New to seeing escorts;spent a few hours with a fun escort.  We did not use condoms after the first hour together (stupid, I know).
Today I noticed about 6 or 7 red bumps on the head of my di*k.
Going to clinic today.

Any idea What I have?

Thanks?

Are they painful? Do they ooze secretions? Do you feel feverish?

In two or three days your dick will fall off on its own.

WHY THE HELL WOULD YOU NOT USE A CONDOM?!??!??!?

Jimbo

It has been six days. Just noticed them today.
Herpes?

This is the next day, right?  Also, you probably looked at your d@#k (aka DICK) carefully for the first time with a touch of paranoia and finally noticed that there are little red bumps there.  Now they are a bit inflamed.  I could be wrong though. It may fall off.

It seems strange that the only person who wants to help is NM and not any of the posters who responded. (:

I have been checking back in today, and have been thinking about what you must be going through. As a fellow human being I feel compassion for you with your anxiety and fears. Soon you will know, or already know what is going on with you. People are posting because they are angry and scared, as they should be.

It is important in the small incestuous community that we are a part of, to act with reason. You partook in an action that you knew was dangerous. Now listen very carefully. It can stop with you. If you do have an STD, please do not engage in sex with someone else without disclosing this to the individual first. If you are infected with a disease, there are dating groups available through local newspaper listings or internet groups that will make you feel accepted and loved. Its important to get tested. Its important to tell EVERY single individual that you had sex with after that episode. Mark it on your calendar. Get tested again in 6 months. Use condoms. Go buy $400.00 worth of them put them on your bed, in your car, in your desk, give them to friends, etc. Talk to other people about safe sex. Volunteer to talk to kids, and your peers. Bring it up in conversations. You knew to use protection, and you didn't. Get used to the constant habit of using them, and seeing them.  It works. Its the perfect gift. The gift of protection.

Very important: find that girl and tell her what is going on with you ASAP. I'm not kidding, tell her on the phone, make sure she hears this. She needs to not infect anyone else. You have heard how some people stack clients? Well multiply  that by every day that you wait to tell her. She may not even know, as she may have no symptoms yet. You could save her life, and you could save others.

It sounds from what very little you said that it might be herpes. Symptoms will occur within 1-30 days, and the blisters are small and painful. It could also be scabies, which is not viral like herpes, but is parasitic. Scabies show up as tiny red bumps, and are intensely itchy at night. It could be a lot of things. Follow your doctor's advice. I put this post here for others to read and reflect on as well. Peace.

Joejt,

    Since you are new to this, it is still not an excuse to halt the use of condoms after the first hour.  Being new I also give you the benefit of the doubt of a newbie.  As others have said and posted, especially NM, you need to tell your future partners about your newly acquired STD.  I certainly hope it is just a rash from the condom, if not, and it does turn out to be herpes, there is no cure for herpes.  Outbreaks can happen and when that happens, you are infectious to others.  Even if you decide to continue with seeing escorts, you need to tell them about your STD.  It is better to lay off for six - seven months and get tested every two months afterwards to see if she gave you something else.  
    Be forewarned, you also need to get in touch with the lady and tell her about your condition and ask her if any of the people she has seen also has the same symptoms, regardless, she should get tested and everyone here hopes she does.  If she does have something, she then need to warn others whom she saw and tell them about her condition, it could become an epidemic, a quiet one albeit everywhere except here on these boards.  

    Thank you for sharing this with us and the best of luck.

H.&S.

H&S,

You wrote: "outbreaks can happen and when that happens, you are infectious to others."

Not entirely accurate.  While it is true that you are more likely to infect a partner with HSV (the virus which causes Herpes) during an outbreak, it is also quite possible to pass it along when you are NOT having an outbreak, just less likely.

What Netmichelle wrote was very wise indeed...I strongly recommend www.herpes.org, and www.webmd.com (keyword search: herpes) for more information.

Yoda

P.S. disclaimer: I do not personally have Herpes (yes, I have been tested) but dated a woman who did, about three years ago.  She had only recently acquired it and was convinced her sex life was over.  Together, we did everything we could to learn about the disease, including consulting two physicians, before we moved ahead with our relationship.  It is your responsibility to inform your partner of your condition before you have sex.

Are you sure it's not just psoriasis? Are you a nervous person?

Hugs,
Ciara

Ciara,

    Psoriasis usually occur on the head, ontop of our shoulders, and not in the groin region.

BTW, I do not have herpes, I wrote what I wrote only after hearing from it from a friend.  No she and I never had sex before.

H&S

Actually, that's not true. I had a friend who was diagnosed with psoriasis in the groin area. However, it's usually do to chafing because of tight pants and perspiration.

Hugs,
Ciara