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She'll move on
Aside from losing a fortune if you are too generous, eventually she'll move on. I assume there is some sort of age mismatch (not always, but usually.) The financial incentive might only last until she'd out of debt.
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For these reasons I would say never remain exclusive with one SB. It'll help keep you monetary outlay limited, and variety of female company will help keep you from losing your heart.
I've never done this sort of thing before but I like it. I might like it too much.
I'm spoiling her and spoiling myself.
Have any words of wisdom for a new sugar daddy? Any mistakes I should avoid?
I welcome advice from women and men...
Thank you everyone
Back in the day, a sugar daddy was that, kinda like a daddy, You took care of her, she wanted for nothing. Do you do that?
Or are you someone who sees a girl once a week, give her $2-$300 and figure she's your.
Is she allowed to see other men? My guess is that if you're doing the $2-$300 per week, then she's seeing other guys....my guess of course.Do you give her a monthly allowance? Do you make her rent and car payment?? Kinda like to know the depth of your SD,SB relationship...Or are you a ........John?
Hate to be a buzzkill and I'm sorry to digress....But...back to your topic..... i don't have any advice..lol
I agree with your definition.
Thanks for the advice-less post I guess lol
Yes... rent, car... and I'm removing her debt along with a nice allowance and gifts.
With that being said, I wish I could give you advice. But if you're married or have a SO...Don't leave a paper trail with your named tied to Rent, Car payment credit cards in her possession...Have a secret cash stash somewhere. Don't write checks either...cash is king.
But if you're not married then shit tattoo her name on your forehead...lol
My advice would be a little different depending on what exactly your arrangement is. As he suggests, there are different ways to set up an arrangement, and the TYPE of arrangement YOU have would determine the type of advice that might help you. If you can expand a little bit on some of Happy's questions, there are many guys here that have substantial experience with SB's that could offer some tips on how to get the most out of it while avoiding some of the common pitfalls.
You will get more frustrated with time wasters and flakes than liking it too much - if you are anything like me..
I like variety. I never repeat w/ providers in less than 3-4 months. That doesn't work with SBs. They want consistency, and want to see you every 2-3 weeks..
A lot of them are also scammers. It's a wild wild west there..
I just don't have time to invest into it right now. Work is really busy. Nov, Dec I might stop by SA to see how things look.
that was okay with seeing me every two or three weeks I might be tempted to try it again, but the last four or five that I tried wanted to see me once or twice a week. That just took too much of my time away from seeing providers.
That is sort of my predicament atm. She wants to see me almost every day... but I don't want an actual gf.
I'll check out erotic highway for sure guys. Thanks!
You just have to keep at it... It's game of numbers..
I found one that I was perfectly fine seeing every 2-3 weeks during the darkest days of the pandemic. A hot Korean-Americn chic. I tapped that sweet ass for 8 months.. We were exclusive for that time. But barring those kind of circumstances where you are held hostage, i prefer variety, but again I hobby once two-three weeks anyway.
You can have it moved to the "The Erotic Highway" board. That board seems to gravitate more to the whole SD/SB world.
Here's it only us slugs.
There you will find hundreds of posts covering hundreds of topics in the Sugar Bowl.
Spend a couple of hours reading, or searching keywords and reading, then post you Q's there. You will find many who will be glad to help you find your way.
Life is good
The Cat
I had no idea! Thank you!
You want to make sure your sugar baby appreciates you too.
What a profound statement.. Sweet sentiment too.. LOL
Honestly, most of them are greedy and they don't. Every once in a while you get a good, decent person. I've found P4P to be more honest than the wild wild west of SB/SD relationships..
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I don't know the SB world anymore than I know the world of supermodels. But I do know a few things, such as:
Think about your liability. If you rent her apartment or buy and insure her car, guess whose ass is on the line if she fucks up either or both.
Think about whether you're really exclusive. Unless you don't care whether she's spending your money on her real, deadbeat boyfriend.
Watch out for catching feelings. Happens to the best of us. And when it does, it can really cloud the judgment.
Bon chance.
Some of us know it and have as much experience in P4P world as in SB world.
Troll PhD on line or in person at Misanthropy U?
It seems a great many of your posts are nothing beyond snark, dyspepsia, and high-school quality downs aimed at other posters. Surely you're getting laid enough to counteract the reflexive bitterness.
(Sorry for calling you Shirley)
How about just chill?
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That's all good advice, especially from a guy who doesn't know the supermodel world.
Aside from losing a fortune if you are too generous, eventually she'll move on. I assume there is some sort of age mismatch (not always, but usually.) The financial incentive might only last until she'd out of debt.
.
For these reasons I would say never remain exclusive with one SB. It'll help keep you monetary outlay limited, and variety of female company will help keep you from losing your heart.
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