Last night: OTC overnight date with a retired provider who I have been platonic friends with since she retired. At her request!
 

This is a young woman half my age who was a provider for only 3 short months. She was prividing for all the wrong reasons, and needed to get out. I had seen her a few times as a provider and got to know her personally. I was actually her last "date" even. We remained friends and I helped her with a bunch of personal stuff, and we talk and text a lot, and get together now and then for lunch, dinner, beach or just do something fun. Since she retired, it has been a totally platonic friendship. We have never even flirted when together. Never any more physical contact than a hug and occasional peck on the cheek, as friends or family members would do. Well yesterday I got a text from her asking what I was doing and if I wanted to hang out." Not unusual at all, except for the follow up text, when I replied, "sure what do you want to do?" and she said, "I really want to get a hotel room and be with you tonight!" It was an awesome night!

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that you had a nice time with a nice lady for Christmas!

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...are feeling in the giving spirit.....I am a very good gift receiver!

 
Oh what a happy Christmas that would be!!!!  

 
Some guys have all the luck...  Hehe

It's nice to know that there are good people out there that we can connect with and be something more than just a 60-120 minute date, if we wanted.   I guess I've been very fortunate to have made some nice friends out in the world.

Just imagine what could happen if we all treated people with kindness, respect, and tried to do one nice thing a day.

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to everyone

The important thing was having a good time with a good friend. And truthfully I would have been happy to do dinner and a movie with her, or something else just as friends, as we have before. And it really had nothing to do with Christmas. I just turned it into a Christmas present after the fact She just contacted me because she needed a friend, as happened many times before. I was just surprised that she actually desired to be with me "intimately" this time, and I was only too happy to oblige. Now I had no idea this would happen, and have no idea if it will happen again or we go right back to platonic friends. Doesn't matter. I am just going with the flow but for today, I was walkibg around with a shit eating grin on my face all day.
In any case, even though I started by saying it was an OTC date, technically it is actually a civvy date, since she has been out of the biz for a while.

I have been thinking about that a lot.. I make friends easily.. I seem to collect friends.. There is a provider I am seeing now and yesterday I asked myself.. "If it wasn't for the sex, how would I feel about her?".. and the answer was that I would feel like she has become a friend..someone who knows me well and someone that I want to emotionally support and to be there for... My hope is that if it wasn't for the money, she might feel the same about me..  

Odd how that happens with some people and not so much with others..

The friendships I've made with a few ladies and gentlemen.  I never imagined it would happen, but it's added to the fun of this world in some very profound ways.
Merry Christmas, ps, and everyone else as well.

Here's a song that proves it.

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it sounds more like two very good friends getting together and having great sex to boot. The best of all worlds IMO.

Glad you had a great time

sometimes in this hobby..sex is just secondary..the friendships and personal relationships are what matter the most any time of year..

Darn acronyms..... But glad to hear it was fabulous!!! Lol

In other words, time not paid for.

When offered it usually is for non-sexual type activities like going to an event, shopping, helping with chores, or just hanging together.

But at other times......

Here I thought it meant Over the Counter...  That is when you fuck a hooker on the counter of a retail store.  

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GaGambler , happy holiday season to you , and a healthy and prosperous new year to you ..be good and enjoy ..bib.

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