This question is for providers. Trolls, please do us the courtesy of fucking off.

The continuous over-the-top, pretend moaning that some providers seem to feel will turn their clients on does the exact opposite for me. It's a total buzzkill, like a bad musical score ruining an otherwise great movie. I'm not just talking about faking an orgasm, although that can be part of it.

My question is, how can I get her to stop the sound effects without bringing things to grinding halt and making it all awkward? In other words, what's a nice way to say, in effect, "Be quiet. I want to cum and you're really getting on my nerves"

"Be quiet. I want to cum and you're really getting on my nerves."

Honesty is the best policy with these hookers

Mirror the behavior. If you start to moan excessively, she'll notice... and in my experience it mostly leads to a moment of laughter, after which it either ends or becomes a running gag in which you are trying top upstage each other with the moans once in a while. Since I like a bit of a joke during sex, I'm fine with either.

"Can I tell you something about me?" (she says 'yes') "over-the-top moaning is distracting for me. I like it kind of quite and natural"

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What is over-the-top to you may be my idea of just getting warmed up!    

Some men think anything more than a sigh is too loud and therefore, fake.  

On the other hand, some guys don't think a woman is into it if she's NOT moaning louder than her vibrator, talking dirtier than a pornstar, and squirting the whole time....  
It is because of these porn-saturated brains that many ladies pull out all the stops.    

To be honest, no matter how politely someone were to ask me to keep my volume down, I would wind up feeling self-conscious..... and that might have an affect on my performance.  Perhaps I should be more professional about it... but dangit... I've been told to shush enough that it now really rubs me the wrong way.  

Although to be fair, I've been shushed far more in my personal life (yes, I occasionally do have one lol) than in P4P.  

In this world, I've only been asked to quiet down a few times.   Most men seem to enjoy my (ahem) enthusiasm!  

 
OOOOOOOoooooh yeahbabyyeahbabyyeahbabyYEEEEEEEEEESSSSSSS!!!!!

MUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

 

xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

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it's courtesy.

You really should talk a little with your escort.
They don't want to put on a show anymore than you want to see it

You could always try shushing her in the moment, when it's more likely to be hot than awkward. A hand over her mouth, "hush/shut your mouth/you just going to wake up the whole hotel?", some variation of that has never offended me....

Someone talks dirty and wants me to do it back.
I can listen to it, no problem..:
I laugh when I try to do it.

I will just let it go when they say like, "do you like that dick baby!? That's a nice one, huh... "
But if I can tell they are really fishing for a reply I just say, "please dirty talk all you'd like.. If I do it back I will just laugh.. "

It may be akward for a second, but it's only a second.
We have lots more seconds left...

Just say to the lady, "I appreciate your enthusiasm.. But is hard for me to concentrate.. "

So many people are afraid of confrontation, but most confrontations are over exaggerated in our heads.
xx

you are providing her a chance to ease her life with a donation so saying what you like once you are together is totally ok and appreciated.  I have been in scenarios where it feels natural to dirty talk and irresistible to moan...others where the gent urges to the point of almost demanding me to do this distracting behavior.  Men do the same thing...it is a style I suppose.  We all know what heats it up for us...that level of erotic and porn that gets us to the highest state of arousal.  

I have been in a couple exchange where the lady kept repeating over and over...baby, baby, baby, I am cumming, ooo, ahhh, eeee, baaaaaaby!  baaaaby!  Funniest thing I ever witnessed!  

distracting...I did not cum...which is not at all a hard thing to get to for me so I get your distraction thought.

Some of the best and most erotic sensuality for me is in total silence-the right to sound withheld by my partner...whispers of commands and demands...shhhhhhhhhh