Women acts as differently during DATY as guys do when receiving a blow job. There is no "usual" as even the same woman will react differently on different days being eaten by the same guy using the same technique.

I know women who will just lie there quietly enjoying the attention on one day, and then who will moan and groan, and squeeze your head like a grape the very next time you see them.

I encourage girls to tell me what they like, especially in DATY.  Vaginas are like snowflakes.  No two are built exactly alike, especially clitori.

I mean I have been here for quite a few meltdowns over the years, remember "got rope?" but this latest one by JLS/Corrine/GallopingGourmet was one for the ages, I was actually impressed, and forgive me for sucking up a bit, I was delighted that the PTB's allowed us to have our fun.

Now, I am interested to see what she has to say after having a night to think about what she did last night. If she has even the least bit of sense left in her, she has to be thinking "WTF did I do yesterday?" and "How the fuck am I going to fix this?" Just like she must have when busted for being Corrine last year.

I'm not loud enough for someone to call hotel security, but damn when I'm in my groove I'm sure not quiet.

This is perplexing.

Steph

Nah, that's impossible, isn't it?

but I will add that if I look up at her and she isn't making any noise, I expect to see her eyes rolled to the back of her head, not looking at me if I am getting the job done.

I've actually had the wait staff in one of my fav places to dine in Tampa actually get so cracked up with laughter that they couldn't stop laughing even when trying to wait on the other tables!

It all started with my response to my waiter's description of a tossed salad! Yes I went there! Same thing with one of my fav places to dine locally. They get excited when they see my name on the reservation list for the night!

That being said I do agree that we are there to make sure a guy has a great time with us first and foremost, but that does include mutual pleasure a lot of the time for me. And who am I to complain, lol? Hey at my "advanced age" I'm happy to be getting some!



Steph

"Can I lick your pussy?"
“Sure!  We still have time.”  I get into position.
I can tell that Tina likes my idea.  She quickly lies down on the bed and props her head up on the pillows.  She’s one of those girls that like to watch.
John puts his head down between my legs, but instead of getting ‘busy’, he starts talking.  He asks if I like it a certain way, and to tell him how to do it the way I like it.  Finally, I bark at him, “Don’t worry about it.  If you need directions, then I’ll tell you what to do.  I assure you that I am used to telling a man how to eat my pussy."  John gets the message.  He shuts up and goes to work.  I don’t have to say another word.
John has some kind of instinct for how to turn me on.  I can feel myself getting hot and wet.  He keeps me on the edge of orgasm forever.  He keeps going and going, until I come... who-knows-how-many times, and then I have that big orgasm.  The kind of orgasm that makes you too sensitive to keep going.  I push John’s head away from my crotch.  I gasp for air.  I rest a moment to catch my breath.  There are some strands of gray hair in my hand.  I think that during climax I may have accidentally pulled out some of John’s remaining hair.
Tina has beautifully sculpted abdominals and a neat, closely cropped landing strip of silky-blond fur on her cat.   I'm pleased to note that the carpet matches the drapes.  I touch my tongue gently down on her belly, just above the top of her labia.  I make little flicking excursions down to her clit, her inner lips and back again.  Tina moans unconvincingly and heaves her hips.  I work my way down and pull back to admire the view of her anus.  She is beautiful everywhere.  I go to lick her butthole, but I stop when I remember that it’s our first date.  I decide to leave her cute little butthole alone today.  You never know if a girl has had a bad anal experience.  I don’t want to do anything that might scare this one off.  I certainly don’t want to strike a sore nerve on our first date.  I go back to work on her and she slowly gets genuinely excited.  I start sucking her lips into my mouth and she grabs me by my hair and pulls my face forcefully against her crotch.  She seems to be experimenting to see how long I can hold my breath.  I am committed to the job and I don’t stop until I get her to climax.  Finally she does.  We are both gasping for air.
“That felt so good."
I lift my face up out of her soaked crotch and she looks at me with a sly, delighted smile.  Tina’s slim, firm body is exquisite.  She’s lifting her head up while lying on her back, making her abs ripple.  She is so appealing that I can’t resist her.  I go to kiss her on the mouth, but I suddenly stop and explain, “My face is covered with pussy juice.”  Knowing that girls don’t like that, I ask, “Give me a second to go clean up first?”  To my surprise, Tina grabs me, pulls me toward her and snaps at me.
“No!  Don’t wash it off; I love the taste of my pussy.  Kiss me pussy-face.”
Our tongues touch.
[Excerpt from the Book: "ESCORT The True Story of an Orange County Call Girl"]

But you said MOST and I find that perplexing.

Maybe bring this to the "Let's ask Julia" board?

See any resemblances? lol

Or watching TV?

P4p is a business and it's something you just don't get.

At 7:00 every morning you can each bench press yourselves.

They are just too polite to tell you.

Seems they're synonymous  

Multiple Personality Disorder?

If you were defending her, even if she were in the wrong, that would be "White Knighting"

What you are doing is simple "sucking up" but considering how hot she is, sucking up is not only allowed, but you are still entitled to keep your man card as well.

I am sure you are relieved to hear this. lol

and I guess by extension, I am sucking up as well. I guess I will have to go be mean to someone else to salvage my hard earned reputation. lol

But I've promised not to mention her name. Thanks for reminding me of it.

And that my favorite things are doing bjs and sex. Which is true.  
But I understand ladies who don't know what to say when asked....we are doing this for money, you are doing it for pleasure. Money is my pleasure. I know guys want us to be happy too, but we are happy when we get paid lol!  
Of course like I said, I do enjoy it too...I think what I do is hot in general, and I like showing off my body, so even that gets me in the mood...so basically I'm always in the mood lol.
Plus I think in a nympho, so sex is like water to me! Lol

Sometimes I am purposefully super quiet, although I am enjoying what he's doing...it's because I stay in hotels and you can totally hear thru the walls and in the hall...and some guests have no problem complaining to the front desk about every little thing, lol

Posted By: MatureGFE

I'm not loud enough for someone to call hotel security, but damn when I'm in my groove I'm sure not quiet.

This is perplexing.

Steph

Yummy, yum yum, yum

I've never heard of a guy actually not wanting to hear sexual noises! That is silly. Sorry he was stifling your sexiness and you will find Mr. Right! Good job for not settling

Posted By: RobbinYoung

Vocal = sensually moan, so I know what feels good...and, for God's sake, PLEASE let me know when you cumming...so, I can cum with you!  
   
 I've been in love with a civvie guy friend of mine, the past few years, but I quit having sex with him.  Our chemistry and sex, was off the charts, but unfortunately...he never made a peep, during foreplay or sex...and, he didn't like me to make any sounds, either.  Well, because my moans and screams of passion are real...I found I couldn't have an orgasm.  I decided not to 'settle' so...it's me, myself, and I...once again.      
   
 Hopefully, someday, Mr. Right will cum along!

I will say one lady I can think of will stare you dead in the eyes during daty, I thought that was sexy.

is clitorises, also clitorides. Not clitori.

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I'm not sure there is a Mr or Mrs Right. Perhaps I'm jaded, and hopefully for those seeking that perfect mate, I am.

And you're not as mean as you like to project, brutally honest, I'll give you that.

that you're funny. You, Courtney and Tobi in the same room would probably be a hoot, and if London were to come out of retirement holy crap that might be side splitting. So see, the three of you should attend the same M&G, wouldn't that be fun?

And the fact that in your mind it was graphic didn't factor into my response to you at all.



Steph

This illustrates how much of a perv I am.

That's why I said I'm not loud enough for someone to call hotel security. But I do always ask for extra pillows and I've actually put one over my head before if I thought I was digging it too much!



Steph

But I think the definition includes someone to share the good times with and the bad times.   To overlook the things they do that are not quite as we wish, and to hope they overlook those of ours.  It happens every day outside the hobby and sometimes they even work out - for a short time or a long time   Our world here is the fantasy we always say it is - in the hobby it's easy to just see the fun side of a relationship and that's why this whole 'falling in love with a provider/cleint' thing in the beginning makes me chuckle.  But over time I do think it's possible in the hobby too, but there has to be a real depth of relationship and sharing the good and the bad; being there for each other for real - not just sex, not just money, but being the arm person knows they can grab onto to when they're falling - but being that arm is more than just a 'connection' in the afterglow of time and companionship. For those who want it, it's always there but the key is to shop wisely and know what we're looking for.  Not sure what got me going on this - it may be all that vitamin D lol.

Definitely. I believe that if someone is open to love but not too focused on it, the one will eventually come along.
and that's good you refuse to cave. I would rather be alone than to be with anyone other than "Mr.  Right"! But I'm just a hopeless romantic lol

Posted By: RobbinYoung

Posted By: Katie_krush

I've never heard of a guy actually not wanting to hear sexual noises! That is silly. Sorry he was stifling your sexiness and you will find Mr. Right! Good job for not settling  
     

Posted By: RobbinYoung

Vocal = sensually moan, so I know what feels good...and, for God's sake, PLEASE let me know when you cumming...so, I can cum with you!    
       
   I've been in love with a civvie guy friend of mine, the past few years, but I quit having sex with him.  Our chemistry and sex, was off the charts, but unfortunately...he never made a peep, during foreplay or sex...and, he didn't like me to make any sounds, either.  Well, because my moans and screams of passion are real...I found I couldn't have an orgasm.  I decided not to 'settle' so...it's me, myself, and I...once again.        
       
   Hopefully, someday, Mr. Right will cum along!

   
 For your kind reply!  
   
 I know, and I figure since he's 50...he's set in his ways, and not going to change.  For me, I got to a point in life, where I'm tired of always being the one to give in, to someone else's demands.  To be honest, I'm old, and set in my ways, too.  
   
 For now, I'm busy caring for my dear friend with cancer, writing my book, and having fun posting on TER.  Love, will come, if it's in God's plan...if it's not, so be it.    

My history would suggest otherwise for me.  

I don't remember the name of the movie, but I do remember the line, because its so poignant

I do know it worked for me. My marriage lasted many years and it was what you might call 'true love' for a lot of them.   I won't get into the reason for the breakup but my wife wants it and I need it and the reasons are not personal.  I know marriages fall apart all the time and even the good ones may not be forever. But when they're good they're like nothing else.  But when they're bad they're like nothing else.  It all depends what you're looking for.

You're gonna need to learn to get over that if you're gonna be asking the ladies what they like! Lol.  j/k

I might want to try it on some guys, even. Lol....you know the ones who like yell when they cum lol. I'm glad they like it but I get so embarrassed lol

That the ladies want to please us. I just know if I can do something for her it's that move enjoyable for me and hopefully her.  I'd rather she tell me than I ask if I can dine at the Y. And she is not into it or kind of has the attitude of, "OK if you want to." I had one girl tell me she wasn't into it so we found other pleasurable things to do together. And it was a great date.  

I've felt like doing that several times!



Steph

I understand what you are saying - and it does make a lot of sense.  But people tend to just be wired a certain way.  I tend to be a natural pleaser, meaning if others around me aren't comfortable, then I can't be completely comfortable either.  I realize that doesn't make me the best natural fit for this hobby.  But I also have enough sense to kind of go with the flow of things, and to sense where a lady is at and where she is coming from.  If she is "fully present" and willing to let go a bit and we click, then that's great, as we both will have a much better time (and once I see her let go, this just ratchets up my pleasure 100%).  But if she is a little more distant or mechanical, it is what it is, and not much can be done to change that.

I am sensitive to how she is reacting to different things.  And I'll keep going if I get all the right signs (at least until I get too tired from a given activity or position).  I also don't mind at all if a lady tells me a position she likes, etc.

I'm open to different things, but don't have a problem expressing my wishes.
I had a lady suggest a vibrator once as you've mentioned (actually on my first hobby date), and told her that I wanted our experience to be all natural - just a man and a woman.  No probem.

ven though the "I'm here for YOU" attitude is appreciated, I myself am attracted to a woman who can indicate what she expects or enjoys--besides the obvious, of course.   Even if it may be something I may not expect or necessarily want at the time, I admire a lady who is confident and can speak her mind (in a proper and respectable way of course).