Thank you! You’re super supporting as always!

I hired a professional editor to work with me on a novel I wrote and it was tremendously helpful in getting it published.
Your wife even has a copy of it.
(PS: No, it was NOT a best-seller! LOL)

I think mrfisher is spot on.  And I'll add one more professional to consult; a lawyer.  

 
Just to make sure you don't open yourself to any criminal or civil liabilities.  You never know what LEO or DA might want to   use you as an example. And you don't know if any current, past, (or imagined!) client may try to infer you are talking about them and file a lawsuit.  

 
Good luck with your project. Very excited to get published!  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

actually, it was the first thing that came to my mind and of course I already hired one from Upwork. But my question was - what people want to see in my book, what can make it more useful for guys, for girls and etc..you know, I just wanna offer a thing that will really help you. If I can rephrase my question - it would sound like : “what else can I do for you?”. Does it make sense?

You know, I've decided to split the book with two parts, but I'm still thinking it over. The book is based on my personal experience, plus insights from psychologists and sexologists I hired to help with the writing, even though I have a psychology degree from the Sorbonne myself. It looks something like this: I share my experiences through a few examples(names and situations are changed for legal reasons, yet vibes are still there), explaining where the best techniques and tactics work, both in sex and communication. I talk about my personal struggles and crises, how I got through them, plus commentary from psychologists. So, it's not just take it in your mouth and swirl your tongue clockwise. It's a set of techniques that work in different situations, descriptions of those situations, my feelings and thoughts at the time, plus non-judgmental comments from psychologists and sexologists. I went through the whole therapy in order to write it.

You can generally tell what she likes by gauging her reaction while you are doing it.  If you have trouble connecting, then you may not ever find out without reading a book first.  

Great advice!

Yeah, I read a ton of literature that helps me with  research. It's not the classic or nonfiction genre stuff, more like scientific works. I'm fascinated by other people's feelings, souls, and emotions. Exploring the anatomy and uncharted worlds of men. I'm used to relying on my own experience, yet scientific research and facts, especially when they're helpful - simply  priceless. In my humble opinion..

Mark Twain, among others.

 
It's not easy finding a publisher, and just as hard to find an agent who will take you on which is now a prerequisite  for finding a publisher.

 
With things like Amazon now, self-publishing is easier than ever, but still a tough slog.

 
I attended a speech once by Kurt Vonnegut, one of the most interesting speakers I have ever had the pleasure to hear.   In response to a question from the audience about how to succeed in the world of belle lettres, he wanted people to know that in all the world, there are only about 1,000 people who actually make their living that way.    

 
Something to ponder.

I’ve already answered that question before, and I don’t give a heck tbh what they think. If they decide they can treat me like that, the only thing they’ll get from me is a house burned to the ground and a bullet to the forehead.  
Joke, but no joke

I’m always open to cooperate! Just in case