accomodate, but I like to get really aroused. Why not try mother providers or a PSE? Both should handle you just fine.

How do you warn a client ahead of time so he doesn't expect more than you will give???

hmmm, well, with your attitude you wouldn't have even gotten that far before I'd be booting you out the door....the few guys I have seen that were too large for me were very understanding and didn't want to hurt me, and most have noticed a contained flinch before I even said anything...I try to be a "trooper" but my body instinctively reacts to pain and enduring great pain is not part of my job description, as far as I know...in all fairness I always have given a discount and my gents have always left satisfied in some way..the majority of clientele I can handle, and will endure a certain amount of discomfort, and it's less than 10% of the time that the discomfort is intolerable..since the majority of clients are average in size, because well average is average, oversize is, just that, to big for the average and especially petite (inside) women, so tighter ladies are smart to go into this business because the majority of men fit just right and they actually like a tight girl. amazing, isn't it?

It was either penis reduction surgery or start screwing elephants.

oops....sorry....got to run....

Here we go again....Tarzan's calling us ....
Oongowa , my ass....

LONGDONGSILVERAWAY!

although at today's barbeque...They'll be more than a few foot longs...

Baddabing!

A written contract, and a guarantee? Use some lube, go easy, and get on with it already. If a lady is uncomfortable with you as a client for whatever reason, she'll either see you once, and then never again, or not see you at all...simple. MfSD>>>>

Not only tremendous flavor,plump and juicey....
Guaranteed to be circumsised!


Boooiiiinnnnngggg!

Cheers!

and what is your trunk size?


Booiiinnngggg!

Dr. VonRyan's just trying to rule out elephantitus.

Btw....Q: Where is an elephant's sex organ?
A: Under it's feet-if it steps on you, you're fucked!



Cheers!

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letting the girl know about your special needs before hand?

This way the girl can asses whether she can accomodate you or not.

Communication is key in everything, especially sex.

I don't know about anyone else, but sometimes it's a little painful doing the cowgirl if he's big. All you need to remember is lubrication and don't push too hard and fast (unless she likes it).

Hugs,
Ciara

I hate fisting and do not do it for work at all, but well hung always works for me.
I think it might behoove you to ask a prospective provider ahead of time. If you do it politely and with concern, she should have no problem with the question.
If a provider does have limitations on what she is willing to take, I'm sure she'll appreciate the heads up (no pun intended).

Good luck! xxx Octavia

I wouldn't try to tell her about the size before she sees you (and it), she may just think you're boasting, and she really does have to see it and appraise this herself.  

You can't judge by the girl's physical size.  I was too large for one provider I saw. She was especially tight, had to add lubricant, and still had trouble in mish (it didn't help that I went too fast here).  

A bit cautious about it after that, I have taken to asking providers, after they see it erect, how hard can you take it?  I was very pleased when the most recent one gave a sultry reply, "As hard as you can go!"  She was no more than 5'3", but she could, even using an unlubricated condom.

If I were you, I would  bring some extra lubricants, perhaps even several dildos of progressively larger sizes to work her up to your width.

But it's probably easier to just find a provider or two who can accommadate you, or at least do so after being prepared by the first session.  There's got to be a few out there.

/Zin

I have had one fisting session with a provider.....problem was why hand was just a tad larger than she could take.  Maybe I try again another time........

I like fisting.......a BBJTC-CIM-NS with a sweet ladies fist up your ass is enough to make you almost pass out in intensity.............Damn.......may need to do that tonight.

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Sometimes the lady will appreciate it, while some ladies think you are full of it until you get there. If you are in the hobby long enough, you will learn that being upfront is the best policy.

I never really realized my size and girth posed a problem sometimes until a provider told me in February that she was physically unable to see me. I had seen her twice with the last occassion being 16 months before. When I asked her if she was ok, she laughed and said that the last time she saw me she could barely walk out of the room due to soreness. I have had other providers take long breaks stating they need recovery time.

I have had ladies comment on my member size before and have always taken it for granted that it can't be that big. However, when it causes discomfort for my partner I need to look at making some modifications (more lubricant, performing oral to completion on my partner, etc.).

Good topic for discussion.