I like simple outfits. Complex, fragile lingerie is wasted on me. Garter belts are an actual turnoff (due to a teen-age date incident). I like a bikini, or short slinky dress, or a micro-skirt, things like that. Whatever she wears should come off easily and safely, not awkward and at risk of damage.
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I like simple subtle makeup. Makeup that's for show from across the street after dark is not appropriate to show at kissing distance. The one strong makeup element that I do like is bright red glossy lipstick, painted carefully within the lines. Brands that stand up to kissing are a definite plus.
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That's all just me.
Clients, I have a lingering question. On a spectrum of full glam to all-natural, what's your predominant preference for how you want your companion to greet you? Many midrange and high-end companions go all out on professional photo shoots where they're wearing a full face of makeup, lingerie (sometimes from luxury brands), and heels. Is it your expectation that upon meeting, companions will be dressed and made up to the extent they are in their professional photos? Do you think of a look with a three piece set, including intricate or lacey La Perla or Honey Birdette style bras, panties, garters, stockings and heels as standard or more so as a special outfit you'd need to request?
As of late, on multiple occasions, I've been directly asked to not wear complicated lingerie or to not wear lingerie at all. Personally, I usually opt to wear light makeup but I've received a few requests to not wear any makeup. I'm curious if there's a general trend where clients are less concerned about bells and whistles.
Companions, for dates do you just dress based on your mood? Or do you usually receive a considerable amount of requests for certain types of outfits?
and minimal or no make-up.
The only exception would be if we are headed out to dine afterwards at a fancy restaurant. Then I would expect appropriate clothing.
Of course, if she wants t dress up in some super-sexy/kinky outfit, I'm very appreciative of that.
I appreciate your input!
For me, there is nothing sexier than a woman with a great pair of legs who is willing to show them off, so if I get the sense the woman is open to attire requests (as many will openly say it in their ads or website) I will tend to ask her to dress in something short, bare legs and heels. When a provider opens the door looking like that, it jump starts my libido.
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I am def in the camp where I would ask her not to dress in any elaborate lingerie. I think I may be in the minority but it is just lost on me as again, I love uncovered legs. Just a basic, skimpy bra and panty set is all I would ask, but I fully understand why a provider, and certainly one I never met before, would want to have a dress or skirt on top upon meeting.
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All that said, for warm weather dates, I do like the more natural made up, sun dress look with sandals too. These are all just requests, and I tend to make sure she might be amenable to them first before asking. It's a nice added touch when they do take my request but I never expect it nor am I let down if she dresses in a fashion that makes her feel most comfortable.
These are super helpful insights. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts.
These insights are super helpful, thank you, gentlemen! From my experience, every guy has his own little tastes, and I love discovering them. I always make sure to greet my date looking irresistible—even if I’ve been running around like a headless chicken. Lol.
For new friends, I like to make a memorable first impression, so I usually meet them in sexy lingerie and stockings—always a little tease. For my returning friends, I love asking about their preferences. Each visit gives me the chance to learn what excites them, so I can surprise them in ways they didn’t even expect—just like Bia mentioned.
I keep my makeup light and simple, letting my natural charm shine. Some guys like to see me completely bare, just in heels. Others love a dress with nothing underneath, or even me in workout attire. (which is my favorite when Im back home🤭) I enjoy fulfilling their little desires… after all, a happy man makes even happier Aiza. 😉
If we’re going out for dinner, I would wear nothing too revealing—not to attract unnecessary attention—but I would still look sexy and sophisticated.
Why did I choose a particular lady? Because of the way she looks in her pictures and the way she performed in the reviews. So meeting me dressed as she appears in her photos is doing nothing more than meeting the expectations that she created and to which I responded. And for that, I am always grateful.
Having said that, I also try to let my companion know whether I have any special clothing requests. It's only fair that I also express my expectations.
When two minds that think alike reunite… let’s just say sparks tend to fly. I’ll let your imagination do the rest. Some things are better felt than said…🤭
If you showed up wearing a flour sack, you'd still be hot.
Oh my… if you say so 🤭 Either way, I would always work my magic, pull the strings…
If you showed up wearing a flour sack, you'd still be hot.
On the lingerie front, I’m a lingerie snob and have been very fond of Kiki De Montparnasse lately. But, I’m a bra and panty guy - not a big fan of corsets, bustiers, garters, etc. But if it’s a first meeting and she feels sexy in her own attire, I’m happy if she’s happy.
For attire outside the room at dinner or if we’re meeting in a hotel lobby or restaurant, I prefer comfy or business casual. Especially in my home town, if we’re going to dinner and we might bump into someone one of us knows - casual is best for me. If I’m dressed smart but casual and the gal is in a ball gown with 4” heels there’s an obvious mismatch that can be awkward. Most gals seem fine dressing down a little. In markets like Manhattan or Miami, getting dressed up fancy is much more comfortable to me.
I have made request, but rarely do anymore. If I'm asked I just say dress as you feel that day. I do appreciate when I'm surprised when they have went all out to the 9,s.
I do not expect, or even want, full blown photo shoot looks. However, I do like some effort. I recently saw a provider who when I showed had zero make-up, dime store grey jogging pants, and a cheap torn t-shirt. Meanwhile, her ad pictures were with her all dolled up. It was a big turn off.
But I also don't like too much make-up. A light amount is fine. I don't mind casual, but probably more in line with smart casual. I prefer it not be too scrappy. I'm also not looking for a pant suit or gown. Don't under or over do it.
But I do not mind a nice pair of jeans and a nice, but casual, shirt. If I am being honest, I do like some clothes on to start the session. In fact, I prefer it that way. Many women will greet me already in lingerie, or even more often be in it when I come out of the shower. But I prefer a few minutes that leave more to the immagination and allow me to strip her down.
But as for the lingerie, it does not need to be fancy. Since I prefer stripping her down, it's coming off quickly. As long as it's not dirty, grundgy, or something like granny panties, we're good.
But one of my all time favorite sessions happened when my date was running late and she showed up at my hotel wearing sneakers, jeans, and a sweater with her hair up. She looked like she was just shopping at the mall and I cut her off as she started to apologize by telling her hot hot she looked. She blushed (it was my second time with her so she knew i was sincere) and when we got to the room, we started to make out like teens. When we got to the bed, she asked if I wanted her to change into the clothes she brought. I answered by pushing her on to the bed to make out some more. The best was yet to come (for me at least). I knelt on the floor and removed her sneaker and she was barefoot. Before even removing the other, I was kissing and licking her sweaty (and smelly) foot to my hearts, and hers, content before remembering I needed to pay attention to her other foot. It was a great start to a great session! She laughed about it later saying if everyone was like me, she would save a lot of money and time!
She'd had to work later than she thought so when she arrived she was still wearing green scrubs. She quickly disrobed to reveal her awesome body. But the best part was yet to come. She was on all fours devouring me nicely while I fingered her pussy. I pulled my fingers out and slapped her on the butt. She stopped just long enough to say emphatically, "HARDER!"
I think a have a fever- where can I find this nurse to take my temp?
over the years, for something I saw a provider wear in a photo shoot. But when I’m asked about attire, I tell her to wear what she feels comfortable and sexy wearing. Sometimes that’s casual clothes or a robe over lingerie, or just a robe, or just lingerie, or sometimes a sexy dress with or without lingerie. And sometimes it’s nothing but a smile. As for makeup, I leave that to the lady’s discretion, but my preference is little or no makeup.
I like simple outfits. Complex, fragile lingerie is wasted on me. Garter belts are an actual turnoff (due to a teen-age date incident). I like a bikini, or short slinky dress, or a micro-skirt, things like that. Whatever she wears should come off easily and safely, not awkward and at risk of damage.
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I like simple subtle makeup. Makeup that's for show from across the street after dark is not appropriate to show at kissing distance. The one strong makeup element that I do like is bright red glossy lipstick, painted carefully within the lines. Brands that stand up to kissing are a definite plus.
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That's all just me.
are staying in or going out. If we are going out, I like makeup, hair done and an elegant wardrobe selection. If we are staying in, my favorite look is for her to greet me at the door wearing only high heels and lipstick.
I prefer a natural look, although I understand that many women feel uncomfortable with someone seeing them with no makeup on at all.
I had a great relationship with a gal and had seen her many times when I asked her to wear zero makeup on our next date. She was hesitant and said she'd wear very little but felt she needed some. That went well and she agreed that the next time we met she wouldn't wear any but on one condition - that I not shave. She said she thought that a couple of days growth wa very sexy.
That worked out well and every time we met after that it was no makeup and no shave until she finally retired.
I have always been meticulous about shaving prior to a date, and can't recall anyone saying that I shouldn't do so.
In fact, one time when on a long overnight date (We had met around noon,) I felt it necessary to shave in the evening before we retired to the bed-time festivities. She remarked when I returned that she thought that was the most thoughtful thing she ever saw a man do, at least in terms of grooming.
If any gals are, however, enamored of the Don Johnson look (Remember his from Miami Vice?) let me know and I'd be more than willing to accommodate.
Dressing for the occasion is always good, for example, no sweatpants to a Michelin star restaurant, but otherwise I like when escorts are comfortable in their skin and in their clothes. I can always tell when they're feeling themselves versus trying to go out of their way to impress me. I like to see the natural you. Of course it's always appreciated if it's extra sexy. But really, seeing a woman comfortable with themselves is the sexiest thing she could wear.
I think it best if the gal and the client dress comfortably and casual.....no need to draw unwanted attention to your meeting...Certainly fresh---Lingerie not necessary.....make up to the level the gal feels comfortable...!
is always necessary. To say it is not necessary is admitting cum stains from the last customer would be acceptable to you.
The initial link often sets the mood and that's where the magic starts. PERSONALLY I love the skimpy, sexy outfits as it turns me on first glance. As for makeup, not a huge fan. Might sound funny but what's the point of all the glamourous make-up when it's all going to get washed off and you'd be back looking like your usual self.
(Oh I hate the taste of makeup)