So I was at one of the finest malls in my area. Just doin' my thing, picking up some new gear. All of a sudden I noticed her in the store. I totally played it cool and pretended I didn't know her. You know, just practicing proper etiquette, I know how to play the game.

So I come home, forget about the whole ordeal. Didn't think nothing of it. The next morning I check my email and get an email from her. She's being cool about it, but kinda bustin' my balls about it. She said,"You could have at least said Hi". I was like damn girl, just tryin' to play the game right. She understood and was messin' with me. Thanked me for being a gentleman and for being a cool cat in the situation.

Everything was just good fun with the email. I did notice that she was lookin' good and reminded me that I should see her again. Shorty was lookin' fine and I need to holla at that ass. And you best believe I will!

Go HOLLA! at that ass. LOL

Hollaing at some ass........

English mofo....speak it!

was a provider I've 6 times. was at the bob evans near bwi. While i was ordering my food, felt someone standing behind, turned around it was her. No one else was around so we just chit chatted for a bit.

I did go see her the next evening.

LOL! Yes shorty was looking good in her shorts, and I went to holler at her ass too.

Its smart what you did. Some providers keep their professional and personal life separate. You never know if she is with her SO, boyfriend, parents, family, or what have you. Its smart to play it off and be passive about it. Honestly, I would have done the same, and I have on several occasions--luckily they never see me and I also go into stealth mode when I see them fearing they might recognize me, and not the other way around.

If on the other hand, she sees you and engages in a conversation, then its an invitation for you to communicate with her--so, I am guessing its okay to approach her. As my man Snoop Dog once said, "Gotta holla at some booty", and I best believe you will my son. Also, do me a favor, and tap that ass to the best of your ability next time you see her, & give her my regards.

Funny.. Hey we girls have to shop sometime

but she can not be sure who HE is with or NOT with but might know the other person.  One can normally give a nod & a smile just as one would to a passing stranger.  If one were to end up in a line together, I suppose one could innocently pass the time as one would with another stranger.  Even if it's *cool* for you does not guarentee it is for the other.  One should not incur risks & certainly not assume the OTHER PARTY is ok with increased risks.  

That smile & nod can speak volumes to those individuals & be a souce of pleasure at a future meeting.

You did the right thing.
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I've bumped into one provider three different times, once at a party at a friend's house and twice shopping.  Always, the same process in a matter of seconds, eye contact, then look around to see if we're alone, and then an OK that it's OK to acknowledge each other.  Actually introduced her to my civvie date at the party.  When shopping, after making sure the coast is clear, we've hugged and visited for a while.  When do get together, we always have a good laugh about it and say that we hope it happens again.