my guess is that it is probably related to nervousness. While meeting a new lady for the first time is wonderfully exciting, it is often coated with a layer of nervousness about being intimate with someone new and unknown to you. My suggestion here is to have a glass of wine or other beverage together, spend some time chatting and getting to know each other a little bit at the start of the session and to remember that you are dealing with a woman who is a professional and who knows her way around intimate matters pretty well. She is there to please you, not the other way around. Kick back and let her work her magic!

If you let her know that you might be feeling a little nervous at a first meeting, most of these gals have heard and dealt with that before (it is quite common I would imagine) - you would be surprised how skillfull these gals can be at working through that.

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