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MissKendra77 See my TER Reviews 2081 reads
posted
1 / 22

Hey everyone! I'm almost done working on my three books - about me, kind of a biography, with spicy feelings and insights from that world. For guys - tons of techniques(you never knew) from DATY and anal to squirting and practical psychology before and during sex, so it works with both escorts and IRL women. For girls - my best oral and anal sex techniques (all 29 techniques that you've read so much about in my reviews plus new poses tailored for your specific body needs(yeah, all pussies and bodies are different)). Plus practical psychology and how to overcome traumas and recognize that you deserve to be valued, loved and respected. Tell me, what did I miss? What else useful can I offer you? What should I refine or focus on? I have experience in tantric sex and erotic massage (I'm licensed in therapeutic and erotic massage)-should I include this in the book? I'd be grateful for any feedback,  
even from armchair critics and cynics who think they're TER Casanovas :) but keep in mind that your critics should be constructive, and if you criticize something “bad” offer your “good” then, otherwise your opinion makes no sense.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 69 reads
posted
3 / 22

Be sure to have a professional editor go over your books.

 
It will cost several thousand dollars, but it will be worth it.

 
I have know several gals who have written books and I got to read parts of them while they were in progress.   The results after they got edited were like night and day.

 
I look forward to reading your books when they come out.   Send a link to where to get them when they are out there.

inicky46 61 Reviews 101 reads
posted
4 / 22

I hired a professional editor to work with me on a novel I wrote and it was tremendously helpful in getting it published.
Your wife even has a copy of it.
(PS: No, it was NOT a best-seller! LOL)

herbtcat 6 Reviews 96 reads
posted
5 / 22

I think mrfisher is spot on.  And I'll add one more professional to consult; a lawyer.  

 
Just to make sure you don't open yourself to any criminal or civil liabilities.  You never know what LEO or DA might want to   use you as an example. And you don't know if any current, past, (or imagined!) client may try to infer you are talking about them and file a lawsuit.  

 
Good luck with your project. Very excited to get published!  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

hehitshewins 77 reads
posted
6 / 22

Personally, not a huge fan of how to sex books. Typically, people who think they have it figured all out don’t. If I am doing something to a lady I need to know that she likes it. And not all ladies are the same. I can’t show up thinking I know what she likes because I read it in a book. Communication between partners will always be king in my mind.

 
What would interest me is a series of short stories that really happened to you as a sex worker. One of my favorite authors is Charles Bukowski. He wrote quite a few books like this and they were amazing. He had an interesting life and an interesting perspective. I’m sure most providers have some really interesting stories they could share.

brokeloser123 98 reads
posted
7 / 22
Pollenbroker 24 Reviews 75 reads
posted
8 / 22

is to read a lot of good writing.  See what others have done in the same field.   See what others have done in different realms that might be helpful.  You will also find that the techniques of good writing you will find in good books will seep into your brain and gradually improve your prose.  

And if you're serious about sex worker stories, as someone above mentioned, read Mary Gaitskill's Bad Behavior.  The gold standard.

cks175 51 Reviews 80 reads
posted
9 / 22
netnoy 80 Reviews 101 reads
posted
10 / 22

Legally, you are going to want a publishing firm to help steer you away from any legal issues.  I cannot stress enough you are setting yourself up for a lot of liability.

Anyone thinking you are referencing them or stole a 'technique' from them is going to come after you.  Remember, it's not about how much you make.  It's about how much people think they can get from you.

lopaw 29 Reviews 108 reads
posted
11 / 22

....but I wish you luck.  
I've toyed with the idea of writing a book myself, since my experiences are rather unique and I've had plenty of them, lol. Maybe one day 🙂

mrfisher 115 Reviews 104 reads
posted
12 / 22

Mark Twain, among others.

 
It's not easy finding a publisher, and just as hard to find an agent who will take you on which is now a prerequisite  for finding a publisher.

 
With things like Amazon now, self-publishing is easier than ever, but still a tough slog.

 
I attended a speech once by Kurt Vonnegut, one of the most interesting speakers I have ever had the pleasure to hear.   In response to a question from the audience about how to succeed in the world of belle lettres, he wanted people to know that in all the world, there are only about 1,000 people who actually make their living that way.    

 
Something to ponder.

MissKendra77 See my TER Reviews 63 reads
posted
13 / 22

Thank you! You’re super supporting as always!

MissKendra77 See my TER Reviews 72 reads
posted
14 / 22

actually, it was the first thing that came to my mind and of course I already hired one from Upwork. But my question was - what people want to see in my book, what can make it more useful for guys, for girls and etc..you know, I just wanna offer a thing that will really help you. If I can rephrase my question - it would sound like : “what else can I do for you?”. Does it make sense?

MissKendra77 See my TER Reviews 90 reads
posted
15 / 22

I’ll think about it as well, but it’s gonna be really hard to go through the lawsuits with me, I’m not gonna follow any orders that made with mistakes. If I’ll find it unfair - I would rather kill this “sly and smart” person and spend few years in jail than spend thousands on lawyers and paying to motherfucker who decided that I’m at the same low level as him/her and would steal intellectual property of one other. After all, killers cheaper than lawyers.
Scorpions are vindictive and willful lol

MissKendra77 See my TER Reviews 70 reads
posted
16 / 22

You know, I've decided to split the book with two parts, but I'm still thinking it over. The book is based on my personal experience, plus insights from psychologists and sexologists I hired to help with the writing, even though I have a psychology degree from the Sorbonne myself. It looks something like this: I share my experiences through a few examples(names and situations are changed for legal reasons, yet vibes are still there), explaining where the best techniques and tactics work, both in sex and communication. I talk about my personal struggles and crises, how I got through them, plus commentary from psychologists. So, it's not just take it in your mouth and swirl your tongue clockwise. It's a set of techniques that work in different situations, descriptions of those situations, my feelings and thoughts at the time, plus non-judgmental comments from psychologists and sexologists. I went through the whole therapy in order to write it.

MissKendra77 See my TER Reviews 78 reads
posted
17 / 22

Yeah, I read a ton of literature that helps me with  research. It's not the classic or nonfiction genre stuff, more like scientific works. I'm fascinated by other people's feelings, souls, and emotions. Exploring the anatomy and uncharted worlds of men. I'm used to relying on my own experience, yet scientific research and facts, especially when they're helpful - simply  priceless. In my humble opinion..

MissKendra77 See my TER Reviews 68 reads
posted
18 / 22

I’ve already answered that question before, and I don’t give a heck tbh what they think. If they decide they can treat me like that, the only thing they’ll get from me is a house burned to the ground and a bullet to the forehead. :)  
Joke, but no joke ;)

MissKendra77 See my TER Reviews 76 reads
posted
19 / 22
MissKendra77 See my TER Reviews 75 reads
posted
20 / 22

thank you! you always here with great advices! yeah, these guys from this thousand just decided to create something really useful and meaningful plus great marketing and advertising. Key of success to almost every field.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 84 reads
posted
21 / 22

You can generally tell what she likes by gauging her reaction while you are doing it.  If you have trouble connecting, then you may not ever find out without reading a book first.  

MissKendra77 See my TER Reviews 97 reads
posted
22 / 22

You're deeply mistaken on that one! Many ladies in this industry don't just fake it, they straight-up lie. And that's because, specifically with you (judging by the number of reviews), they might be afraid of bad review or whatever. If you're only going off what you observe, without even a basic upfront conversation to create a more open vibe-especially in this field-about 85% of women have probably lied to you, 15% actually know their bodies, and good sex definitely wasn't your doing. That tiny remaining percentage? That's the real picture of pleasure with you, assuming you're just relying on watching their reactions. In this industry, as paradoxical as it sounds, women often have serious psychological blocks, and that spills over into coping mechanisms. They don't own their bodies, don’t even fully connect with their bodies, let alone give honest feedback or reactions you trying to rely on. “Young meat” like 18 to 23 yo simply don’t understand their bodies at all.  
Sex is way more than just mechanical in-and-out moves and tons-of-saliva kisses, and if she's screaming from “pleasure”, it doesn't always mean you're doing it right. I've seen stats that make my blood run cold. And from my clients, I've heard about how some other girls behave - I can't even imagine what kind of circles you'd have to run in to pull off stuff like that. Some steal, some show up under influence, some even work during their period when the body's super vulnerable, and the risk of infection for both partners is sky-high. And these were supposed to be high-end escorts. Not every lady in this industry really OWNS her body, so their reactions are incredibly misleading. Yet all of this make sense only in one case - if you crave for truly satisfying sexual experiences for both you and your partner.

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