My first time ever refusing to go below the penis happened the other day. He came into the room, and I pulled down his pants, beautiful piece of meat below! But, hairy, hairy, balls! I thought that maybe I could handle it, until I had a piece of hair stuck in my throat! I had to go and rinse my mouth two times before it cleared. Okay, I figure, well lets just concentrate on the piece of meat instead right? After a tug of war of him attempting to forcibly push my head below beneath that lovely piece of meat (which I could have taken care of all day long), I could not take anymore and I suggested that maybe I could give him a nice trim? No= was his answer. I got to the point where I told him that I will not service below that lovely piece of meat of his, until he either trimmed below or shaved. His answer= well my wife would find out. My answer to him in my mind was=I thought you told me by email that you and your wife hadn't had sex in close to year, so how would she find out? LOL. But of course, I didn't disclose my thoughts out loud. But, I had to take a firm stance and tell him that I don't appreciate hair in my mouth. He seemed to not like my answer and told me that he was ending the session. I told him fine and goodbye. I am thinking of adding a disclaimer on my website: No jewells licking until they have been neatly trimmed/shaved. Ladies how would you have handled this situation?

Sex or no sex, my wife still sees me naked all the time.  

It's fine for a woman to make these kinds of requests, but if they guy says no (for whatever reasons) then it's no.  Socially a girlfriend could follow it up and keep trying to convince him, but a provider should make the request once and then leave it alone.  I know I wouldn't be happy being badgered during a session I am paying for.

The provider, or course, can choose whatever level of service she wants to provide.  A rule like your suggested "No jewells licking until they have been neatly trimmed/shaved." is fine, but I wouldn't argue the point during a session.

Thanks for your response! I didn't badger, actually. I asked him, and his answer was no. So, when I refused to continue servicing below, he was attempting to force my head below, to continue that service. From there, I told him that I will not service him until he shaves/trim..now, he could have agreed to that, and we could have done other things in our time together. But, he seemed really intent on shoving my head below his penis. Which I found un cool.

wanted, including being rude.  I despise those kinds.

In a way, the ladies are paid to please us.  However, it doesn't mean that they should be treated with less respect than other people we meet on daily lives.

A bad client like that will ruin it for the lady and other guys for several days.

Nothing feels better than a lady paying attention to a freshly shaven smooth family jewels. they are much more sensitive.
If I expect a lady to spend some quality time down there, I keep it clean.

I find it very difficult to lick or suck on hairy "jewels". I prefer not to, and in your sitution, I most likely would have done the same thing. It's really bad when it is so thick and long you have to part it down to find the meat.. lol.

I shave around the nether regions once a week (including my crown jewels).  And yes, I am married.  When my wife asked why, I just told her that I wanted to try it and see how it felt.  Well, she isn't complaining.  LOL.

When I see a provider, I always make a point to "touch-up" b4 I see her.  And believe me, ladies do appreciate it.  You'd be surprised about what a lady will do for u, if u are clean and shaved down there.  It does make all the difference in the world.

Bond

Personally, I've shaved and trimmed down there since I was 18 years old. It didn't take years of experience with women to figure out that they really didn't enjoy a mouthful of hair when taking care of the boys. Initially, I wasn't sure how it would feel and I nearly quit the practice after almost clawing myself bloody because of the itching. It just takes a little getting used to and definitely pays off in increased sensitivity for me and willingness of my partner to pay extra attention to that area. Now it's a daily thing incorporated into shower time. God forbid I get a 5 o'clock shadow on my nads.
NM

I've got the secret formula pretty well worked out.  You can shave in such a way that the "back 3/4" is comepletely shaved, and the front 1/4 are just "neatly trimmed".  No one's the wiser unless they go a lookin!

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