I would think you have a few choices.

Learn how to handle your weed. (Yes I know you already know that one)

Book longer sessions so your fantasy doesn't have to end while you're still stoned.

Quit getting stoned with providers.


I get drunk with providers all the time, it often leads to longer sessions, but not always. I have to confess, I do like to "get drunk and screw", but each to their own. Just remember this is a fantasy and all fantasies come to an end.

she dropped her car keys down a storm drain and forgot about it thirty seconds later as we went on a mission to find the biggest fucking bag of Cheetos in the entire world.

I recently had a provider offer me weed after our first round. We smoked and got high together. She started to kiss me and began going down for round 2. Everything that I tell myself to maintain a sense of reality went out the window with the weed and I was sure we were in love. It was fun and goofy for awhile but of course, time came and I had to leave (Hm, guess she wasn't so crazy about me after all.  Imagine that). The whole experience left me really depressed. Undue emotional rollercoaster, saying embarrassing shit while high, missing work afterwords...bad idea all around. I feel like leaving the hobby because of the experience.

Does getting high with a provider happen more often than I previously imagined? If so, have your experiences been better or similarly painful? Any other advice besides learn how to handle my weed?

But they do randoms at work, so I'll just stick with the booze.

Had a GF I used to do a lot of coke with. THAT was fun! Tweaking out and fucking the shit out of each other! Ahhh, the good ol' days! lol!

An appointment with a lady is not the time to experiment. My experience? If the lady partakes, we partake. We have a blast. If she doesn't, we don't. We have a blast. Nothing to freak about - just politely decline the offer next time.

Agreed. It would possibly lead to issues I would rather not deal with.

You have to understand that, when it comes to anything remotely concerning 'drugs,' I'm as square as the basement of the Masonic Lodge.  
A few years ago I hooked up with a dancer from the Crazy Horse Too (now defunct) here in Vegas.  She was really a TEN... former dancer from a legit show on The Strip that had lost her gig due to an injury and started stripping.  After several times seeing her at The Horse, she let me know we could 'meet for drinks' outside the club.  After about two sips of our cocktails she told me that we could go to a hotel for $XXX.00.  I swallowed hard (so to speak) and agreed and called the closest Station Casino property and got us a room.
Once we were there she lit up a joint and blew a toke into my mouth (there was tongue involved too!) and MAN did it hit me.  
The encounter went on to all its logical conclusions and I went home with a huge smile.
Saw her three more times before she moved out of town and on to whatever...
MVR
PS: Yvette.. wherever you are, I do hope you are happy.

It's a good subject.  I was a huge pot/hash smoker but then it made me paranoid.  Now I stick to vodka. But when a provider asks me if it's OK for her to light up, I say, "go for it. if it turns you on, it turns me on."  Personally, I'm in favor of the legalization of everything.  All drugs, all personal behaviors.  Why?  Not because I think they're all good (like crack or heroin) but because, as a purely practical matter, people will do them anyway and the profits will go to drug lords and terrorists.  So make it legal and take the profit out of it.  What's not to love????

Just like here, you don't walk up to someone and say 'I'll pay you $$$ to fuck me. You don't walk up to someone you think gets high and ask them if they do and offer.

We see each other's posts and for the most part know we're cool with our experiences and who we associate with. The same goes for drug use.

You never know if that person partakes unless they bust it out first.

To tell the truth, I don't trust many people that never got high, in one form or another.

I dig mindbending experiences. Keeps me young!

it was actually with a girl in porn that i use to smoke it up with and then fuck. sessions were great cause we both really, really got into it.  use to also get drunk with some girls, most were happy drunks, a few were angry drunks(yikes!), but man oh man, the good drunk fucks...awesome cause i wouldn't allow myself to get drunk where i had whiskey dick and couldn't get it up, but drunk enough to where i would last for at least an hour with a raging hard on to fuck each others brains out. but there has to be a sense of trust between the 2 parties involved, at least i think.

I was taking prescription pain killers for some recent dental surgery and the gal asked me if I had any on me, which I did.

She said that she loves taking them to relax which will make her much more affectionate.

Thinking with the smaller head I gave her one.  It did indeed seem to make her more affectionate, though I wouldn't make this a steady habit.

which has survived celebrating one divorce already and hope going to celebrate past D #2

I don't even know if that sh*t is still drinkable, but willing to take apps from Ladies who may have the necessary j'nai' sai qua

I had the chance tonight, but declined.  I was once the biggest of heads, but put that behind me two decades ago.  Now, whenever I partake, and I still do, it has to be under special circumstances.  

Oh, well, I got laid tonight, with one the best providers in the NYC area.  

I enjoy getting stoned during and after but not before a meeting.  If I do it before it adds to the butterflies in my gut.

Why is a provider getting high during a meeting with you? People make stupid deciosns when not in the right frame of mind. I think anyone willing to get high, stoned, drunk etc with someone that they barely know is an opportunity for disaster.... Do you really want to be with a lady who needs to be stoned to enjoy your company.. Again, both are inviting more then the eiter bargined for..

I'm kidding. Just giving moderators something to do. Like John Waters smoking in a movie theater if you recall that old PSA from years ago.

Thanks.  I had fun smoking it up with her.
She was the ultimate definition of a provider losing track of the clock.

My question is---- Why would someone do that with a Person they just met?

A Person doesn't need Drugs or weed to be as you mentioned " fun and goofy " Ok, maybe some do... However, Not a great idea You don't know nothing about her, nore does she about you.  

Just learn from this experrience.  Not every female on here will do that!
In the end---You get what your looking for

Best of luck
Viv

If anything, it's enhanced the experience.  As far as causing lasting emotional delusions or losing one's sense of reality, I can only shake my head.    

Party on, dude.  If you can't handle it, the recommendation is to pass.

That's kind of ironic.

I was worried about asking the herb friendly question thinking she might get PO if the answer was no. Instead her reply was "Do you want me to bring some?" It was a lot of fun. The only after effect I suffered was from eating a half a bag of Cheetos and a dozen Oreos on my way home. I have a date with a different top provider in a few weeks but don't want to risk putting her off by asking.