... if a provider is going to request that I give her a review, she will reciprocate with a whitelist.

So, I give her one... a good one... she deserved it, even if she never made the request in the 1st place.  

About a week goes back and I asked her if she still had plans to put me on the whitelist. Her response was that she "claimed" that she didn't know how to do it. Really?  
I asked her if that was true, then how come I saw 10 whitelists from her that she gave to other clients? No response since then.

I don't care if I am whitelisted or not, my point of this post is this:

If you are going to request something from someone and you promise that you will reciprocate, you'd better do it!!

Otherwise, if you don't have any plans to reciprocate, then... do not make requests!

It's common sense!

Just saying..

Also, why do you care?  White Lists are not terribly useful.  Sort of like talking to trees.

Who is the whitelist for? You. You perceive it as a thing to say to give you the green light to get more pussy. Congrats. but who screens through whitelists alone anymore???  

Who is the review for? Her. She perceives it as a new review or a high score will mean more business and more money. Some see it that way, a majority don't. Only a small percentage of guys on TER actually review.  

IF you didn't care, then why bring it up?

Yeah you can forget how to whitelist, and if she doesn't log into TER, then she wouldn't know what tab it was under. Happens all the time.  

Men lie and women lie. Next chick that asks for a review, don't do it unless you want to. Just because there was a "request" someone can say " no thank you" and change their mind.

END OF MESSAGE

what are you basing that on? your lack of brain power?

Jaye,

You need to re-read my post again.

I clearly stated in the post:  

"I don't care if I am whitelisted or not, my point of this post is this:  
   
 If you are going to request something from someone and you promise that you will reciprocate, you'd better do it!!"

She forgot? After doing the whitelist 10 times? I don't think so!

 

Sheldon?  Is that you?  Do we need to hold up the sign?

Stop trying to be so entitled. Ethics of a whore may vary. Some care and some don't give a shit. Her obligation to provide what you wanted ended after she collected her money and you nutted. I did read your post.  

Some ladies and gents out her don't respect the hustle. It's illegal and not regulated so your rant is falling on deaf ears. It just is what it is.

You may have very well done something that was a no-no, which is why she won't give you the white-list.
(Hell, she may have given you the blacklist.)

Personally, I would attempt to rebook, just to see if she will.
If not, well, you have your answer....

 
Such subterfuge in the hobby world sometimes!

She found out who he really is and cancelled her TER membership, changed her name, and moved to a different state before old "Epsi" could start stalking her.

Ladies, that's why you need to screen, screen, screen, you never know when a serial stalker is going to try and book with you.

you ladies ask us to review you, us hobbyists do that because you asked us. we are civilized in that way. then... you PROMISE us hobbyists that you would whitelist us, but you never do... because... maybe you providers aren't civilized?  

could that be it?

not going to waste my time.

next time a provider asks me to do a review of her, I will politely decline.  

even though it's not her fault, but the fraternity that she's in says that they are not obligated to reciprocate the favor.