What do reviewers mean when they they include the phrase, treat her right, in a review of a provider? It is not uncommon to see this. Is it not a given that should be done?

like:  "Run, don't walk to see her..."

When I see it, I just translate to "Guys, I REALLY like this girl." But I hear your point.

Treat her right.
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It means that if you want a good Provider then treat the Provider right. Don't act as if she's beneath you just cause of what she does. She don't have to deals with guy just cause guys try to get in her pants.

If it’s not written in any of her reviews, I assume I should be a dBag to her. Thankfully, our thoughtful reviewers let me know when to be a nice guy.

One bad date can detour a gal from this industry. Treat her right & she won’t leave the business. One douchvag can ruin it for the rest of you males from partaking in the pleasure of her company. It could just be a phrase that is over used by men who lack authenticity.

When I've used it in the past, it was with the hopes that some insecure asshole would read it and be inspired to respect the providers boundaries.  Thereby avoiding scaring her out of the business.  This, so that others could enjoy spending time with her.

Who wants more for less, showing up late or over staying your time. Instead be respectful, kind and generous.  Show up smelling good from head to toe , and you will be most likely guarantee a good time in return , and she  might just can't wait to see you again.

should be "treated right".

Indeed!  Couldn't  have  said  it  better  myself!  

is to treat all providers well.  It's interesting that your default is to be a dirtbag unless another reviewer tells you to treat her otherwise.  I would venture to say that 90%+ of all mongers KNOW they should treat ALL providers well.  The other ten percent that need to be told when to be nice should not be seeing them at all.  

1) It conveys no useful information whatsoever

What I always interpreted as meaning was don’t just go in looking for her to do all the “work” and  get you off
Spend some time finding what she likes and pleasuring her and you’ll be rewarded with more than a  perfunctory performance  

True. Some choose to wanting to vent their issues on other people who have nothing to do with their problem.
So  yes ,have seen and heard some things that just make shake my head  sometimes.  

What value does this hold in a review?  

But there are hundreds if not thousands of reviews with this embedded but every provider is different.

what *I* mean by it is "I really liked this girl and want to see her come back again -- or stay longer/stay here. So for some of you guys that I sometimes hear unfortunate stories about that results in girls wanting to spend time somewhere else, PLEASE don't fuck this up for me. And, for the vast majority of the others here, just be a bit nicer than usual so that might make up for any of the asses around so we all benefit with more opportunities."

Like, do people actually understand what you're trying to say? I feel it's far more direct and understandble to directly say what you just said instead of "treat her right". Conversely, I hope that no one is ever going to ask to treat a girl wrong.  

I would think your database would answer the question of always/never so feelings should have nothing to do with that.

You really don't know how to interpret things. Pretty sure everyone but you knew I was being sarcastic.

HE's being sarcastic, and I'm NOT???   It's okay, my own humor and sarcasm is often too subtle for some here.  Obtusity is my forte.  Lol

Good walk back!  

Again. To me it could mean any and  the things you mentioned but simplified  in just three words  

OR....people could stop trying to obfuscate what they mean and it will result in less time wasted by all parties.

I meant *should* be all or nothing.

I've always found "treat her well" fairly cringe. It's a simpy/white knighty thing to say about a woman who is in no way in your sphere of influence.

Well, waisting all the extra words would I suspect do as little as you see the three word phrase accomplishting. Justsause's response seems to be a good case in point. Again, I think it's more that those that get it understand what is being said and those that don't get it won't are not interested in any larger explanation because they have it figured out for themselves anyhow.

Fair enough. Personally I'd feel like if it helped even one person than it wouldn't be wasting. But that's just me.

So far, no one has read "or else" onto "Treat her right."  
"Treat her right ... or I will hunt you down and Bobbitt you!"  
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_and_Lorena_Bobbitt
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"Treat her right or I will make you rue the day!"  
"Treat her right or I will make you a roux of the day!"
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Roux
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I don't read "Treat her right" that way but thought I'd toss it out there.

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I always thought it was treat her right.... AND THEN she treats you like a vip who gets to order off the menu.

I’ve never seen a “treat her right” on a negative review.  
So the positive review itself should suffice  

Actually I found this exchange to have been one of the better/more productive ones we've had and didn't see you as being antagoonistic. For a change I thought I was actually able to get my position/point understood.

Kinda like here in the south when ya pass another fella in the same iisle at Lowe’s we say “how’s it going”

Yeah. Yeah. Something like that.

humor is too subtle for some here (the slow ones) and you step up and raise your hand.  Thanks for proving my point.   Lol

It’s kinda like the guy is pretending he’s got a proprietary interest in her when none exists. It’s just obnoxious

I dont really get what the review being positive or negative has to do with anything here.  

Another good walk back.  But of course there is no arguing with a narcissist as only the narcissist will win the argument.  You are never wrong and no one else's opinions or experiences matter to you except to give you fuel for the fodder.

since 2018, and another 23 between the Florida and Over 60 boards, so you don't really know me very well.  I AM WRONG sometimes, albeit rarely, and when I am, I say publicly that "I stand corrected" and admit what I got wrong.  If you do a search, you will find 39 examples of me admitting I was wrong on THIS board alone, and just as many spread over other boards.   I didn't see a single post where you admitted you got anything wrong.  Now would be a good time to say you stand corrected, because you were dead wrong about claiming I never admit when I'm wrong.  Did you lie intentionally or just too dumb to do a search?    Bwahahahahaha  

I just think perhaps you’re a bit too literal of a person sometimes for these reviews. I’m often told I’m too literal irl, and I think it’s true.  

By what metric does how many posts I have correlate to how many of your posts I’ve read?  Wait, I’ll answer that for you:  NONE!  So, I’ve read enough of your blathering posts to know you very well.  The number of my posts is just another one your many made up statistics to make a point that really is pointless.  You use them to make you look smart and informed when they really have no meaning.

your lying after I already proved you lied?  I gave you an out on your lying if you just admitted you were too dumb to do a search, so we will assume you are NOT willing to admit when YOU were wrong, which makes your claim both a lie and a projection from you.  For the record, I don't know of any shortcomings I have. I do understand why guys beat off, 1) They can't get civvie women into bed for free, or 2) they don't have enough financial depth to be able to see all of the providers they want to see.  There is no other reason for a grown man to have to beat his own meat. This is why I haven't jerked off since I was a teenager.  Ever since I started college, I was always good at finding pussy to use, but as I got older, 48 to be exact, I started paying to get the age I wanted without any drama.  

There's still assholes out there that haven't gotten the message. Seems there's an uptick of rude guys still out there. When this whole "Treat her right" comes up, and FYI, this has been posted on the boards before, When I saw that line in a review, I kinda just chuckles and rolled my eyes. But now....I dunno. Not sure if the surge in rates have fueled this rudeness but there is something in the air.
It'd be nice if the women who lurk these boards could chime in on this, but then the usual bullies would gang up so what would be the point.

Agreed. The people that are going to treat her properly already do, and the assholes who don't aren't going to be swayed by somebody posting a dopey cliche like that.

There are lot of jerks out there who treat providers badly. If you are not one of them, great. Unfortunately, some of them need to be reminded to behave themselves.

Like if you have vip, you'll read it and if you don't you won't be able to. Lol.  

AGREED

I use this, unashamedly, to mean "She's a great person, and was very good to me. Be good to her."  

Yeah, and in Miss Kitty's case please be sure to throw away some of the garbage in you back seat when she comes down to suck you off during her $9.95 bj special

Did Kitty raise her prices? $9.95 seems kinda steep.

This is not a review. We are talking  about  treating a provider right ( good).

Huh?  

Look like you're one a those that treat  women like crap.You can't  even express what treating women right means in your opinion and to you personally.

Cheap ass .Where you think you're ,the flee market.

Pistolspypetey believe in treating women right. Looks like he finally saw the light.

Guys that are abusive see "treat her right" and think to themselves lets move on, cant abuse this women, the anonymous dude in the review said treat her right. If you dont say treat her right in a review just remember youre doing the provider a huge disservice.

Have you ever met a guy who was a misogynist or creep who knew he was?   From some of the reviews I have read, it seems that even customers who were overly-aggressive or abusive during the session have said, "treat her right", suggesting that the things they described that most of us consider too much are how you should treat them.  In these cases, saying "treat them right" would be a disservice because it implies that you should treat them like HE did.  As others have said, the ambiguity in this phrase is often why it is considered gratuitous and means little to readers.

"Treat her right" to me means that she's on a hair trigger and your encounter can go downhill quickly.  Additionally, "treat her right" means to me that the reviewer wants her to come back to this area (good customers).  I may be completely off the mark, but whatever.  

If you ask her "what can I do for you" sincerely, it makes her eyes-ears perk up.  Anyone who "plays in" this game will endure ............. respecting themselves and providers.  It's about kindness that comes from the heart.  If not from the heart everyone eventually sees. Men who have no respect for providers will soon find out no one wants to see their dark hearts.  It hold true for bad providers.  It takes a certain level of good self-esteem to look at your ego.  It's the ego that gets in the way for progress of your entire life.  If you can't handle the weakness, a person will not change.

In order to treat the Provider right.......You got to Acknowledge that not all Providers are the same