I thought since the silliest day of the year is coming to a close and obviously we've had our fun here...maybe we could take it to a bit of a serious side (yes, even on here). I'm enjoying a beautiful sunset off my deck and of course it got me thinking...as always. So I thought I'd write and ask.......

professionally and with family.  To have a long healthy life filled with much joy and minimal disappointments.  

But if you played your usual game and didn't look beyond the subject line you would have missed a somewhat serious response.
First of all, I like the idea of your subject.  It's different and interesting.
Second, I'm not going to give you any details of my life or dreams.  I'll only say I've led a blessed life, reached many of my dreams (which were not small ones) and am incredibly fulfilled.  And I'm not talking about the little game that brings us to this board, which is tangential to me.  Suffice to say I've done more with my time than most.
But what's happened to me in this world also qualifies.  GaG made the point when we were sitting by the Pacific in Jaco a few weeks ago.  Paraphrasing, he said, "for most guys, this world is a fantasy they get to visit from time to time.  But you an I get to live in it full time."
The other great thing that's happened to me is, in large part thanks to TER, I've become part of a circle of like-minded friends who've done a lot together.  Some of them post here, some don't. They include men and women. It's a very rewarding benefit I never expected when I dipped my toes here a few years ago.

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try reading your posts before you put them out.  Then all this would be avoided.

When one stops dreaming...they are dead

Man, you are the only one who is responsible for your well being and happiness.  The more you own that, the better off you and your loved ones will be.  From the single sentence you wrote I wonder if maybe you should spend more energy figuring out what really puts the fire in your belly and less on this world.  There is more to life.  But don't get me wrong, a well rounded and full life is also important.  Balance.  Presence

dramatically LOL on this fine evening.  

That both my sons grow up to be healthy happy and successful people, while my wife suddenly loses 75 lbs, works out like a motherfucker and has massive surgery to correct the damage she's done to her body, not to mention tightening everything up and deciding that she loves sex and wants it 3 x a day and enjoys giving BJ's at least every other day..  All this while I miraculously lose 30 lbs of fat, gain back 20 lbs in muscle and win the lottery for $35 or $40 million all while staying healthy and eating whatever I want until I reach old age at 90 and drop dead with delicious booze in my belly and a warm beautiful gal's mouth on my cock (after I've just cum for the last time).  How's that for impossible.

The stick is usually happy just the way things are.

The only way I see you "making peace" with Inicy, or me for that matter is to start making sense. We can't make fun of you if you stop acting like a clueless putz. Consider this my public service announcement for the day.

You can go back to looking foolish now.

disagree which is why I brought it up. There is nothing wrong with sharing dreams on a 'forum', who cares what kind it is....are we not all human beings here. We are obviously not completely 'normal' according to most, but who is in reality. Not one person on this planet I'm afraid.  

Not coming from that "Great American Hobbyist" you are  LOL

You wonder why you are the board pinata.

when the 'bills' are at bay and you are completely miserable at what you are doing....you will find the peace and strength inside yourself to do what you really 'want' to do which will lead to that happiness everyone deserves in life. The only ones who ever stop us, are us.......

and as an unnamed friend of ours loves to say

"Tell me I'm wrong" lmao

and I'm referring to: Taylor Swift!!  

Ground floor of what?  A ponzi scheme?

money is your 'dream' then from your posts. Am I understanding that correctly? Perhaps if you took money out of the equation of a 'dream' as it truly is just a 'necessity' in life. We need it to put a roof over our head, eat, do things we love. But I don't equate that stuff as a 'dream'.  

So when a poster (Rod in this case) posts up some incoherent post which is followed up with "I can't really talk in detail (as if anyone here cares about what that is)"....tough to take anything he posts as relevant.

taking chances or you're not really living.

being 'without'. Writing is not always an easy outlet for some to express themselves clearly, I just don't see why it needs to be pointed out and made fun of all of the time. We all know what each other means, no matter how 'eloquently' it's written or comes out of our mouths. You're nitpicking now lol.  

I wouldn't have posted my comment to him.

and thirty or forty years from now you will most likely be a bitter old man who wished he had the courage to follow his dream in his younger years.

I've risked poverty most of my life, but I own every one of my successes, and of course I am man enough to own my failures as well, but you will never see me crying about how life is "unfair" I never expected life to be fair, real men deal with it. Internet tough guys whine about it.

Physically you might be a big tough guy, but in every other way you prove yourself to be a coward by your own words on almost a daily basis.

You have a Moses complex, as I've long said.  You see a monster? LMAO! Why can't you realize you are virtually the only one I go after here (well, there's your lady friend and the sociopath Pimpathy, but that's it). And it's not just me.  So maybe, just maybe, it's you?
Try to better yourself.  Go back to lurking.  Try to get some game. Stop being a complete dunce. I know this is a lot to ask, but Jeez. You are a complete fool.  Why would I expect you to realize it?

Two chicks at the same time, man.

Which is why IMHO those that are willing to "gamble" on themselves to succeed in life (business or personal) they tend to be in a minority.  But they also have such a huge upside that it seems irresistible to those type of folks.

because he knows he can! You just let Nic know he's making you miserable, lol.

Just a thought from someone who usually observes a lot more than posting here.

Steph

and when I was younger, before I knew any better, I used to try to help people like him, but then I learned that it's like trying to teach a pig to sing, and I quit wasting my time and energy.

You want to be in poverty...but you're fine financially...and still not a millionaire  LOL

But hey I'm not trying to put words in his mouth, just my guess.



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Have you ever considered that you're a complete incompetent and a waste of oxygen?

Nowadays, my "dream" is to be happy and productive living the life I have and forgetting the life I wanted.

I am very, very immature. It's what keeps me younger than Tardy.  Being smarter don't hurt neither. Though it ain't real hard being smarter than that tool bag. That boy'z dumber than a box of rocks.  Or a bag of hammers

You are a wailing, sobbing, gameless fool who seems to beg for ridicule.  A masochist, probably.  Please seek help.  You desperately need it.

Why not liquor delivered straight to your mouth!?!

And, I wish more people would talk about themselves this way. With every forum I join, I am ever curious about the people behind the keyboards. Seeing the same folks day after day, including tiny little details about things they do or things they like, I can't help but wonder who they are. Not their names, but who makes up the person inside.
An escort review site is probably not the best place to develop those curiosities about the patrons, as our acquaintanceships or friendships are probably only temporary.  However, knowing people and what makes up those people is something that has always intrigued me.

Great post! Really great...

Steph

Taylor Swift would look nice in a maid outfit. hahahahaha!!!!

Earth to Turdy: did you ever stop to think, just for a minute, that if you stopped putting up stupid "poats" I'd stop "poating" on your head.
Try it.

Also, Conan wanted me to point out he believes you meant "impinging" not "impeading," which you also mis-spelled.
What a train wreck you are.  Actually, calling you a train wreck is an insult to train wrecks.

appreciate all thoughts and comments, for there is no right or wrong answer here ever, only expression fairly debated with an argument or opinion. Still wish it could've been done with a lil less 'gaming' but I'll take what I can get.  

People with whom I can share details of my life sometimes can't believe the things that have happened to me.  And it's not just that I've let things happen. I've been privileged to have more epiphanies in one lifetime than most and I've been able to act on most of them.
As for this little world, the list of friends I have here is too long to post but they know who they are.  And when I say friends, I don't say it lightly.  For the most part, I'm talking about people I met on this and other boards who I came to know personally, face to face.  We've done so many things together that the stories would be hard for most to believe.
It's an honor and a privilege to know them, and have them include me in their lives.

Good night.

He's yanking your chain because he can and he gets a response from you. You are just making my point for me. You sent him a PM letting him know you had taken the time to research and PM him the results which you just put here.

As long as he gets a rise out of you he'll keep doing it. If you want to stop being his whipping boy have the self discipline to stop letting him get to you by responding.

I'm not saying it's easy it won't be. You'll be tested and it won't stop overnight.

And before you say something back, life's not fair sometimes!!! It's not about whether you're getting hammered here it's about whether you want some relief. And yes you'll have to filter your posts for a while, do the whole thinking before you post thing. In fact don't post something you're just DYING to say until you've gotten up and walked away from your computer or I-Pad like device for a minimum of 15-30 minutes cool off and then see If it's really that important to post.

Or you could do nothing at all but what you are doing now.

Now I'm done before the usual suspects get ticked that I'm just about handing you a remedy for all the shit you get here.

Sometimes a vaca on the boards can be a good thing. I left my laptop on my kitchen island by accident when I was heading to the airport for a 4 night stay in S Florida and I don't have one of those Smart Phones. After one night of Jonesing BADLY, I actually enjoyed not having it with me. I sat there by the pool and on the beach looking at all the peeps with there heads buried in their I-Pads or Smart Phones or similar devices and I literally LAFFED OUT LOUD because they were missing some really beautiful sights. I didn't look at TER for 5 nights. And it was a good thing.

Or you can just keep on doing what you're doing now seeing how that's really working for ya.

Steph-out!





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that Maylasia Air flight is from being found.  He's "Lost." But thanks for trying, dear. You win the Albert Schweitzer award for this evening, LOL.

He started bombarding me with PMs calling me names.  I really do have better things to do than respond to his inane natterings.  You really need to find yourself a better circle of friends, if you can.

Oh shit! Sorry forgot you were being serious on this thread. It's only mid day April Fool's day, here!

Re: Thanks, you too

Bedtime for Bonzo

I want my old job back the one I was good at before I got laid off.
I want my house back, the one I built with my 2 hands that was taken from me when I got laid off.
I want the fiancé back that left me when I lost my job and house.
In short I want my life back.
 Sweet dreams.

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Freebies from providers if you had ONE Dream?

SMH...

Is it a coincidence that one of his friends is from NM? This particular friend doesn't mind eating the corn out of a cute girls shit as long as she's very hot.  LOL

Sorry I just couldn't resist!



Steph

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"I'm getting a beer for my awesome boyfriend from the frig"

I would give away all that I have, and gladly return to relative poverty, if I could also be a young man again, and (key point!) retain all the knowledge and wisdom I've acquired over the course of my life.

The chance to get a fresh start, yet so much more aware of the potential pitfalls and land mines that are out there...mmm.  What an intoxicating concept.

Too soon old, too late smart....

Wouldn't it be nice to be able to beat that old saying?

they aren't

I thank you for your honesty and heartfelt answer here. I will admit, as I go about my day today, your words may haunt me a lil bit for I can feel your pain in your few words. To lose so much is something that some here may have experienced, and some may have not. I can relate to you on many levels personally myself. But somehow even in your few words, I can feel you have a sense of hope. At least I hope you do. That dreams can and do come true if one continues to be persistent in keeping your goals in mind and focused. For some of us, things have never been handed to us on a silver platter and we have to work everyday to get to where we need to be. It can beyond exhausting at times, but also exhilarating.  

post. I loved your words here so thank you for sharing. And yes of course it would be nice to beat the old saying but I am not one to ever look at my past to be honest. I look at what's in my lap today and what 'should' be in my lap tomorrow. Ask anyone who knows me, I literally don't remember last week. No joke, I am pretty certain I block it out by choice. I refuse to let the 'past' cloud my brain instead of all the good things that 'could' happen. I don't have time to try to relive or change what has already happened, that is the impossible and far too time consuming. That prevents us from allowing us to get to where we need to be, hence our 'future' dreams. But what we can do is what you stated, take what we've learned from the past and use it to better our future thru our knowledge and wisdom gained from those times.  

you know nothing about me to say those words. I go about life on 'my own', always have and always will. My choice. This forum and the people on it, is a collaborative effort of people chatting, nothing more.  

But please don't say "It can only stop with you Nick." You should know that's bullshit.  Both you and your pal Tardy perpetuate all this be responding to each and every "poat" I put up.  You're pretty bad but not as bad as Tardwell.  I've never seen anyone on this board like him, crying, screaming, sobbing, writhing and flailing.  And failing.  Even resorting to PMs to yell at me some more.  As bad as you may think I am, at least I've never resorted to that.  He's completely ludicrous and seems not to know it.
I can't help but play "Whack-A-Tard" with him.  My bad.  But all he needs to do is STFU.
Last, I did not say YOU were "different and interesting." I said your thread was and I stand by that. But it wasn't the first time I've complimented you.  Far from it. You just have a poor memory because, truth be told (stealing GaG's line) it's been a while.
You know for a fact I've been friendly to you at times.  Then you blow it by getting on your high horse and acting like a know-it-all. I hope you can break that pattern.

As Nicky has pointed out, he simply can't stop doubling down on stupid.

it's whack-a-troll,

and he is now your personal whipping boy, he belongs to the community. You've just been hogging him tonight.

I wonder since the Turdster has so much time on his hands to research your every post if he would be interested in counting how many posts he has made responding these so called attacks on his imaginary good name? I bet you they out number yours. Any takers?

My brain just doesn't calculate words like that directed to me on any level, jokingly or not. Any man anywhere who enjoys calling a woman names, can't and won't earn my respect. Period. Funny, guess who the last guy was who called me a 'dummy'......exactly. Ha. Like I have time for that crap. He's dateless I'm afraid.  

I was in over my head.

but that's about it.

He is a whiny, sniveling, ass-kissing, simple-minded, annoying mangina.  He's just not smart enough to be a real troll.  But we will have to watch his development.
Which begs the question: where is he today? Do you think he's been hospitalized for blunt force trauma? Did TS serially PM him to shut his fool's mouth? Did my putting him on ignore cause his head to explode?
Earth to Tardy: I took you off ignore this morning, so you're free -- at least for a while -- to pester me with PMs telling me how horrible I am and calling me names.

First you say I "lost you," implying you didn't read my post after that but you go on to quote back to me something I wrote at the end of it.
Not content with that, you say I "am incapable of any compliment." Yet, all I did was correct your twisting of what I wrote.  If you want me to compliment you, twisting what I write is the wrong way to get it.
Geezk!


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