Is it OK to ask a gal (you have been with one or more times)  for a reference, but have not reviewed her?

Guys, Gals your thoughts, opinions etc.

The Reference is a Recommendation from a Lady to another Lady that you were a well behaved guest.

Writing a review, is a completely different critter & has no bearing on the first.
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Of course you can ask. Her response is her decision. In most cases I doubt if it would be a big deal. However , I can tell you that there are ladies who are uncomfortable booking with dudes that have no reviews under their belt

no wonder no one ever calls me back.LOL

I don't see why not. I do it all the time. It should not be a "pay back" thing, just keep everyone safe.
Hugs and Kisses,
Adele

Truth be told, I have never made a review, yet I seem to have no problem passing screening. Of course my brother does have thousands upon thousands of posts on TER, which may give a bit more credibility to me than a TER unknown.

you did not behave like a total gentleman. Otherwise its never a problem.  I agree writing a review is a different issue. Some providers prefer not to have reviews. Stay safe

Vanessa

Review or not, seen her once or 100 times, always ask first.  Her policy may have changed, she may need a reminder who you are, etc.

A few providers I know well have even done some screening of the potential "her" and steered me off of a provider who had some unsavory habits.

Communication is always good.

READ my post. I did say is it ok to ASK HER.

I don't see why not.  IMO review doesn't equal reference.  Or giving a reference means you have to review.  

If you saw the lady and were a gentleman, didn't stiff her donation etc etc, then you are deserving of a review.  But that's just me.  I don't expect everyone I see to review me, but have no issues giving them references should they need one.

You didn't shower and/or wipe your ass before the session, shorted her on the donation, and tried to get her to give BB greek that maybe you shouldn't ask for a reference???

Picky, Picky. rofl

Yeah yeah yeah, reminds me of somebody *I* know as well!

I don't see why anyone would have a problem but I am sure some would.

a provider should be able to share the wealth so to speak..
Its always beneficial to both providers and hobbyists to be helpful..
Karma.. its a great thing!!
Lovely Lorena

And I answered it with my opinion:

ASK HER.  In otherwords "Yes, it is OK to ask her"