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I think the fact that it is a transaction at least gives you the opportunity to meet women you otherwise would not have been able to meet on a strictly civilian basis. That's the truth for me. I think I'm average to above-average in looks, but have a good personality. If women find me attractive enough, I have a fairly good success rate beyond that of dating and having sex. That's never been the issue for me.
The issue has been getting the proverbial foot in the door. And a transaction makes that happen, quite honestly. That's not a bad thing. It just it is. Fortunately, I have an income that is sufficient to do this quite regularly and have met many great women over the years.
Currently I have an ATF who I met through this (obviously), and we are exploring the idea of a relationship. It's strange because I know she sees others, and it doesn't bother me, and she knows I see others, and we are open about it. It works for now; it may not work in the future, and we will address that. In the meantime, it's actually quite nice that we can be totally open, and we can also have some parity in terms of income (she actually, I think, has much more money than I do, and I typically make mid-six figures pretty easily, though the last few years have been lower). There's something to be paid for parity.
In any event, I digress.
There is another ATF that is just way outta my league in terms of her appearance. She is literally supermodel hot. But because we met this way and I got the "intro," she sees me for a very discounted rate of $200 versus the $500 she usually charges (and she may end up raising her rates very soon above that). And that one stays for hours. What started off as a bodyrub ended up in sex, and now we are just truly friends, and I have been grandfathered in at that rate. Typically she stays at least two hours, and multiple pops are always welcome.
So, to answer your question in a typically long-winded response, I share many of your same experiences.
I have an enormous sex drive, and have in the past seen three or four providers a day, to the point where my cock was basically dry heaving. 
For me, my favorite activity is DATY, and I could literally spend all day doing it. If there were a demand for that from hot women where I could paid, I might quit my job and do that.
I know or have known a LOT of providers, I mean a LOT, probably numbering in the hundreds, I doubt one in fifty is by any means a "sex addict" Many have a very healthy sex drive, a large number have an even lower sex drive than the average women, and only a few are outright sluts (a term of endearment coming from me).
I am a horn dog, who love to fuck at least every day, but does that make me a sex addict? Only by the most liberal definitions of the word.
First off...if I ever decide to use an alias, can I go with Uranussky? Since we've bantered that we're probably not compatible sexually, we can still be related and go at this together? That way if a guy asks you who "your Daddy is", you can reply Mr. Sky...and it will be a bit creepy, but we're siblings..so that's OK.
Now, how the hell do you know that MsC and I haven't orchestrated this little charade?
Can't be sure now there "sis"...can you?
I did try and get noitercsid to play a game. BUT he didn't want to get that involved. And usually MsC just likes the "hit and run" approach. So the likelihood of her really playing...not!
And you...AN ATTENTION WHORE? Yep...but so are most of us!! LOL
Ain't life grand 
See, I don't believe that. Because if it's ONLY for the money, then why do girls give some clients more time or other extras? Maybe you can chalk some of that up to providers giving some extras because the economy stinks.
But my ATF who spends the night regularly and asks only for $250? The last time, I took her to dinner and a show, and she said not to worry about paying her.
Another girl who I see charges $500/hour, and she stays two hours or more every time and charges me $200.
It doesn't irk me at all. That's your read. I have no illusions. I've probably been doing this longer than you have. I'm just not as jaded.
But that's cool. I avoid girls like you because I actually like someone to be in it for more than the benjamins, and not to speak for every other jaded provider on this board. It's nice that some women actually LIKE doing this AND getting paid. Too bad you just like getting paid.
Oh, is that me being presumptuous? Yes, I guess I'm playing you.
Yes, she is likely the exception, but people like her do exist. I have had relationships with providers in the past, as well. And those providers ended up leaving the business after we started our relationships. I didn't ask; they did it on their own accord. I have two very good friends as a result, even though we are no longer going out.
One has a live-in boyfriend and is getting married soon. The other one has a husband and a kid. We talk all the time, and they are just normal girls who did this for a little while and then got out.
This one now has been doing this for the better part of a decade and she still sees other guys. Yep, in fact, I saw her last night, and she just left this morning. She might even be reading this, because I told her about the thread, and she got a kick out of it. And I still see other providers, which she knows about. I literally will tell her..."Hey, gotta stop texting. Be available in an hour. Provider X is coming over." And I know when she travels to other cities for work. For example, she is doing a multi-night with someone in the very near future in another city. Does it bother me? Nope. But maybe I don't fit into the other clients' notion of reality, either.
It works...not saying it works for anyone else, but for the two of us it does.
And guess what? She didn't charge me last night, either. I took her to a shitty Mexican place in the city, and we got an $18 bottle of wine. Smoked a joint, fucked, passed out, woke up this morning, fucked again, and then drove her back to her place.
If you talked with her, you would realize that she is hardly the naive person you make her out to be. In fact, she could give you myriad examples of guys in high places who went to the places she has worked in the past, and who MARRIED their providers.
So...shit happens, even if you don't think it does.
Be well.
I'm just saying that if you're stupid enough to use absolutes, I'm gonna find you something that blows up your theory.
Be simple: Talk about YOUR experiences, and don't be a chump or a bitch and tell me that YOUR experience is the experience for everyone else. That goes double when you're trying to tell me about my experience.
And I've been doing this over two decades, so I know a thing or two about things.
I assure you I am not naive at all. My issue with your post is only this: You seem to speak for EVERY provider. You don't. You speak for you. You have a unique situation. You fuck for money. And that's it. You have a SO who knows what you do. Yes, you fuck for MONEY, and that's it. You don't care about your enjoyment. You only act as if you enjoy it because you want the MONEY. Great. No fault in that at all. You just don't speak for every other woman.
I don't have an issue with that at all. It's just not for me. And I choose to spend money on women who at least APPEAR to enjoy it.
You're right. I don't know who you are. I also don't know what other girls are truly in for. I DO know it is primarilly about the money. But if it were ONLY about the money (notice PRIMARILY vs. ONLY), I wouldn't be seeing them. I don't profess to know what their true motivation, but if a girl was to obviously present herself as ALL ABOUT THE MONEY, as you do, I would not see her.
Don't take that any more than what I just said. Really.
Why on earth is nobody taking offense at their urologists and proctologists being in it for the money? Those two also touch your private parts for money )))
First, I can type faster than you. I work in finance for a living, and a ton of my correspondence is via Bloomberg, and I'm well over 100 words per minute in my typing speed. So if you see lots of posts responding to your girl Saturnsky, that's why. Don't look at this as me being obsessed. If she responds and I can bang out a quick response in a few minutes, it's an easy thing.
Second, don't read into this shit more than I write. I see providers and have fun, and everything is fun and casual. Ask Ashley Ann Taylor, if you need a name. She is great, and we have a wonderful time, and I am as easygoing as they come.
Third, Saturnsky always makes it a point to say it's about the benjis for her. Great. I have no issues with that. She even goes so far to say that NO ONE could ever figure out that she was acting. Really? No one? Come on...that's where I gotta get out the keyboard and call challenge. Please don't use absolutes. It just sets you up way too easily for the counterargument. And with people like SS, it's just way too easy to pick apart her arguments. And she gets incensed, it seems. Which makes it a little more fun, I'll admit.
You and I corresponded via PM. You know what I like. I like getting a girl off. Seriously. You can call it a fetish if you want. That's always been my thing, since I was 21 and had an early-30s provider show me how to eat pussy.
I don't put pressure on the girl. I just ask her to be open to it and to be honest. If you can't be honest, then I don't wanna see you. And if you don't get off, that's fine. But just be open to it, and don't go off into some space where you just tune out and it's a job. Other guys will book those girls; I won't. I don't need to. I'm in NYC, and I have plenty of choices.
I'm not demanding at all. JUST DON'T FAKE!
And if you're gonna tell me upfront that you are an actress...why the fuck should I see you?
I do like how you speak for "most women," too (emphasis mine):
" There are women out there who are multi-orgasmic and can cum like a switch, but MOST OTHERS are simply not that way." Here's another name you can ask: Larissa Pearla. I don't expect her to be orgasmic, but I expect her to be real. And she is, to the best of my knowledge.
See...I never asked you or anyone else to say that a date is better because you get off. Show me where I said that. I only said that I don't care to book with actresses. And SS has said she is an actress on record, many times. You have suggested likewise, if i am not mistaken.
There is no pressure on you...unless you have a problem being truthful. And I guess some providers (you and SS?) do.
Hope this clarifies it. I have never had a provider come back and say that I put too much pressure on them.
I saw a new girl who I will review shortly named Kelsie (she hasn't been reviewed yet), and I told her the same thing. Guess what? She said she came six times. Yeah, I know...she did it just for marketing.
Love talking with you.
Nope...I do it cause I love it
Well, most of the time.
Anytime you want to come back and play...you know that I'll be happy to assist.
And FWIW...I've NEVER been shy about discussing my opinions on here. Most don't give a shit...but I guess you are an anomaly.
And if we're going to share PM's....Oh, I guess I've already let that cat out of the bag.
So...how is the blog/site coming along? Did you clear any of this with TER yet? Or are you just going to put up more and more drivel hoping that will ultimately drive posters to YOUR site?
Hey...I'm doing my best to generate interest for you. Guess it's not helping all that much...sorry 